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bluestateguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:14 AM Original message |
Are you ever made to feel less of a person (less of an adult) because you don't have children? |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:21 AM Response to Original message |
1. I'm getting so depressed by the thread in GD about women freezing eggs. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:08 AM Response to Reply #1 |
8. i really dont get the animosity on that thread to either gender. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:01 AM Response to Original message |
2. no |
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elana i am (626 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
3. a few people in my life may have tried... |
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abq e streeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:12 AM Response to Original message |
4. Yes--regularly---by myself |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 04:06 AM Response to Original message |
5. Not really |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 04:28 AM Response to Original message |
6. All the time... |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 06:24 AM Response to Original message |
7. I haven't had that experience |
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WilmywoodNCparalegal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:11 AM Response to Original message |
9. I wanted a child more than anything in the world |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:42 AM Response to Reply #9 |
12. The next time someone runs the "when I will have kids" by you, |
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Pool Hall Ace (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:10 AM Response to Reply #12 |
13. I love this paragraph so much, it bears repeating. |
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sarge43 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:32 AM Response to Reply #13 |
15. Thank you, Ace |
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amyrose2712 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:59 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. +1000 |
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clyrc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 11:50 AM Response to Reply #9 |
24. my condolences on your hysterectomy |
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CBGLuthier (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:24 AM Response to Original message |
10. A little glue will secure that chip firmly to your shoulder. |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:42 PM Response to Reply #10 |
43. It bugs me when politicians mention working FAMILIES all the time too |
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nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 03:16 AM Response to Reply #10 |
63. Why the hell should anyone "give him shit" for not having children? |
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zanana1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 06:14 AM Response to Reply #10 |
65. Is being a judge alot of hard work? |
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bigwillq (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:40 AM Response to Original message |
11. No (nt) |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:25 AM Response to Original message |
14. I can tell you one big reason why people make you feel that way |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 10:14 AM Response to Reply #14 |
17. good post |
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Tobin S. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 10:24 AM Response to Reply #14 |
19. Yeah. Wanted to have kids, can't find anyone to make them with. |
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Flying Dream Blues (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 05:21 PM Response to Reply #14 |
51. What a thoughtful response to a sensitive subject. |
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SocialistLez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:37 PM Response to Reply #14 |
61. Maybe they regret having kids and want to make you feel as bad as they do. |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
18. tangent |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 10:32 AM Response to Reply #18 |
20. having been single for so long, people addressed me. soon after getting married |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 11:24 AM Response to Original message |
21. Nobody can make me feel that way. |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 11:30 AM Response to Original message |
22. no but my husband used to be ribbed at work unmercifully |
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SunnySong (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 11:43 AM Response to Reply #22 |
23. never mind nt |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:25 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Deleted message |
proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:54 PM Response to Reply #22 |
29. ....huh...hah....huh..... |
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Dr. Strange (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 01:09 PM Response to Reply #22 |
32. You're a saint without equal. |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:33 PM Response to Reply #32 |
41. ! |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:00 PM Response to Reply #22 |
36. Wow, you come to the conclusion that people who choose differently than you are lesser |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:53 PM Response to Reply #36 |
45. yes, just as EVERYONE does, IF they're honest -- that's a pretty big if sometimes |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:55 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Say what? |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 04:11 PM Response to Reply #45 |
48. $$ is better than a human being? |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:01 PM Response to Reply #22 |
37. Ooooh....kay |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
58. Holy Touchdown Jesus. |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 11:41 PM Response to Reply #22 |
62. Is he ribbed for your pleasure? |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:23 PM Response to Original message |
25. Actually discriminated against at work - You don't have a family you can do it |
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Staph (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:14 PM Response to Reply #25 |
38. I get the same discrimination at work. |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:47 PM Response to Reply #25 |
44. Boy, that sure happens at my work |
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Yavin4 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:29 PM Response to Original message |
27. People Assume That I'm Gay Because I've Never Been Married and Don't Have Kids |
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JitterbugPerfume (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:41 PM Response to Original message |
28. It is a very personal choice |
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jobycom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 12:59 PM Response to Original message |
30. Nah, but I've been made to feel less of a person because i have kids. |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 01:06 PM Response to Original message |
31. Although I have a child, a daughter adopted from China |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
33. People tried to |
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VMI Dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
34. I have had 7 children with 5 different women, and I do not look down on people that do not have kids |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
35. I have four Brothers, one of which has two Children |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 06:05 PM Response to Reply #35 |
53. But I don't think you can make the assumption |
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Burma Jones (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 07:54 PM Response to Reply #53 |
71. I'm with you........ |
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Maccagirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:20 PM Response to Original message |
39. Yes |
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HipChick (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 02:33 PM Response to Original message |
40. I was actually told yesterday, that I shouldn't be driving an SUV |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 06:20 PM Response to Reply #40 |
54. My two-seater gets a lot of longing comments from minivan driving moms |
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LisaM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 03:37 PM Response to Original message |
42. All the time |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
47. I don't qualify |
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S n o w b a l l (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 04:53 PM Response to Original message |
49. Nope, never |
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Initech (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 05:12 PM Response to Original message |
50. Not even slghtly. I enjoy my freedoms. |
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MountainLaurel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 05:34 PM Response to Original message |
52. All. The. Time. |
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REP (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 06:21 PM Response to Original message |
55. Not in a way I'd notice |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 06:29 PM Response to Original message |
56. No, but I put that on myself for sure |
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Zavulon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
57. As someone who is not a parent and never will be, |
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SocialistLez (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
59. Not really. |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-29-10 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
60. Oh cripes, get over it already. People with children get put down for that choice. |
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zanana1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 06:18 AM Response to Reply #60 |
66. You just ooze warmth and understanding. nt |
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MichiganVote (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 12:58 PM Response to Reply #66 |
68. Expecting DU to become a therapy office is pretty pointless friend. |
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zanana1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 04:21 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. It's about friends being compassionate, friend. nt |
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ChoralScholar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 05:29 AM Response to Original message |
64. It kinda makes you wonder if, |
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MilesColtrane (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 10:24 AM Response to Original message |
67. Yes. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 01:48 PM Response to Original message |
69. There are mature and immature people...their reproductive status isn't what makes them that way. |
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luv_mykatz (198 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-30-10 09:25 PM Response to Original message |
72. Yeah. |
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