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steven johnson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 08:38 AM
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How to make yourself happier
OK, think happy thoughts. After that what?


The Science of Happiness study said thinking of a positive thing that happened the day before was by far the most effective way for people to cheer themselves up.

It could be something as simple as a great cup of coffee or meal, watching a good film or television programme, or things going well at work.

But – depressingly – one strategy predicted to boost mood was found to be counterproductive, because performing small acts of kindness turned out to have a negative impact on happiness.

The results revealed a 7% increase in cheerfulness after the experiment.


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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 08:44 AM
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1. "...performing small acts of kindness ...
turned out to have a negative impact on happiness." Oh crap. That is so sad. I guess it helps the recipient of the act of kindness happier.

Good information! Thanks! :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 09:03 AM
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2. But if those small acts of kindness come back to you, then you will have additional pleasant
experiences to think about which will make you feel happy. :hi:
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Ilsa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 09:11 AM
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3. That is my hope as well, that the goodness we sow comes back,
maybe three-fold, and the goodness we sow is without expectations.
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Raschel Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 09:34 AM
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4. I'll take that threefold, sister!
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lovecanada56035 Donating Member (51 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 08:34 PM
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5. Spending time with other people?
Always works for me.
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grasswire Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-13-09 02:17 PM
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6. music
never fails for me.
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