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First, I'm back from an overnight stay at the hospital again, every cardiac test you can think of (due to a reaction from chemo) but I've got a clean slate. I also supposedly have a job (yay!) that seems to be officially true - start date is set, hourly rate being finalized, everything else being put into place.
So, the tip story - I'm generally a generous tipper - usually 15 to 20%, often 20%, an exceptional (really exceptional - few but far between) meal I'll even go to 30% or so. Same with little things at diners - a $3 order might get a $1 tip because what the heck and they work hard. Overpriced food or beverages I undertip for, more for what I "think" it should be, and I have no qualms about undertipping (and the rare no-tip) for truly horrible service, but that's rare.
Anyway, my wife and I ate at the Siam Orchid, a Thai place, in Nashua, NH. They have one in Concord, and it's always been excellent. I didn't know they had expanded, but apparently they did, so we ate there for lunch.
The bill was kind of high - $43 (including tax, which we ignore when tipping); it turns out my lunch special did not have a price listed and they wanted $17.95 for it (most dishes are $8.95 to $12.95). My wife was paying and thought this was a bit high, and so she left a $5 tip instead of a $6 tip.
She gets up to go, I'm getting my stuff (jacket, whatever) together, the waitress zooms in for the check instead of waiting. I cynically wonder if she's looking at her tip. Well, she was. The check was served on one of those card plates; printed on the plate (under the check) is a list of information for "international travelers" including customs, how it's "done in America", and among other things, "How to tip".
Well, she stops me, and points this out on the plate, and the plate suggests that 15% to 20% is suggested. Ours, of course, clocked in at about 12% this time. My wife, who signed the check, wanted to know what was going on. I explained that the waitress wanted a bigger tip.
We both were somewhat flummoxed - I have never had this happen before. Even if they might go off grumbling (rarely happens) I've never had one approach insisting on a larger tip. I explained that it was a gratuity and it represents what was deserved and we thought it was appropriate given the circumstances and left.
On my way out I was thinking I should have said "you're right, this needs to be corrected", and then correct it down to $2 or something, but I wasn't thinking that fast. I did email the owner, but haven't heard back. Even if we had left nothing, it would have been inappropriate on her part - at most she could have said that she saw there was no tip and was wondering if we were dissatisfied with the service, but we didn't leave nothing, we just left $5 instead of $6. I thought it was ridiculous for her to have done that.
Anyone else come across that? Any front-house people ever find a situation where you wanted to confront the customer over the tip? What happened?
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