The myth of small governmentYou are the governmentNo one will argue more vehemently than I will that the average person isn't involved enough in the workings of government. Most Americans are far too apathetic, and many who aren't feel constant frustration over their own inability to effect real change. Money plagues the political process.
Nevertheless, we still live in a democracy, and voters still have ultimate responsibility for the officials and policies of our government. The common rhetoric of conservatives referring to "those folks in Washington spending your money" draws a picture of the government as a malevolent Them that's out to get its hands on as much of your hard-earned cash as possible.
Don't believe a word of it. The government is--or should be--society's efforts to do collectively the important tasks we can't accomplish individually. And this means more than building roads and throwing criminals in jail. It means helping those in need and supporting the things that make life worthwhile. Government can be our best selves. We should think of it as something essential--not external--to our lives.
We are the government, and the taxes we pay are not robbery. They are the portion of our resources we devote to making our country a decent place to live.