Is content to NOT harass me on the street after I say "no I am not interested",If they can refrain from painting me up as a monster or destroyer of civilization as a scapegoat, if they can be content to not threaten me or my loved ones and demean us, and not deny us the rights of other citizens,not be an asshole to me and try some manipulating crap to try to force me to believe their way, if they don't follow me around like a desperate salesman,or try to use their churches to influence law and government to cater to THEIR particular religious system,I don't care what anyone else believes really if they do not use their belief to justify control or tyranny.. You must be allowed to be you I must likewise be permitted to be me and if we disagree whoop de doo.You have no right to take away my rights because disagreeing and being different from you and not believing any particular religion or god(s)is not a danger to you or an interference with your pursuit of happiness.
But If a religionist believes he is on a mission where he MUST make me believe as he does or else..If he is compelled to make me live their sects lifestyle or in some way be as they are,whether I consent or not ,that is a control problem,a kind of narcissism that is really sick and hive-like and it leads to holy wars and Matthew Sheppard types of crimes by zealots.
The minute someone else's so called faith is used like a weapon to justify and excuse the eroding of my safety,my civil rights,my mental health,my space,my right to be who I am and think for myself and explore the unknown my way for myself .
The time for my tolerance of that "faith" is over.
Because That religion is a threat to my well being and the well being of others. And quite possibly if they get a bigger stranglehold on the culture or in government they could endanger my LIFE.
That kind of seeking of control of others lives in the name of"faith" and religious belief systems is intolerable and unethical in any society that as an ideal, respects peoples freedom,respects civil rights and honors respectful relationships in a diverse community.
You see if there was no compulsory puritanical one lord kinds of religions there would not be this kind of severe neurotic homophobia problem in cultures full of believers who cannot question"faith"..this mental aberration is perpetuated and agitated through the control based-bigoted hierarchies too often found in dogmatic faith over reason religions, bibles and churches.If there was a place in "faith" for doubt about the "absolutes" put forth by religious claims and"faith",than faith would transform from a mindless abeyance of dogma into exploring the unknown and central church authority figures would lose it's power,authority and dominance over the believers beliefs..
Religions that can somehow tolerate having a two faced god who tortures people it said it created , who don't do as it wants,even though it gave them free will,is a sadist. If these confused people bullied by their gods, wouldn't be trying to set up a theocracy here to save their own egotistical ass by bullying people like me it wouldn't be so bad to be around them..That hypocrisy in the "monotheists" god that is reflected in the believers to me is obscene and an ugliest form of moral relativism.
Too many religious people in the pursuit of certainty which does not exist in this reality have lost their sense of humane ethics when they excuse the notion thier'special' religion and chosen kind of "faith" justifies all sorts of unethical abuses of power just because their so called god of love gets offended so they gotta please it or else.
If they like having a tyrant god fine for THEM. But I don't have to accept it or like it when these people try to tell me how to be..
Christianity and other monotheist religions have a very strong narcissistic core that taints any altruism they offer.These religions will deny it but it is there.In the real world abuse of power by people of faith is still abuse of power and it is wrong when the victims are NOT HARMING YOU by existing no matter what the excuses the churches cook up.
And what do you do to a traitor to the sanctity of human rights who wants to force you to be their religion and be like them ? Agitating for theocracy in a country that has a tradition of freedom? I fight them and I denounce them.I denounce control based ,custodial religions because ultimately they are narcissistic ,they want me to be someone I am not and they want to take my freedoms away and make my life subjected to their religious authority system,and I don't want to live like them at all. I do not recognize their empty authority and these control freak puritans HATE that so they use force in warping secular laws or through zealot thugs.. So I will fight such religionists bullshit and call it what it is..when I see it even if it offends..
The bill of rights is a noble ideal.. it was written a spirit of SECULAR freedom ,a rare sanity and inspiring ethical wisdom, that rigid custodial type religions and their adherents find scary,because they cannot control it,they cannot cope with real freedom to the point they have a disciplining freedom crushing god in their heads. So if religions seek to interfere with me and try to control my life,like their god controls them ,just because I offend their god or don't believe ,I will deal with that problem in THEM accordingly.It will get as ugly as it has to be to stop them from harassing me or endangering others rights..
The bill of rights is a noble ideal... not a suicide pact.
For ethics to matter at all to anyone..the happiness and suffering of others must matter to all of us.We all find happiness in our own ways and pursue it as is our right as long as we harm no one else or violate their consent.. And sadly for some faith ridden followers securing their own game of control over how others find happiness and domination of others,and their thirst to violate others consent matters more than life itself.
I will not tolerate abusers of power even when religionists set about to abuse and redefine the very definition of freedom ,ethics or civil rights as a tool to excuse their own narcissistic desire to dominate me and coerce others submit to their system of beliefs. Understand.I will be free regardless of anyone's beliefs or opinions of me.I will care about the happiness of others up until the point until they actively seek to destroy the happiness in me or in others and deny us the right to be when we are not harming them.This is the essence of live and let live.Right now religion is stifling others rights and lives.It is tyranny and the liberal religionists are not standing up against and denouncing and taking actions to stop the narcissistic tyrannical puritan bullies running roughshod over the sublime spirituality in their own faiths are betraying me and millions of others and refusing to protect even their own freedoms and rights from the "hive mind" of monotheistic fundamentalism...
Think on this..The False Choice of Pacifism
Pacifism is generally considered to be a morally unassailable position to take with respect to human violence. The worst that is said of it, generally, is that it is a difficult position to maintain in practice. It is almost never branded as flagrantly immoral, which I believe it is. While it can seem noble enough when the stakes are low, pacifism is ultimately nothing more than a willingness to die, and to let others die, at the pleasure of the world's thugs. It should be enough to note that a single sociopath, armed with nothing more than a knife, could exterminate a city full of pacifists There is no doubt that such sociopaths exist, and they are generally better armed. Fearing that the above reflections on torture may offer a potent argument for pacifism, I would like to briefly state why I believe we must accept the fact that violence (or its threat) is often an ethical necessity.
Religion is nothing more than bad concepts held in place of good ones for all time. It is the denial-at once full of hope and full of fear-of the vastitude of human ignorance.
A kernel of truth lurks at the heart of religion, because spiritual experience, ethical behavior, and strong communities are essential for human happiness. And yet our religious traditions are intellectually defunct and politically ruinous. While spiritual experience is clearly a natural propensity of the human mind, we need not believe anything on insufficient evidence to actualize it. Clearly, it must be possible to bring reason, spirituality, and ethics together in our thinking about the world. This would be the beginning of a rational approach to our deepest personal concerns. It would also be the end of faith.
http://www.thirdworldtraveler.com/Sam_Harris/West_Of_Eden_TEOF.html