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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:02 PM Original message |
Gender sensitive alternative to the word "gal" request |
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rcrush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:04 PM Response to Original message |
1. HEY LADY |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #1 |
21. Hasn't that expression completely ruined 'lady'!!! Ugh! |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:05 PM Response to Original message |
2. Chick? |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I'll be honest--I think we're going to have to make one up |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #4 |
7. I can't stand that one either. I get all that and more. It just rankles me |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #7 |
27. Makes my skin crawl. nt |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:41 AM Response to Reply #4 |
67. I always think of "gal friday" |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #2 |
26. There isn't a right answer. When I was teaching, I'd ask the students in my class |
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Louisiana1976 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:07 PM Response to Original message |
3. "Dude" can be unisex. |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:09 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Yeah, and I do use it that way a bunch, but |
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JTG of the PRB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:09 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. +1 |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #3 |
49. My dad called me 'Ace' and 'Skeezix'. nt |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 09:01 AM Response to Reply #3 |
64. I once called my dad "dude" instead of "dad" |
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Demoiselle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 02:53 PM Response to Reply #3 |
70. How about "Dudette?" eom |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 02:52 PM Response to Original message |
8. I use 'gal' |
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Bunny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. My kid's friends sometimes call me 'dude' and it cracks me up. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:12 PM Response to Reply #8 |
23. That one makes my skin crawl. I don't know why. 'guys' is okay for women in the plural... |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. Maybe it's because I've lived in Texas for 16 years |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Yes. It's more a southern thing and it doesn't have the pitfalls 'girls' or 'ladies' have. IN the |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:50 PM Response to Reply #32 |
39. You're right about using 'guys' in reference to women down here - can you imagine using 'dudes'? |
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The2ndWheel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:00 PM Response to Original message |
9. Marklar |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:05 PM Response to Original message |
11. I use gal, chick and dude for women all the time. |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
12. I like "lady" in your example |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:15 PM Response to Original message |
13. Wench? |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:33 PM Response to Reply #13 |
14. I'm not a real SCA kinda guy, but I don't think "Wench" was always |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:35 PM Response to Reply #14 |
15. Well, a little over 20 years ago, we got thrown out of a bar because of that word. |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:37 PM Response to Reply #15 |
16. Heh, yeah, I think it HAS been seen as bit improper for the last 300 or 400 years! |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:40 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. We got thrown out of the SAME bar another time - same dude... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:16 PM Response to Reply #14 |
25. I don't think 'wench' is necessarily a perjorative either. nt |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #14 |
29. Off topic, but people at my work use wench when they mean winch all the time. |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:50 PM Response to Reply #13 |
38. Ackshooly, there was a English style eatery, I forget the name, several |
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canoeist52 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Medieval Manor? there's still one in Boston |
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david13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 05:21 PM Response to Reply #40 |
41. It was similar, but I believe there was no show. Just food in the |
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phasma ex machina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:19 PM Response to Reply #13 |
52. Ho' is probably too wrong. nt |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
18. Chippie? |
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Kutjara (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 03:04 PM Response to Reply #18 |
72. That's what I was going to say. Has a cool, 1940s... |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 03:51 PM Response to Original message |
19. "Beer me Wench!" usually works wonders for me. |
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eyepaddle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:11 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. ! |
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Crabby Appleton (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:08 PM Response to Original message |
20. My Little Chickadee |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:15 PM Response to Original message |
24. It's a real problem. 'girl', like 'guys' is really only used in the plural. 'Girls' poker night', |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:21 PM Response to Original message |
28. Learn to like "woman" |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:26 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. I think that's going to be the best answer. nt |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 06:50 PM Response to Reply #28 |
78. +1 (nt) |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:27 PM Response to Original message |
33. ## PLEASE DONATE TO DEMOCRATIC UNDERGROUND! ## |
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Moondog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
34. The problem is that various societal "sensitivities" speed along at a far faster pace than |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:33 PM Response to Reply #34 |
35. I err on the side of formal also, in public settings or those among strangers. nt |
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mdmc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:34 PM Response to Original message |
36. doll |
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Drunken Irishman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
37. Babe. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 06:20 PM Response to Original message |
42. Lady is archaic? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:06 PM Response to Reply #42 |
47. 'Lady' is used as a substitute for 'woman' and they are not like terms. |
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Nuclear Unicorn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 06:44 PM Response to Original message |
43. If you want my attention... |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
44. Would "strumpet" be too situation specific? |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #44 |
48. Do you think this comment helps the conversation? This fellow asked a good question. nt |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #48 |
71. Lighten up, friend, it was a joke. I think they're allowed in the Lounge. |
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bluesbassman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 06:54 PM Response to Original message |
45. Bird. Although you'll have to develop a British accent to pull it off. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
46. i use 'woman' as in "this woman at work today...." |
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kentauros (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
50. How about "Master"? |
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Mari333 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
51. well, as an almost 60 yr old woman |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:48 PM Response to Reply #51 |
55. Yes, in that circumstance, I like 'ladies' too. But it was funny. One time I was eating... |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
53. Ho works well. As in "this ho I work with"... |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:24 PM Response to Original message |
54. I obviously don't have a problem with it! |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 09:59 PM Response to Original message |
56. Chica! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 10:36 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. LOL, I love using that! |
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snailly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-20-09 10:59 PM Response to Original message |
58. Please just say "woman" |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 04:15 AM Response to Original message |
59. I use woman, lady, or chick for adult human females. |
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rcrush (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 04:17 AM Response to Original message |
60. Sweet Cheeks! |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 04:57 AM Response to Original message |
61. They love to be called "Skirts" |
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Orrex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 09:45 AM Response to Reply #61 |
65. Or "Kitten" |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 04:58 AM Response to Original message |
62. Dame or broad usually get a reaction. |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 09:00 AM Response to Original message |
63. Dudette |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
66. not girl, not woman i use gal and guys for men/boys. dudette. nt |
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bif (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
68. Broad? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
69. "gal" is hick, but "dude" is ok? alrighty then... |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 03:30 PM Response to Original message |
73. Just avoid situations in which this may occur. |
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whistler162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
74. Broad.... |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 06:36 PM Response to Reply #74 |
77. That was often used as a sincere compliment. That meaning is kind of lost now. But, I understand |
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Rhythm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 03:43 PM Response to Original message |
75. I casually refer to my female friends as either "Hip-chick" or "chica" |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-21-09 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
76. The kids are starting to use 'dude' as gender neutral. |
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