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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 01:53 PM Original message |
Read something really profound about alcoholics and relationships that floored me |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
1. I've seen that. Ain't it the truth? nt |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 02:43 PM Response to Original message |
2. The one that really changed me is from that "Struggle for Intimacy" book for |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 03:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. i have a nephew and niece raised in this. the really ironically odd of it all |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 03:00 PM Response to Reply #2 |
5. dupe |
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monmouth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 04:54 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. I've often thought that is oneof the many reasons I failed at relationships |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 02:57 PM Response to Original message |
3. ah, my brother.... that i love dearly. and even in that, i know this to be true. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
6. Are you saying that an alcoholic cannot love others? |
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nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 03:21 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. I think it's more that excessive substance use gets in the way of close relationships. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 05:57 PM Response to Reply #7 |
13. Okay, that makes sense. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 03:46 PM Response to Reply #6 |
8. do you continously steal from and lie to the people you love? |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 04:02 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. I never stole or lied when I was excessively using alcohol |
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MrsBrady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 05:42 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. not all drunks are horse thieves |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 06:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. Not all alcoholics steal and lie |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 06:55 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Do you feel that if you had just tried harder, you could have saved them? Have you ever |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 08:57 PM Response to Reply #15 |
18. My brother could not be helped. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 10:57 AM Response to Reply #18 |
24. Oh, I wish I could give you a hug because I feel like I understand |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 11:43 AM Response to Reply #24 |
25. Thank you for the awesome post. |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 12:51 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. You're welcome. And it's not about growing up, it's just about healing and |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 12:57 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Thank you again. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 08:10 AM Response to Reply #15 |
20. ACOA and now Al Anon meetings and literature have really worked a miracle in my life. |
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stuntcat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 07:02 PM Response to Reply #14 |
16. true |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 08:57 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. I agree totally. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 01:00 PM Response to Reply #16 |
29. Exactly....not everyon can be "fit into this hole".... |
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LiberalLoner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 04:06 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. The love they feel is more akin to need. They need others in order to keep their |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-22-11 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
17. There are different stages of the disease |
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Zorra (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 09:04 AM Response to Original message |
21. Ugh. I've been in 2 relationships with alcoholics. |
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Little Star (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
22. Those things are said in almost every AA meeting.... |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 10:44 AM Response to Original message |
23. Don't really know what to say, but 'sociopath, yes.' |
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rurallib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-23-11 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
26. This would seem to be true no matter what the addiction |
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