think of some productive ways to fight back and begin to change people's ways of thinking about this subject?
I couldn't concentrate at all at work today thinking about this story.
I posted a bitter comment last night about how hopeless I feel about the way the government treats gay people in the military, and only two people responded. :(
I came across too angry. It's no wonder nobody responded and why nobody cares.
I am so unspeakably sad about this person (Bleu), who is a linguist in Arabic. He was thrown in the garbage because he is gay.
I try to act rough and tough a lot of times responding to anti-gay bigotry to help cope with and mask my despair.
But the truth is I'm just worn out. :cry:
They're kicking one person after the next out of the service....placing bigotry above national security.
I know there are so, so many problems in the world right now that are way more important than this..
However, this is a tragic situation that can be fixed so much easier than peace.
We're firing soldiers because they're gay. They're gay and that's good enough to destroy them.
How can this be and how can we let this happen? It just can't be 2006.
I don't know what to do. I'm going to call my senators (Boxer and Feinstein) on Monday.
I also want to organize some events but I don't know what else.
Can you guys help me with some ideas? Please?
I feel so sick to my stomach that I don't want to eat. I don't feel like anyone cares.
At least I can understand why some people are opposed to gay marriage.
This I cannot understand. It's not fair. We didn't choose to be this way. How can you fire a valuable linguist like this?
Please, if anyone who has experience dealing with discriminatory issues such as this, and has any ideas on how I can begin trying to change this policy, could you help me?
I don't know this young man who was recently kicked out, but I am devastated for him.
Thank you so much for listening and caring.
As angry as I can be at time, you are my family. :hug:
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Army dismisses gay Arabic linguistA decorated sergeant and Arabic language specialist was dismissed from the U.S. Army under the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, though he says he never told his superiors he was gay and his accuser was never identified.
Bleu Copas, 30, told The Associated Press he is gay, but said he was "outed" by a stream of anonymous e-mails to his superiors in the 82nd Airborne Division at Fort Bragg, N.C.
"I knew the policy going in," Copas said in an interview on the campus of East Tennessee State University, where he is pursuing a master's degree in counseling and working as a student adviser. "I knew it was going to be difficult."
An eight-month Army investigation culminated in Copas' honorable discharge on Jan. 30 — less than four years after he enlisted, he said, out of a post-Sept. 11 sense of duty to his country.
The "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy, established in 1993, prohibits the military from inquiring about the sex lives of service members, but requires discharges of those who openly acknowledge being gay.
The policy is becoming "a very effective weapon of vengeance in the armed forces" said Steve Ralls, a spokesman for the Servicemembers Legal Defense Network, a Washington-based watchdog organization that counseled Copas and is working to repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell."
Copas said he was never open about his sexuality in the military and suspects his accuser was someone he mistakenly befriended and apparently slighted.
More than 11,000 service members have been dismissed under the policy, including 726 last year — an 11 percent jump from 2004 and the first increase since 2001.
That's less than a half-percent of the more than 2 million soldiers, sailors and Marines dismissed for all reasons since 1993, according to the General Accountability Office.
But the GAO also noted that nearly 800 dismissed gay or lesbian service members had critical abilities, including 300 with important language skills. Fifty-five were proficient in Arabic, including Copas, a graduate of the Defense Language Institute in California