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Edited on Sat Nov-06-04 12:14 PM by ModerateGal
a lot of people in these forums call independents and red state people "stupid", "idiots", "bible-thumpers", "bigots" etc, etc, etc. just because they have basic disagreements about priorities. Calling people names and implying they are stupid for disagreeing creates backlash, resentment and a desire to ignore whatever common sense argument you are making. No one is going to listen when the person talking implies they so much smarter that the listener.
It would help if some would stop judging entire states by a segment of evangelicals that live there. There is a clear-cut subgroup that is winnable and it doesn't require changing the entire Democratic platform or advocating discrimination. It requires only that you change the attitude toward them, listen to their concerns with respect and remind them of more important common ground. Yeah, you won't convince the evangelicals, but they are only PART of the base in these red states.
I live in a red state and though I vote Democratic, I know good people who don't. The overarching theme of why thy don't is that Democrats look down on their belief system. The have tons of individual reasons, but it always comes down to the assumption that the Democratic party doesn't respect their lifestyle. Clinton never looked down on them and he was able to persuade them to vote for their own financial interest above value issues.
I firmly believe that if ANY of the moderate Democratic candidates who hailed from a rural area had been at the top of the ticket, we would have won enough votes to overcome even DRE voting theft. Graham, Clark, Edwards and Dean all knew how to deal with rural people. Even Larry Sabato, the political guru in Virginia, said that the Democrats would have won places like Arkansas, Ohio, Missouria and West Virginia if they had just picked a candidate who was down to earth and a tiny bit more moderate. Those qualities matter in the red states and could have reached non-evangelicals who also voted for Bush. Bush has bent over backward to present himself as the antidote to "urban elites" and this is a highly calculated to reach rural voters.
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