Any of the astrologers want to tackle this?

[Cleita]

An acquaintance of mine seems to attract trouble. Between the women he dates and unpleasant interactions with neighbors he has had to resort to threatening to get restraining orders on people who threaten him. The fact is he is very careful in his personal life, law abiding and actually doesn't do anything to get in anyone's way. He's also a friendly and pleasant person to interact with socially. He said he was going to ask his shrink if there was any reason he might be attracting problems. I said it could also be his stars. His birthday January 26, 1970, in Mexico City, Mexico. He doesn't know the time. Anybody have any ideas what is wrong?

[ricochetastroman]

1. Hi Clieta

Stars, or planets, are not responsible for problems.

Without his birth time, here are some indicators that COULD mirror what is happening...
The Venus next to his Sun indicates he's probably very friendly.

1. He is an Aquarian, ruled by Uranus, and Uranus stirs up trouble some times without even "meaning" to be disruptive
2. The Saturn square to Venus usually represents hardship with socializing: doesn't trust people. That feeling can be transmitted unconsciously.
3. Uranus opposite Chiron and Mars in Aries can be very aggressive. THis is what is attracting problems. He may not even be aware of it.It is what is being triggered right now.

He may actually be drawing trouble to himself, not because he's too aggressive but because he's probably not ASSERTIVE enough.
Thus, the 1/25/08 ingress of Pluto into Capricorn started to square all of this. He is being tested at telling people to back off; that's what he NEEDS to do, I feel. That's why it's become so grave. I find this pattern all the time with local clients.

His Mars is under attack (from within). Pluto wants him to be stronger.

4. Moon in Virgo next to Pluto can be very critical of others, even if it is being supressed.

I feel sure that you'll find your answer by finding out if his history is full of him avoiding confrontation.
If that is not it, then it's the flip-side, he's being too aggressive and self-oriented. Has to be one of the two with Mars/Uranus/Chiron in Aries.

Hope that helps some

:hi:

[Cleita]

2. Hey ricochetastroman, you have deciphered his personality pretty well.

I will pass it on to him. I guess it wouldn't hurt him to talk to his shrink as well, as it seems as you indicate that he could be triggering these incidents and problems as well sub-consciously.

[ricochetastroman]

3. My personal opinion is that his "shrink" will be of little help

he needs a good astrologer. That'll save him a year or so.
Just, my observation. Astrology charts read right past all the b.s. exterior stuff whether the client
knows its there or not.

Good luck to him. :hi:

[BanzaiBonnie]

4. It looks like Rick is right

From another viewpoint:

I've been studying conscious systems with Mark Dunn. Before he understood the human frequency well enough, he was going higher and higher in vibrational level. He ended up attracting a stalker - for six years. When he finally learned that he had to go into the lower vibrational levels she finally disappeared. He was actually beginning to wonder if the only way to get rid of her was if she was dead.

I had pretty much the same thing happen. High frequency work and I ended up with a stalker. Packing a gun around with me and he finally was gone. And I didn't kill him. Extreme, yes. I understand the karmic consequences if I had acted on such. But now I understand how to go low without acting it out. Low frequency is neither good nor bad. It just is.



The low frequencies can be experienced by visiting a dive bar. You understand what that feels like. If your acquaintance can get into his pelvis and run low frequency then he will likely not attract it. In the duality we live in, we attract the opposite of what we are unless we can also get low. That doesn't mean we have to act on low frequency, just run it in our pelvic area.

If you want to hear any more of what I've been studying, just let me know. I'll be happy to share.

[mysticalchick]

5. I'd love to hear about this, Bonnie

Can you share more (maybe in a separate thread so this one isn't derailed)?

Fascinating!

[OneGrassRoot]

6. I second that....

I don't understand what you're saying but would like to. The concept -- on a strictly energetic level -- of attracting the opposite of how we vibrate (versus "like attracts like") is fascinating.

As an empath, working with lower levels and not getting sucked in by it is very hard for me, but I'd love to learn more about what you're sharing here. :)

:hug:

[Cleita]

7. Hey Bonnie, use this thread if you like to put up that

information. It looks like others would like to know too.

:hi:

[BanzaiBonnie]

8. Thanks for the encouragement

I'll write up some stuff and post it on its own.