I think all of the choices are all wrapped up together
All of the birth control/abortion choices that is."Pro-choice"
means in favour of women having the power or opportunity to choose abortion, i.e. in favour of abortion being legal.
No one's position on the legality of abortion determines his/her position on any kind of pregnancy prevention method. No one's position on any kind of pregnancy prevention method determines his/her position on the legality of abortion.
The issue is, and always has been,
the legality of abortion.
What birth control choices a woman makes or does not make will affect whether she will be considering getting an abortion or not.Indeed. And whether abortion is legal will largely determine whether she is able to get one if she chooses it.
The choice a woman makes, in respect of pregnancy prevention, abortion, or anything else, is her business.
Whether she is able to exercise that choice is a matter of public policy, and the position is that she must be able to exercise that choice is the pro-choice position.
There are lots and lots of choices a woman may make, apart from birth control choices, that will affect whether she is in a position to consider abortion. I'm not hearing you beating on the anti-choice brigade because, for instance, it isn't out there operating programs to persuade young women to stay in school, even though we know that a woman with good economic opportunities is less likely to engage in behaviour that will jeopardize those opportunities, or to be unwilling to continue a pregnancy because she can't afford to rear a child.
Gosh, I guess the anti-choice brigade's failure to operate student retention programs for at-risk girls, and lobby for affordable child care and decent maternity benefits, loses them some of that moral high ground.
As of course it does -- since they are the ones trying to force people to do things that are not in their best interests and doing nothing to help them avoid the need to do those things, or deal with the consequences of not being able to do them.
"Pro-choice people", on the other hand, are advocating that women be permitted to make their own choices. Period.
I think it is rather tragic that the more some people might be convinced that abortion is bad and then if they are convinced that IUDs and pills are bad - then she is far more likely to use a birth control method that doesn't work particularly well and to have an unplanned pregnancy.Well do you really? Odd how you'd be working so hard to persuade people of exactly that, then -- that IUDs and the pill are "bad" if one believes that abortion is "bad". Aren't you beginning to feel rather more like part of the problem than part of the solution?
Why is it such a terrible thing to contemplate a possible alternative?Who is saying that anything is a terrible thing -- or stopping anybody from contemplating anything?
If a woman doesn't want to use an IUD or the pill, no one on this earth is stopping her from not using them, or from using any alternative she likes.
Why on earth does the responsibility for arranging other options for such women rest on people who see no need for any other options, and who have lots of other more worthwhile things to spend their energy on?
If you decide that Round-Up is bad because it makes the faeries in your garden sick, is it my job to provide you with an alternative form of dandelion control?
If somebody thinks that IUDs and the pill are bad, and persuades women not to use them, surely the responsibility for providing those women with an alternative rests on
them, the people who persuaded them not to use the perfectly good option already available to them.
Odd how
they don't seem to be doing the job. Seen the anti-abortion league handing out condoms to teenagers lately?
Yes, the
mala fides -- complete bad faith -- of the people doing the persuading is not a basis for rejecting the idea they're trying to persuade someone of. But there is nonetheless a fuck of a lot more evidence of
their bad faith than there is of bad faith on the part of the "pro-choice people" whose integrity you have been merrily impugning, and so a sensible person would look very closely at the idea they are propagating.
They
do have an interest in the matter -- they
do want women to be without control over their sexuality and fertility, which is
not in women's interest; it is in the interest of people who benefit from women being powerless. "Pro-choice people" do
not have an interest in the matter; they want women, and no one else, to have that control and to have the power they are entitled to as human beings and members of societies.
You say that "pro-choice people" do have an interest in propagating false information about IUDs, because if the "real" information were known women could lose some of their control over their sexuality and fertility.
The answer to that is that "pro-choice people"
don't give a damn how IUDs work, because it would be as unconstitutional to prohibit the use of IUDs
no matter how they work as it is to prohibit abortion.
As far as anyone, pro-choice or otherwise, wanting to persuade women to use IUDs and therefore having an interest in propagating false information about how IUDs work, your argument simply makes no sense. If what such people want is for women to have the ability to regulate their fertility, then they already advocate that women have the widest possible range of options.
Lots of women are not suitable candidates for IUDs. Those women
are provided with information about alternative methods. Why would anyone think that women with fussbudget "pro-life" scruples about IUDs
would not be provided with information about alternatives? What evidence is there that such women
are not provided with that information?
Like I said -- what cocoon do these women you are so concerned about live in, that they have heard about IUDs and been persuaded of their evils, but have never heard of condoms or diaphragms?
Where are these women whose interests you are so concerned about?I don't think that having one method that is pretty darn sure to stop the pregnancy and an alternate method that is likely (but not foolproof) to stop the conception is that bad of a suggestion.And here I lose you.
You seem to be suggesting that women be advised to use the IUD but also to use, say, a condom, so that, if she happens to have a viable ovum in her body, the condom will stop sperm from reaching it ... but if the condom fails, the IUD will stop a fertilized ovum from implanting. And this responds to the fussbudget woman's concerns ... how?
(I also think there are probably a lot of women out there who don't know they are in the very beginning stages of pregnancy when they are.)And I'm absolutely sure you're right, and that in fact most women don't know when they are in the "very beginning stages of pregnancy".
What it has to do with anything on the table here, I have no idea.
I gather that
you claimed to have had symptoms of pregnancy, as distinct from pronounced but common symptoms of PMS, while using an IUD. You also claim that an IUD prevents implantation of a fertilized ovum; I haven't seen you claim that an IUD causes an implanted ovum to be expelled. So you're apparently claiming that you have experienced symptoms of pregnancy
before the fertilized ovum implanted.
First result in a google search for
pregnancy symptoms implantation:
http://www.babymed.com/docs/english/21.asp Many women have typical pregnancy symptoms even before they miss their period. However, most of the typical pregnancy symptoms and signs are directly related to the pregnancy hormone hCG. Small amounts of hCG enter the blood stream several days after implantation, about 8-10 days after ovulation. Thus, typical pregnancy symptoms typically do not appear until the hCG has reached sufficient levels which is about 1-2 weeks after you miss your period (3-4 weeks after ovulation, or 2-3 weeks after implantation), at a time when the hCG has risen enough. Nothing will really confirm a pregnancy except a positive pregnancy test.
The first symptoms and the time of their appearance are listed here:
Temperature drop (dip) on Implantation day
Implantation bleeding or spotting: (a slight staining of a pink or brown color on average 8-10 days after ovulation)
Lower abdominal cramps
A positive blood hCG pregnancy test: About 10 days after fertilization/ovulation
An elevated BBT curve for 15+ days without a menstrual period
A missed menstrual period (amenorrhea)
A positive urine pregnancy test (HPT): As early as 10-14 days after ovulation/fertilization or 3-4 days after implantation. The more sensitive the HPT the earlier the pregnancy test will be positive
Nausea: as early as 2-4 weeks after ovulation (BrJObGyn 1989b;96:1304)
Nipple or breast tenderness: 3-4 weeks after conception ...
And the third, hitting more or less randomly:
http://www.webwomb.com/symptoms.htmThe onset and degree of pregnancy symptoms will vary within women. Many women experience them within days of conception, others take a few weeks before pregnancy symptoms kick in and a lucky few feel no discomfort at all. The early pregnancy symptoms listed on this page generally can be felt once implantation occurs (8 - 10 days from ovulation) and will lessen after the first trimester.
So I'm afraid that your claim sounds more like evidence of ESP than evidence that your IUD failed to prevent fertilization of an ovum. There
are no symptoms of fertilization.