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are still members of the Klu Klux Klan, that everyone owns a confederate flag, and if they are caught in the wrong place at the wrong time, they may be hung by a noose for being a Yank. I cannot tell you how many of my friends were absolutely scared for me to go to college in South Carolina. They couldn't believe I'd go down their with my VT, liberal ideas and live to see them on the semester break... I went to college in 1997 and graduated in 2001. My mom gave me a big lecture about shutting my mouth and not offending people. She didn't want me to get hurt.
So, there is this huge disconnect with people in VT about the south, and, in general, the entire Northeast area, what the south is really about. My mom now loves it and plans on buying a winter home in either of the Carolinas, depending on where I end up eventually (I'm in FL right now--until we have my step-son's custody worked out, we'll stay here... and we also just bought a home). Anyway, the people aren't nearly as bad as the politicians still make them out to be. Tourism is a booming industry, especially along the beaches and in the mountains. Southern hospitality is nice and its genuine. Also the food is to die for. You will fall in love with most of the people. (I can't say everyone down there is a gentlemen--there are still those rednecks, and some are still un-educated). At first, it almost seems fake... how can people be so nice.. training starts early and is ingrained in the children as they grow. It is No Sir, Yes M'am. Opening doors for women and men paying for the whole date entirely. Also, I had less conflict from my southern friends when I was dating a black man, than I did from my Northern friends. My Northern friends were openly bigoted and disgusted by my relationship with my boyfriend at the time... like I said I graduated in 2001. Eventually we broke up... he was a year ahead of me, and it was a college relationship, but we still remain friends.
Anyway, there is this disconnect in New England with Edwards... They still don't trust the southerners. They still have wild ideas of what happens in the south. And I don't really know how Edwards would really connect with the Northeast, other than to prove himself once elected.. much like Clinton did. I married a Carolinian gentleman. He dresses complimentary to me (we look good as a couple). He wears rings and a chain and a watch and a guys bracellet. Wear's a mean suit and tie, and a wonderful smile (dimples included--he's also part Native American, tall, dark, and boyishly handsome). He smells good. His hair has to be done when going places, or a hat is on his head. He cares about proper teeth maintenance and still maintains white teeth, even though he smokes. He's a great dad. Wonderful, strong, and stearn. He's the "man" of the house, but recognizes that without me, he wouldn't be where he is today without my strong influence (and he's not afraid to say so to anyone at anytime). He shares a lot of qualities I see in Edwards.. Perhaps why I trust him more than others. Edwards is listening to America and he's paying attention and he's not going to play politics this time (it didn't work before)... he's using his name status... but has really created policy and a back bone and a bigger heart this time around. I think he is angry. I think he does want real change. I do think he wants to try and make this world a better place for his children and my children too.
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