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Elmore Furth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:39 AM Original message |
Men ditch 'nice guy' style, get more dates |
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UndertheOcean (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:42 AM Response to Original message |
1. I knew it ! n/t |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:46 AM Response to Original message |
2. OR Why Assholes Always Have Girlfriends. nt |
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TZ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:50 AM Response to Original message |
3. Oh god I hate this shit. |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 02:33 PM Response to Reply #3 |
32. John T. Malloy, author of "Dress For Success"... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 02:41 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. see, and arrogance is an immediate turn off for me. had lunch with one today |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 02:56 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. A brief, true short story about an arrogant guy I worked with who ended up running the place |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 03:13 PM Response to Reply #36 |
39. Those Olympic-level ass-kissers always end up "Peter Principle-ing" |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 04:14 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. i would be shruggin at the womans boo hooing. it is there to see. she chose not to |
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Amerigo Vespucci (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 05:37 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. Part of the "bad boy" thing...and once again, this doesn't apply to "all" women... |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:09 AM Response to Original message |
4. I read Glover's book a few years back - the main message/theme is NOT |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:58 PM Response to Reply #4 |
31. Richard Feynman said he got dates and got laid WAY more often after he tried to be an asshole. |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 02:55 PM Response to Reply #31 |
35. It would be interesting to see how Feynman in particular defines |
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MrCoffee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 04:38 PM Response to Reply #31 |
42. I never in a million years ever thought I'd say to myself |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:16 AM Response to Original message |
5. Oh, this tired old meme again. nt |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
6. "Mad, bad, and dangerous to know" works every time |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
7. "A Nice Guy" isn't always so nice. |
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edbermac (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:38 AM Response to Original message |
8. Elin Nordegren hooked up with a 'cool guy'. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:41 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. Sorry, but there are no cool golfers |
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cemaphonic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:00 PM Response to Reply #9 |
17. *snarf* |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:41 PM Response to Reply #9 |
22. +1 |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
10. Re: "Hey, I can be a jerk if it gets me laid." |
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LanternWaste (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:51 AM Response to Reply #10 |
11. I was thinking precisely that... |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 11:16 AM Response to Reply #11 |
15. "Hey, everbuddy! Watch THIS!!!!!" |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
12. But more dates with what caliber of partners? |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 11:20 AM Response to Reply #12 |
16. And people wonder how they end up with* psycho lovers. |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:36 PM Response to Reply #12 |
20. More dates with their female equivalents. I prefer quality over quantity, every time. nt |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 03:03 PM Response to Reply #12 |
38. a very good point |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 10:59 AM Response to Original message |
13. Men.. |
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snailly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:08 PM Response to Reply #13 |
54. This. This. This! |
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BuelahWitch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
14. Only a jerk would think being a jerk gets him laid... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:03 PM Response to Original message |
18. no. they dont want spineless and weak. nice, ... confident and decisive works well. but |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:15 PM Response to Reply #18 |
19. This is about the 873rd kajillion time for this crap at DU. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:37 PM Response to Reply #19 |
29. lol |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:42 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. Great post |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:29 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. this is actually gonna be the dinner conversation tonight for my two nice.... and confident, strong |
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bullwinkle428 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
21. Quality Women are NOT Attracted to Douchebags |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:30 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. i see it as "used and be used" relationship. and if others want it, so be it. |
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CBR (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 12:46 PM Response to Original message |
24. I don't think it is about being a jerk, it is about being |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
25. I was able to still be a pretty damn nice guy most of the time |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:32 PM Response to Reply #25 |
28. i am in between saying hooyah with your post and lmao.... lol. funny. nt |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 01:46 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. I also had to learn, though |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 02:45 PM Response to Original message |
34. A friend read this and thought the key wasn't "nice vs. jerk" but "strong vs. weak" |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
37. fwiw, I think this is pretty common among ALL humans |
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SoxFan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
41. These are the ones who become pathetic 45 year old "cougars" down the road |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 05:09 PM Response to Original message |
43. In other news, this just in, the sun rises in the east! n/t |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 06:33 PM Response to Original message |
45. Now that I think of it, there may be something to this. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 08:42 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. I don't disagree, but I'd love to hear your reasoning. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 08:51 PM Response to Reply #50 |
52. Well, amongst animal folks like us |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:05 PM Response to Reply #52 |
53. That's different. |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:12 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Um...nobody. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
46. what girls want is non-boring guys |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 07:58 PM Response to Original message |
47. I hate this kind of BS. |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 08:14 PM Response to Original message |
48. Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 08:49 PM Response to Reply #48 |
51. horrible how we define nice guys. horrible how we define females. only one coming out like a rose |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:45 PM Response to Reply #51 |
56. I've known nice good men too. I've also known bad boys that were anything but losers. |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 08:21 PM Response to Original message |
49. bad boy shmad boy.It's none of that bullshit ! |
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wickerwoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Apr-15-10 09:52 PM Response to Original message |
57. Bullshit study- all they interviewed was college girls. |
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