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The reason I ask is because, I'm beginning to wonder if HIV/AIDS was the main cause of my Best Friend's death last July, or if it may have only been a contributing factor.
See, the thing is, I recently learned that if you both drink Alcohol AND take Tylenol simultaneously, the Tylenol becomes Toxic, which then causes Liver and Kidney damage. Check the "Alcohol Warning" on a bottle of Tylenol if you think I'm kidding, it's very carefully worded to make it sound like only a minor problem by saying it "may" cause Liver Damage, and it fails to mention Kidney Damage, but I really doubt that something that damaged the Liver wouldn't also damage the Kidneys too.
Anyway, over the last few months, as I've been working through the grieving process, I gathered a lot of info from my friend Randy's Sister, and in addition to her telling me about him having AIDS for 18 years and that he had only sought treatment for it about 4 months before he died after those purple Sarcoma spots started showing up on his legs, she told me that he was having tooth pain, but he didn't go to a Dentist to get it fixed, he just started taking OTC pain killers for his tooth pain, and I think she said it was Tylenol.
Not a big deal, right? Except that he also drank Alcohol quite a bit, and according to his Sister, he started going out drinking pretty much every night during the last month before he died. We are fairly sure he stopped taking the AIDS drugs during the last month too, but we still aren't sure why he started drinking so much that last month.
So what eventually happened was (his official cause of death) was, that his Liver and Kidneys completely shut down and he died after about 4 days in a coma, on a respirator. But, according to one of our mutual friends, who was out drinking with him the night before he went into the coma, she said he seemed like his usual self, not depressed or anything.
I should say first though, that Randy was never one to follow the instructions of authority figures, like doctors (he was always one of those "...stopped taking the pills when he felt better" even if the Doctor said to take them until gone type people), and I doubt he ever read a pill bottle warning label in his life, so this theory is based on that too. He was also dealing with occasional periods of depression too.
So here's what I think actually happened. The combination of his long term use of the Tylenol combined with his drinking, most likely damaged his Liver and Kidneys. Then when he quit taking his AIDS drugs and, at the same time, started drinking even more, while still taking the Tylenol for the increased tooth pain, all combined to finally destroy his Liver and Kidneys, which lead to his unexpected coma and eventual death.
I don't know much about what happens when someone stops taking their AIDS drugs, I just know it's bad, but I do know one thing. Most people don't know how much damage Tylenol does to your Liver and Kidneys when you combine it with Alcohol, and the strategically mild warning on the Tylenol bottle doesn't help much.
So, does this sound about right? Do you think it would be helpful to point out the Tylenol+Alcohol=Liver Damage thing to his Sister and Parents (who, btw, asked me tell anyone who I might happen to tell, that he died of Liver and Kidney failure, not AIDS)? Or would doing so be like opening an old wound?
Any advice would be helpful, thanks.
(I have past post about the death of my friend in my DU Journal, if you're interested in more background info.)
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