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This concept that 'educated and wealthy' parents are to be assumed to be more tolerant and accepting is really some vile thinking.
No, actually it's experience. We all have them, and we're allowed to have them. I don't meet a lot of people from upper income and education homes whose parents or community rejected them over coming out, relative to those I have met who complain of being from more humble and less accepting origins.
Hateful post, across the board.
Oh stick it, if I were being hateful you'd know it. Unless you have a perceptual disorder, you're just being some of of holier than thou type, and it's crap. When I read things like this, I wonder if you have any friends, if you try to keep them on eggshells around you, and if you have any idea what it's like to simply speak your mind. I know you probably think of it as being sensitive, but it's not, it's just dishonest.
How interesting that it 'sickens' you to be reading this, not that people have to deal with this, but that you have to read about it.
No, that's your dishonest way of characterizing what I wrote. What I actually wrote was that it sickens me that it's 30 years later (in my life since the age of the author in case you didn't understand that) and I am still reading coming out stories, when by now there should be no new coming out stories, because gay people would simply mature in their families like straight people do.
Backwoods stevedore? I mean, you do understand that a stevedore is a dockside job, and that the backwoods has no freight docks? Is it the physical labor or the lack of money that you think creates bigotry?
it's intellectual shorthand, sorry. It refers to a genre of coming out stories from the past, the drama and strain of coming out to your salt of the earth up from the mines (yes, I know that mines don't have stevedores or woods) father who didn't go to school past (pick a grade) and who didn't understand, and didn't accept because of his lack of worldliness, his blind faith or indoctrination, etc... that he was both upset because you were going to Hell and because his dream for his family was being killed.
I'm allowing of course that you really didn't get what I wrote and that you aren't simply being an ass.
You seem to think that a backwoods stevedore is intrinsically better than say, an underwater dentist?
Oh well, so much for allowances.
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