Practical Tools for Making Separations - Part 2 - Jim Self

[Shallah Kali]

http://spiritlibrary.com/jim-self/practical-tools-for-making-separations-part-2

Practical Tools for Making Separations - Part 2


“In releasing, you let go of the clinging, and you are made whole again. In releasing and honoring what has been, there may be tears, but there will also be doors opening to future possibilities.” - Quote from Jesus, Love Without End by Glenda Green

Last month I shared a tool that can help you make separations from others whom you find yourself thinking about long after you have left their presence. This month I will share another tool with you that will enable you to give others back the energy they left with you while at the same time calling your own energy back home to you where it belongs.

Jen enjoyed her daily lunchtime walks with Jeffrey, or at least she mostly enjoyed them. They talked about work projects, sports, pets and family dramas. Those were the parts Jen enjoyed. The aspects she didn’t enjoy included Jeffrey’s flirting and inviting her to have dinner with him. She liked him but not in a romantic way. In class, Jennifer used Jeffrey as the subject for this Energy Tool. The following day at about 2 p.m., I received a phone message from Jen. During their daily walk, Jeffrey “out of the blue” apologized for bugging her and hoped they could still be friends! Jen never spoke to him about her irritations, but simply gave him back the attention and energy he had left in her space.

Making Separations - Tool # 2

1. Clear your space to play. Ground and Run Energy.

2. Be comfortable in the Center of Your Head.

3. Imagine or remember a white Rose.

4. Think of someone you’d like to return energy to.

5. Visualize putting him in this Rose and watch what color the Rose turns. That is the color of his energy in your space.

6. Create another Rose next to the first one. This Rose represents you. Notice the difference.

7. Give the command to your friend’s Rose to collect up all of his energy from your Rose.

8. Give the command to your Rose to collect up all of your energy from his.

9. When the Roses are finished exchanging energy, thank your friend and explode his Rose or make it disappear. His energy will return to him where it can benefit him.

10. Now find your Rose again. Fill it with gold and allow it to enter your body. It has the wisdom to travel and refill your system with the energy it has just gathered.

11. Take a moment and completely replenish with your Golden Ball of Light. Be sure to fill those areas of your body that you may have noticed responding to the energy work.

Remember, keeping a person in your conscious awareness or even your subconscious awareness does not benefit either of you.
Jim Self is an author, international speaker, and teacher of the Tools for Mastering Alchemy. This work is in co-creation with Archangels, Ascended Masters and Teachers of Light. Free DVD and Free Tele-Classes. Jim is presenting Free in-person classes and the weekend seminar, Creating the Personal Power Field around North America. www.MasteringAlchemy.com or 775-851-8950 ~ Copyright: You may share this article with your friends as long it is kept whole and our website is included. Thank you.

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[Why Syzygy]

1. Wish I could recommend this OP.

(not allowed in groups)

That's beautiful.

[Delphinus]

2. Wonderful!

What a gentle, loving, affirming way to bless someone out of your life.

[Shallah Kali]

3. kicking as this exercise this helped me

hope it helps all of ya'll who choose to try it :)

[FirstLight]

4. Shallah, where's the first one?

My heart is still breaking over this lost relationship and i NEED to call my wholeness back home.
my tears are SO powerful because i feel like i lost something that i was just beginning to really get 'into' and i feel like i 'shouldn;t have let myself get attached' when it is just my natural state of being to love and care for someone ...

what is the worst is that this fels like teen love broken heart all over again...i was single for 5 years following my ended abusive marriage, and when i open up and trust, I lose...

i want to open myslf up to someone who CAN return all the love i have and give me that cherishing I need and deserve, but after allowing myself to believe in someone again and having to let them go...i don;t know if i am up for it. but the thought of being alone is even a bigger emptyness...maybe i will never know that love that i want...

:cry: i am broken right now and runing energy doesn;t help much.

[Shallah Kali]

6. Dear FirstLight

:hug::hug::hug::hug::hug:

The first part of the exercise is basically the same thing but there might be something useful in the piece so here it is:

http://spiritlibrary.com/jim-self/practical-tools-for-making-separations-part-1

Many of Jim Self's other articles have exercises which might have a technique or variation on something you may already know which might be useful as well. in 'Waves of Change' he wrote about shielding using roses as anchor points to create an octohedron (double pyramid) shaped shield: http://spiritlibrary.com/jim-self/the-waves-of-change 'Zapping the Toaster' suggests energetically releasing anything that does not serve down one's own grounding cord.

Something that helps me when working on an especially painful issue is to start by working with something similar but with much less emotional charge first. For example when dealing with anger maybe working with the memory of a driver who recklessly cut in front of me in tight traffic or when working with feelings of betrayal starting with something like one of the first times I remember being lied to as a kid was by a 1st grade classmate who offered to trade a scratch and sniff sticker I got for a high test score with a better one she had at home. She told me later she lost it on the bus on the way to the school but I felt she was lying and said so. I asked her several more times until she avoided me like the plague :p

Most of all please rember to call back your own energies that you have shared with this loved one and any previous relationships - even non-romantic close relationships. We all tend give bits of ourself away in relationships which why practies like shamanic soulretrieval can be so helpful. Lacking that sort of training I do something that did help me by calling in my guides & highself to gather up all my scattered bits, wrap them pu in a cocoon of light & love to cleanse and heal them if needed, and ask myhigherself to hold on to them until I am ready to integrate those bits back into the rest of me.

I hope you find the assitance you need soon to help heal your wounds :hug:

[FirstLight]

7. You Rock....

you know that?


I have been interested in soul retrieval for a long time. and recently started learning a 'timeline' technique. Just observing the event, sensing the feeling as energy in the body, then smoothing the event on my 'timeline' and coming back to present to smooth the event trigger HERE. It seems similar ...

but i will do some practice on retrieval today & tomorrow and se what happens, thanks!

[Shallah Kali]

8. Yeah that is the technique

and I always always forget to add once the charge is released recreate the event so it did not happen. My teacher always has me do this with past lives as well as present life work as well to create a healither energy pattern that is NOT that of victim/perp but of the third path that I with or without help somehow avoided being done in by witch hunters or other nasty fate.

Thank you for the compliment and remember you too rock! people do poisitve projection as well as negative so when you see someone do something you admire remember to notice the bit of you that resonates with that :) I know it is hard to see especially at times like this but please remember to acknowledge the good stuff in you not just working on the not quite so good stuff!

[I Have A Dream]

5. Thanks, Shallah; this is wonderful! I didn't see it before, so thanks for kicking it.

:hug: