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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:45 PM Original message |
Poll question: Should a married couple share the same last name? |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:47 PM Response to Original message |
1. Since I am not a woman and never will be, it is none of my business. |
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rug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. There's nothing stopping a man from changing his name. |
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elocs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 09:04 PM Response to Reply #8 |
9. The OP was edited and now says "married couple" instead of "woman". |
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JonLP24 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. Whatever the woman wants |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
3. A woman's right to choose right? |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
4. My dear Pryderi... |
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GOPisEvil (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:50 PM Response to Original message |
5. Should? |
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AsahinaKimi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
6. I think it should be a choice.. |
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Pryderi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Nov-14-09 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
7. I edited the question. |
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nickinSTL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
10. uh - that really is the choice of the people involved |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
11. If they want to. (n/t) |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
12. Strictly their choice. |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
13. There is no correct answer |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
14. It's up to the couple to decide and it's none of my business. n/t |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 03:18 PM Response to Original message |
15. The couple should keep the coolest Last name |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 03:23 PM Response to Original message |
16. Other |
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kedrys (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 03:40 PM Response to Original message |
17. Up here, many people don't |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 03:46 PM Response to Original message |
18. let them decide on their own... |
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prolesunited (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
19. It's up to them |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
20. If they want to, yes. |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
21. No, it harkens back to the days when women were considered chattel. n/t |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:42 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. Is that why they call endless, insipid discussions "chatting"? |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #25 |
27. No, "chattel"means "property..." n/t |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:15 PM Response to Reply #27 |
31. I was making a joke. But actually chattel means "mobile property" (as opposed to real estate) |
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Rhiannon12866 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 10:46 PM Response to Reply #31 |
39. Thanks for the additional info., though I do know the difference. |
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sakabatou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
22. If the couple wants to. So it's up to them. |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
23. Either solution is okay. But never, ever hyphenate. That's a suck-ass loser's solution. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:44 PM Response to Reply #23 |
26. In other countries, hyphenating is the norm. n/t |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:17 PM Response to Reply #26 |
32. That doesn't make it not wrong, only the foreign kind of wrong. |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 04:41 PM Response to Original message |
24. It's up to the couple |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
28. Personally, I think they should both change and share a new last name |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:07 PM Response to Original message |
29. should? |
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TCJ70 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:10 PM Response to Original message |
30. Why is there no "It's up to them." option? |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:19 PM Response to Original message |
33. No reason not to- we decided to use my last name because my wife |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
34. Whatever they want to do. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 07:00 PM Response to Original message |
35. HE took MY last name. I insisted. |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 07:30 PM Response to Original message |
36. it's a choice, but I'd certainly never do it |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
37. Where's the "it's up to them" option? eom |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 08:43 PM Response to Original message |
38. A better question is, should the law treat this name change as a gender neutral situation? |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 10:50 PM Response to Reply #38 |
41. it costs women who change their name money and nuisance to change their name |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:30 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. It doesn't cost women anything for the legal change if they assume the husband's name |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:37 PM Response to Reply #42 |
45. But it costs a woman to get her own name back if she wants it after a divroce |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:42 PM Response to Reply #45 |
46. Again, it costs both genders money to change their names at any other juncture. |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:36 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. They are also lost to friends, alumni assns, etc. nt |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 10:48 PM Response to Original message |
40. well not if they're both grown-ups |
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Captain Hilts (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:32 PM Response to Original message |
43. The cultural default is that all shared last names, are the man's. Not fair. nt |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Nov-15-09 11:47 PM Response to Original message |
47. eh, it's up to whomever is getting married, imo |
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