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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 12:38 PM
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If you were cheated on, did you just 'know'..

Despite all the denials by everyone, my intuition kicked in and just wouldn't let go..proved to be 100%
correct. I never gave him a second chance to do it again either..my intuition was right then too..:toast:
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 12:48 PM
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1. can you say 'key-stroke counter'?
Edited on Sat Mar-27-10 12:49 PM by KG
i did.

don't use the keyboard of someone more advanced than you to fuck around.
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Pryderi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:11 PM
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3. Keylogger? You spied on your lover?
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KG Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:20 PM
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5. yeah. she wasn't a very good liar. maybe just didn't even care enough.
it just confirmed my suspicions.
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Iggo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:08 PM
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2. I had no clue.
Seriously.
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davsand Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:19 PM
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4. I found barrettes on his kitchen table. He was not a drag queen...
...and I have never worn them. It was a pretty strong hint. He got the boot within a few minutes.


:shrug:



Laura
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:37 PM
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6. A person can lie with his or her words...
...but unless we are talking about a sociopath he or she cannot lie with his body language, the evasions or the subtle smell of another man or woman on the person.
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lunatica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:38 PM
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7. Absolutely. Then I went through his suits and found 'the letter'
Edited on Sat Mar-27-10 01:40 PM by lunatica
Not only was he cheating on me but it was with his best friend's girlfriend. His best friend became a priest and had to give up his girlfriend even though he truly loved her. She loved him too and was heartbroken and my ex made a move on her by posing as his friend's 'best buddy' and so sympathic for her loss.

Divorced and that was also the right move.
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PassingFair Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 02:43 PM
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11. Sounds like a movie plot!
I am struck by your mature reaction to
the situation. Most women seem to immediately blame
the "other woman" instead of their cheating spouse.

I am sorry he put you through that.

:thumbsup:

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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 01:54 PM
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8. Sort of.
I knew her, so when things didn't add up, I was pretty sure. Then again, there were probably times I didn't know and so I don't know.
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unpossibles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 02:04 PM
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9. every single time
I'm not an overly jealous person, but I am pretty good at reading people and can not only tell, but can often call it in advance. In fact, the last time it happened, I knew that the "other" was interested and trying very hard to hook up, but trusted my SO to keep it friends.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 02:21 PM
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10. Yes. Too much time elapsed from visit home to calling me. I asked; he answered; adios, muchacho.
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AnArmyVeteran Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 02:55 PM
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12. What are your stats? Age, dimensions, interests? I'm not a cheater :)
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HipChick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 04:17 PM
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13. oh..they all say that in the beginning..
I'm not a cheater..:rofl:
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seabeyond Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 06:20 PM
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15. ah haha. you dont miss around. cute
and i think there are cheaters, not cheaters, both genders.....
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Love Bug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 04:55 PM
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14. Yes. Turned out to be true.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:17 PM
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16. guys never dare to cheat on me
fuck, half the time I wish they would
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styersc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:44 PM
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18. geez. no issues here,
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:46 PM
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19. hey, I am not married
Edited on Sat Mar-27-10 07:47 PM by Skittles
I've never felt the need to torment men in that fashion
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styersc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:41 PM
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17. yes
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:47 PM
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20. geez, no issues there
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Mar-27-10 07:51 PM
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21. yes
despite my desire to believe otherwise, I knew it
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