And some that help.
Or that is how I see it. The ones that hurt, and kick around, if you make it past them, I think you get some help eventually. Should be able to stand up to what you disagree with. Also not be 'defeated' by happiness, if that is used as an attempt to make you something you are not. Although comfort and help, if you think and feel it is better, that makes sense.
From what I have heard of Tom Petty songs, I like them.
Tom Petty - Free Falling - Official Music Video
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5gqT6En2O78Jessica Alba - Sin City Bar Scene
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lfpKjRitYdEBrothers in Arms - Dire Straits
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=k5JkHBC5lDsBonnie Raitt - I Can't Make You Love Me
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=nW9Cu6GYqxoBonnie Raitt - Nick Of Time
http://www.123video.nl/playvideos.asp?MovieID=407128Dire Straits - Walk of Life
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vZxVC0GB838Constantine - Bring me to life (Evanescence)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dx8d3K_hngwAnd still standing.