This supports exactly what you are saying:
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(From Transcript of Videotaped interview, 01/11/94):
HOWELL: "I'm pretty straightforward, always have been, if somebody's acting out. If somebody tackles me in public, I'll tackle them in public. Otherwise I'm pretty careful about doing it behind closed doors. I probably get by with stuff that a white male boss couldn't get by with."
Moorhus
: "What kinds of things?"
HOWELL: "Oh, putting my arm around somebody, calling someone an "as*hole." It may have been in jest, but if I was a male, I wouldn't be calling a female employee an "as*hole." And I may call one of the guys and say, "Aw, don't be an as*hole."
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HOWELL: "What I wanted to say, in Texas lingo, would be "AMF." You know what "AMF" is?"
Moorhus: "No."
HOWELL: "Adios, mother f*cker."
more of the same at:
http://letters.salon.com/news/feature/2006/01/21/ombudsman/view/index1.html?show=all&order=asc