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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:27 PM Original message |
Need advice for a "cougar" relationship |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
1. She'll dump him |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:34 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I think so too. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:38 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. nah, it's all about attention |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:42 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. I sure hope so....cause she is not the one for him. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:46 PM Response to Reply #7 |
8. You can...but, I am betting the roomies and friends |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:55 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. I hope so. |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:06 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. wife cracked up at the "cougar" reference |
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RedCloud (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
2. Fucks with flair eh? |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:36 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. Who is that? |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:39 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. ha! That's Rick Flair, the wrestler |
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MicaelS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
9. Stay out of it... |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 09:57 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. I do stay out of it. |
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MicaelS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:04 PM Response to Reply #11 |
12. Depends on how close they are |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:54 PM Response to Reply #12 |
19. His parents were never married. |
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MicaelS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:46 AM Response to Reply #19 |
39. From as you describe, I would say ABSOLUTELY |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:11 PM Response to Reply #11 |
15. As long as that advice is "wear a condom every single time" it will maybe have an effect, |
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burrfoot (801 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
13. COUGAR?!?!?!??!? |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:56 PM Response to Reply #13 |
20. Well, when the woman is 27 |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:34 AM Response to Reply #20 |
28. When I was 19, my boyfriend was 28. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:54 AM Response to Reply #28 |
32. When I was 28, my GF was 19. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:08 AM Response to Reply #32 |
34. Chris? Is that you? |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:16 AM Response to Reply #34 |
36. I was going to say the same thing: Chris, is that you? |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:23 AM Response to Reply #36 |
37. LOL nt |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:07 PM Response to Reply #28 |
44. All up in his business? |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:16 AM Response to Reply #44 |
56. Why do you post stuff if you don't want responses. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:50 AM Response to Reply #56 |
61. I asked for advice.... |
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hobbit709 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:12 PM Response to Original message |
16. 27 isn't cougar. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 05:11 AM Response to Reply #16 |
24. It is when the kid is only 19 |
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WorseBeforeBetter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:16 PM Response to Reply #24 |
54. HE is not the cougar; SHE would be the cougar, but not at 27. |
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elleng (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
17. Difficult as it appears, I'd stay out of it. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:22 PM Response to Original message |
18. MYOB. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 10:59 PM Response to Reply #18 |
21. Sorry, but I don't think it's not my fiance's business. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:11 AM Response to Reply #21 |
35. Pre-Facebook, this wouldn't even have been an issue. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:04 PM Response to Reply #21 |
42. Honestly, |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:09 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. Thanks for the post. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
22. he's 19 |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-03-11 11:36 PM Response to Original message |
23. I'd give him a talk similar to what I'd tell a 19 year old woman dating a 27 year old. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 05:13 AM Response to Reply #23 |
25. Thanks for the advice. |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 08:30 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. Yeah. Let him know that he has supportive family and not to let himself get jerked around. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:19 AM Response to Original message |
27. tell him not to become emotionally attached, enjoy the play, dont expect a whole hell of a lot |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:44 AM Response to Original message |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:48 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. I thought I was an adult when I was 19. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
31. Yes, you should stay out of it. (n/t) |
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distantearlywarning (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:03 AM Response to Original message |
33. Stay out of it. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
38. He's 19, looking to fuck, and found a 27-year-old he thinks is hot |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
40. Stay out, but she'll likely dump him. |
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Tuesday Afternoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
41. stay out of it. it will fizzle on its own. n/t |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
43. where;s the cougar? |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:12 PM Response to Reply #43 |
47. What???? |
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JanMichael (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:18 PM Response to Reply #47 |
49. Do yourself a favor |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
46. I would stay out of it |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:13 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. I am staying out of it. |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:27 PM Response to Reply #48 |
50. I understand |
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Keith Bee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
51. "My 19 year old, soon to be stepson....." |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:45 AM Response to Reply #51 |
58. And you're sick. |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
52. He's a big boy. |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 10:15 PM Response to Original message |
53. I was 19 and met a 32 year old woman online. |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:46 AM Response to Reply #53 |
59. Thx Lyric |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed May-04-11 11:21 PM Response to Original message |
55. MYOB |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
57. I have to laugh at the strict definitions of "cougar" being |
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blueamy66 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 07:48 AM Response to Reply #57 |
60. You're right. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 08:01 AM Response to Original message |
62. LOL at the assumptions that its the older person thats trouble |
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dawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu May-05-11 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
63. I think you are really sweet for being so concerned and I am shocked ... |
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