Anyone else surprised how hefty Arnold's mistress is? She isn't at all

[snagglepuss]

what I pictured she would be like. The physical difference betwen the two women can not be more stark. I was also shocked to see Maria's wedding photo which shows her to be much less gaunt than she is now. Did Maria fall for the notion that you can't be 'too rich or too thin'? Are men conflicted about the type of women they are attracted to?

[nolabear]

1. *facepalm*

[snagglepuss]

2. I don't understand the response.

[txwhitedove]

3. Happy good morning to you. There is sooo much wrong with your post.

#1, dogs are dogs and the size/shape/color of the bush doesn't much matter.
#2, you'll get locked for starting the 'hefty' fat conversation.
#3, the mistress is older, it happened 14-ish years ago.
#4, don't touch Maria, she's gorgeous and fit.
#5, I give up

[snagglepuss]

5. So it's okay to refer to a woman as a dog? I am referring to older photos

of her. What's with the 'don't touch Maria'? Is she a diety? More to the point I said nothing to dis her other than describe her as gaunt which is an accurate statement.

[txwhitedove]

6. Arnold's the dog. It's an example, similarity for a cheater male or female.

A cheater will cheat and looks aren't necessarily a factor.

Maria has prominent bone structure, but that doesn't mean she's skinny. Again, the sex/cheating isn't about looks.

I was trying to help you understand the :facepalm:

[Throd]

4. Maria always looked like a skeleton to me. I like women with curves.

[auntAgonist]

7. hefty ... surprises you, why?

Is hefty NOT attractive or not as smart?

A man can't be attracted to "hefty" women?


I am afraid I don't quite understand your logic there.

aA

[snagglepuss]

8. When the man in question is Arnold yeah it surprises me.

[Flaxbee]

9. I understand what you're saying... it isn't terribly politically correct, but

I don't think you should be hassled for your question, because it does lead one to wonder why, if Maria is in your bed, you go after the (to be honest, rather plain) housekeeper? Maria did have a fuller figure when she got married 25 years ago, but as women age, if they don't put on weight, their features do tend to become a bit more pronounced as the skin loses resiliency. I see it in myself; I had a babyish face in my 20s, and now 20 years later, I don't look babyish.

Mildred is a substantial woman. I don't think you're saying she isn't attractive, just that she is more solidly built, as many humans are, than Maria, who is fine boned.

I think Arnold is the kind of guy who'll plug it in anywhere he can. And the housekeeper isn't the only one he messed around with, I'm sure. One woman who also claims a 7-year affair is also a different build from Maria - this woman also is very large breasted and sturdy.

Hey - some men like waifs, some men like curves and something to hold on to. Because Arnold is so pumped and cartoonish (or was in his bodybuilding days) a person might have expected him to go after the female pneumatic counterpart, like a Pamela Anderson. He seems to have gone after 1) anything that moves and was a human female, preferring 2)women with big hips, butts and boobs. Who were relatively close to him in age. At least (as far as we know) he didn't go after the 20 year old help. He was busy groping a woman relatively close to his own age as well as (reportedly) her mother, who is definitely older than Arnie.

[snagglepuss]

14. Thank you. I very much appreciate you noting that I said nothing about attractiveness.

You actually have nailed a point that was eluding me, namely that Arnold is a cartoonish figure and that one might assume would go after a female counterpart. The despicable way he treats women makes it evident that he is incapable of seeing women as complex individuals so I wonder why he hit on a housekeeper who does not conform to society's idea of beauty. I think this goes beyond his just wanting to plug it in anywhere he can. I think he is one sick individual who wanted, even if only in his own head, to humiliate his wife, take her down a few notches.

[ChromeFoundry]

10. It's ok to put down an entire religion, smokers, cellphone-drivers...

and stereotype an entire country...
feel free to curse and swear like a... ummm, spaceship-driver..

but don't you EVER use the word 'hefty' around here!

just sayin'

[LeFleur1]

11. For God's Sake

Now men can cheat because a woman is not the shape he wants her to be. What a bunch of dipshits.

[ChromeFoundry]

12. WTF are you talking about?

I didn't condone cheating. I simply stated that people around here don't like anyone to use the word 'hefty'.

There are no lines between the lines to be read.
It is what it is.
Nothing more. Nothing less.

[snagglepuss]

13. LOL how true. I don't attach a negative conotation to the word. I suppose

I could have said 'not svelte' but I think it would have got a similiar reaction.