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but that's not the reality for many women who get clandestine abortions because of their own personal situation.
Also, remember that Planned Parenthood just doesn't perform abortions. I go there to get my depo-provera shots. Many young people go there for pregnancy tests, PAPs, and STD testing.
There have been times where I've gone to PP and realized that I didn't have cash on me---they let me leave my credit card with them while I ran to the ATM to get cash to pay for my Pap, or whatever. It's an inconvenience, but I suppose that it's an inconvenience for ME---
Last quarter in nursing school, I spent a day at PP doing birth control education, giving Depo shots, sitting on on consultations. They sent me there during their open, no-appointment-necessary "Teen Clinic" day.
SO many of those kids--boys AND girls---first question out of their mouth: "My mom (or dad) can't find out I've been here, right?" "You don't tell my parents I came here, do you?" "Can my parents call up and find out if I've been here?"
I live in a city that has a very high population of migrant Hispanic workers. Most of the kids at the clinic that day were Hispanic, were Catholic, and were not to be taking contraception, not to be having sex, not to be having abortions. Not to be getting STD testing, not to be getting AIDS testing. Not to get GYN exams because they're sexually active.
By making it CASH ONLY they (PP) are further affirming their dedication to patient's rights and privacy. There is no way these kids' parents would know they were at PP. There is no paper trail, and HIPAA laws would prevent it anyway.
For you and I---there is no shame in our decision to get whatever medical intervention we need for whatever situation we may feel necessary. For a 15 year old hispanic girl who is going against the wishes of her father, her mother, her church, and her culture, there IS an air of shame around her being sexually active, her possibly having an STD, her possibly being pregnant and unwed. I'm not saying that the shame is warranted, or even logical---but in HER reality, there is a stigma attached to being sexually active outside of marriage, and she (and every woman, man, girl, boy that visits PP for WHATEVER reason) has the right to unmitigated privacy with regards to her sexuality and medical choices.
Thankfully, my local PP just opened a new office which is much larger, much nicer, and not so run-down as the old building they used to be in. It doesn't feel like you're sitting in the lobby of a medical office. It's very soft and designed well. When a young woman comes in for a procedure, she is checked in, sits in the lobby, and then is taken to a separate, more private lobby where she waits and then is taken to the exam room.
I don't know the exact procedure for women seeking abortions at my local PP, but I do know that they are scheduled for an appointment and asked to come in 15 minutes early to fill out paperwork, and then immediatley have the procedure done---they don't want to add to the stress by having her sit around for hours and hours. They try to get her in, done, and out as quickly as possible, although they do allow the woman to stay at the clinic as long after the procedure as she feels necessary and has the option to talk to clinicians and councelors before, during, and after the procedure for as long as necessary.
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