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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:44 PM
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Had a strange encounter with a woman today & don't know what to think
My friend and I were standing by his Jeep drinking the beverages we just got from Dunkin' Donuts. A woman, probably in her twenties, is walking down the street and carrying an artificial long-stemmed rose. She says to my friend (about me), "Is she your wife or girlfriend?" He says no. She hands me the rose, pats me on the upper arm/shoulder, smiles and says, "you're beautiful" and then continues walking down the street. HUH?

What was that? :shrug:
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steve2470 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:50 PM
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1. hmm...
Edited on Thu Sep-01-11 08:51 PM by steve2470
1- she's joking or 2- she was being sincere..... I have no idea beyond that.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:53 PM
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3. Yeah, I have no idea either.
It was so odd. She didn't look like a wacko, but then again you can't always tell by appearance. My friend joked, "maybe she was hitting on you," but I kind of doubt it because she just kept going.
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Xipe Totec Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:58 PM
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5. Random act of kindness
We are so unused to it, we don't know what to make of it.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:18 PM
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9. You're right about that.
We don't know what to make of it. We tend to be automatically suspicious of everything and anything.
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Skip Intro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:29 PM
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12. +1
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rurallib Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:51 PM
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2. sounds like you were hit on.
but no info was given out - odd.
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 08:54 PM
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4. My friend said that to me jokingly.
But like you said, no information given out. She just kept going. And why the heck was she carrying a rose with her (unless she bought it for someone who stood her up and then just gave it to a random person she saw)? :shrug:
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7wo7rees Donating Member (913 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:18 PM
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10. She was tired of carrying it.
She wasn't his wife or girlfriend either.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:02 PM
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6. My dear Kat45...
Hm. Maybe she was high?

But you are good-looking...

So, there's that!

I guess I wouldn't read too much into it...she just wanted to give the rose to you...

Enjoy! I hope it's a pretty one.

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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:17 PM
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8. Why thank you, Peggy.
Though I didn't look so good today: didn't even have any makeup on. LOL

Her being high is a possibility.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:04 PM
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7. That was nice.
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:27 PM
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11. I think Xipe Totec is right: a random act of kindness.
A number of years ago, my wife and I were out for a nice dinner. She was wearing a very classy purple pantsuit. For a while, she had begun to feel unattractive as she aged and put on a little weight. My wife is a former dancer and runway model, and aging and gaining weight, even if "only a little", was very depressing for her.

As we walked along the sidewalk toward the restaurant door, some young lady shouted out her car window: "YOU! You in the purple! You look BEAUTIFUL!"

It lifted my wife's spirits as you can't imagine. Or maybe you can, now.

I still say a silent prayer of thanks for that kind stranger with her well-timed kind word...
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Kat45 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:36 PM
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13. What a nice story!
:-)
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Sep-01-11 09:40 PM
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14. Score!!!
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