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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:15 PM
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Am I overreacting?
Today I was informed that I was expected to be at a meeting next week Wednesday from 9:00 am to 4:30 pm. This means I won't get home from work until 5 pm - 5:30 pm. I'm also expected to work my normal shift that starts at 10 pm.

I asked how the heck they figure I'm going to work almost 17 hours and just got a blank look.

I'm thinking I'm not going to go. Yeah, I'll probably get yelled at but seriously? I'm the one who comes in at a moments notice to cover 3rd shift and I don't think it should be allowed to force someone to work 17 hours just for a stupid 8.5 hour meeting. (Please note: This does not affect just me, the person who works my days off will also have the same issue and he's no happier about it.)
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:21 PM
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1. that's a hell of a meeting, let me guess...
team-building or some such corporate bullshit?
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:23 PM
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3. Excellent guess, Kali...
However did you know?
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Kali Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:31 PM
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11. yeah the 8.5 hours is a clue
:rofl:


actually if you have a good facilitator they can be good experiences, but oh man, I have been to some put on by govt agencies that were pretty farcical.
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-04-11 10:09 AM
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16. I won't say this guy is terrible...
Just not worth missing sleep over. Then again so few things in life are worth missing sleep.
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nolabear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:22 PM
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2. A couple questions:
Does this happen often?

Is the meeting for a good reason?

Will attending be beneficial to you?

You now, the short term pain/long term gain thing.
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:25 PM
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5. Answers...
Does it happen often? Not this long. We usually have monthly meetings which require me to get out of bed in the middle of my sleep to attend, but I still go.

No, the meeting is not for a good reason. This speaker has been here before and I really didn't learn anything in the class that was helpful to my position.

I cannot honestly say that attending would not be beneficial to me but considering I went to the first one and got very little from it I will surmise not.
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:24 PM
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4. Do you get paid for going to the meeting??
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:26 PM
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6. Yes, but...
As a server it's only $4.69 an hour.
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Angry Dragon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-04-11 12:06 AM
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13. That sucks.........
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some guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:26 PM
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7. No.
It's bullshit. I don't fault you for not wanting to go.

Are you working the Tuesday night also? That's the only thing that would be worse.
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:27 PM
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8. No, I'm not working...
The guy who works my off days will be in the same boat - though he's got a young child so I think he's in more 'pain'. Fortunately for him if he has to go he's got off Wednesday and Thursday.
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some guy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:30 PM
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10. So it cuts into your weekend
sort of. If you're off Tuesday night, Wednesday day counts as part of your "days off" and this cuts into that. Hopefully you have Monday night off as well.

It totally sucks and you shouldn't go.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:28 PM
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9. I worked third shift for many years (LOVED it)...
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...and every once in a while they would forget what kind of grief we gave them
the previous times they told us to come in for a two-hour bullshit meeting (like
Kali said, it was usually "team-building" or something) usually around lunchtime
(OUR sleepytime).
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We would become this grate-on-your-ears whining griping pissing-and-moaning
MACHINE and we'd keep up 'til we found the person that it aggravated the most
(by FAR). It didn't take long for him to exempt us from "unnecessary hardships".
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue May-03-11 11:33 PM
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12. We've tried that...
Sadly our bosses seem to think that the same-old same-old meetings are important.

What irritates me the most is that I write the stupid agendas for the meetings so I already know what it's going to be.
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MiddleFingerMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-04-11 12:35 AM
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14. Times are tough... it ALL depends on whether anything you do would jeopardize your job...
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...and whether worst-case scenario would be devastating.
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This economy has many/most of us by the short-hairs.
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WillParkinson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed May-04-11 12:37 AM
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15. After nearly 25 years and being their only stable person...(physically)
I think it'd be cutting of their noses to spite their faces.

I'm hesitant to pull the union card. Union rules dictate that a person must be given 8 hours between shifts so technically I shouldn't have to come in till 1 am.
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