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It's what I was talking about in Brian's thread: straight TGs.
Beyond straight TGs, however, there's an interesting subgroup of lesbian and gay TGs who have taken full advantage of being born with the wrong genitalia, and then basically turned around and told the LGB community to fuck off.
I'll explain:
I recall a news article (it would be hard to find a link now, but it was a feature in the SJ Merc) during one of the peaks of anti-same-sex-marriage hysteria (2003 or 2004) about TGs opposed to legalizing same-sex marriage.
Ya'd think they'd all be in our corner, since they know all about unfair persecution. Not these TGs.
The couples who were interviewed were those in which one partner had a sex change (the whole nine yards) after the couple had been married (legally, as man and woman). In other words, a biological male and a biological female got married, and 15 years later, bio-male goes through the op, takes the hormones, and now he is a she.
None of the couples had run into any legal hassles after the sex change -- but all were terrified that, since they were now technically same-sex couples, all the high-profile brouhaha over same-sex marriage might mean the state would notice that they were now same-sex couples, and void their still-in-effect legal marriages.
And every one of them wished that the same-sex marriage issue would go away -- and that gay people would just shut the fuck up, because we were endangering their legal standing as marrieds.
Which is the first and last time anybody ever demonstrated how the issue of same-sex marriage could even come close to threatening the "sanctity" of somebody else's marriage.
I was SO pissed off when I read what these couples had to say. How DARE they be so goddamned selfish?!
But then, in their minds, I guess, they've got the best of both worlds -- they got theirs, so fuck everybody else.
Realistically, I assume (but have no idea) that the vast majority of L/G TGs who get legally married to MOTOGender don't plan premeditatively to take advantage of the system by virtue of their chromosomes; I assume these TGs struggle with their TGism all their lives and try, futilely, to fulfill the expected role of the bio-gender they were born with. And I assume that when they finally come out and say, "I gotta get that op!" it comes as a severe shock to their spouses.
In other words, I'm not accusing the majority of L/G TG's of doing this, or even thinking about it.
But the ones who have are essentially gay people (if you're a MTF married to another woman, you're a lesbian, no?) who have sold out all other gay people.
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