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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:42 PM Original message |
Why do some women love Assholes? |
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last_texas_dem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:45 PM Response to Original message |
1. I can't see this thread getting interesting at all. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:48 PM Response to Original message |
2. That's just how it goes. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:49 PM Response to Original message |
3. a lot of girls are raised to believe that is how male treats female, what love is. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:52 PM Response to Reply #3 |
5. Oh I'm married now and have learned much since then |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #5 |
7. you get what you put out. you are an asshole, will get an asshole. if it is about a fuck |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:59 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. Yes, learned that lesson too |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:45 PM Response to Reply #3 |
44. wait... |
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I Have A Dream (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #44 |
60. ... |
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mcctatas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:51 PM Response to Original message |
4. I will be the first to admit that I like men who are less than sweet... |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:53 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. You would be surprised |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
9. Aren't you the guy who was gonna fly with the swineflu? |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #9 |
16. Yes I am, and yes I did, and no one got sick |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:19 PM Response to Reply #16 |
34. look down thread. Honesty time is fun. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:59 PM Original message |
playing on someones vulnerability. guess that shows her for putting all her worth in |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:02 PM Response to Original message |
17. I wish more people gave me a simple fuck you at the time |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #17 |
24. absolutely. i wish young girls had more confidence and felt more self worth too. would |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
15. ok now we know that you're making stuff up |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:03 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. You don't go after those kinds of things |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:14 AM Response to Reply #6 |
76. I don't know if you're just posting flamebait, or if you've just dated lots of seriously |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:13 AM Response to Reply #4 |
75. a good point - few people want to date a sycophantic bootlicker |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
8. we have only your word that it did work so you tell us |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:00 PM Response to Reply #8 |
13. Keep in mind, this was 1988, and I was a lot younger back then |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:05 PM Response to Reply #13 |
23. Sorry, |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:07 PM Response to Reply #23 |
27. I was a complete ass, but I was eighteen |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:58 PM Response to Original message |
10. While I dont want a guy following me around like a puppy dog |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:59 PM Response to Original message |
12. Do you have a copy of Gray's Anatomy? |
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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:00 PM Response to Original message |
14. Hmm.. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #14 |
21. Now THAT makes sense... |
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HopeHoops (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
18. Not sure - I'll ask my wife. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:03 PM Response to Original message |
19. Many (most?) people are broken by their parents and families |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:04 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. Makes sense to me... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:09 PM Response to Reply #19 |
29. broken is a good way of saying it. i was trying to find the word, without |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
25. Strength and confidence can be exhibited by a man without him being an asshole... |
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arbusto_baboso (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
26. There are two ways to gain the interest of women. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:08 PM Response to Reply #26 |
28. Very Good Points nt |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:10 PM Response to Reply #26 |
31. right on. you nailed it. nt |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:11 PM Response to Reply #26 |
32. I did that in my last relationship... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #32 |
33. but then again |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. She never built me up. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. hmmm, well yea for you that you can see her worth. but seeing you as perfect |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:42 PM Response to Reply #38 |
40. I don't let things like that go to my head. |
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Lucian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:10 PM Response to Original message |
30. I'm not an asshole and I get laid. |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #30 |
35. Hey - I didn't say it was the only way... |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:29 PM Response to Original message |
37. Why do some women love men who arent? |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:40 PM Response to Original message |
39. I just want to say that since I was 14 years old and had a taste |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:43 PM Response to Reply #39 |
42. Although if you were to take a sample of "non-assholes" I would bet you'd find some ex-assholes |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:49 PM Response to Reply #42 |
46. One guy qualified as an asshole in my whole life |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:43 PM Response to Original message |
41. Because some women are stupid! |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:45 PM Response to Reply #41 |
43. Suggestion: What if your son wasn't an asshole, but an enigma? |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:01 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. He is a writer! |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:45 PM Response to Reply #48 |
54. He'll probably be a great writer...... |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:03 PM Response to Reply #54 |
56. Thanks... |
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Mopar151 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 01:40 PM Response to Reply #48 |
84. Sounds a bit like me |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
45. For the same reason some men worship women's feet? |
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ProfessorGAC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:51 PM Response to Original message |
47. You'd Have To Ask My Wife |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
49. I'm just lucky, I guess. |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:26 PM Response to Original message |
50. Because some people are really shallow and think "nice guys" are wimps. |
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NewJeffCT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:41 PM Response to Original message |
51. well, for years I was the guy that was too nice |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:56 PM Response to Original message |
52. Because some women are assholes. nt |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:23 PM Response to Original message |
53. You can also fake being gay. |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:27 PM Response to Reply #53 |
63. rofl. Could be. |
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kayakjohnny (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
55. Just curious... why does "Assholes" get capped in your subject line? |
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ProudToBeBlueInRhody (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:08 PM Response to Reply #55 |
58. The real question is it just about "getting laid"? |
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barb162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:07 PM Response to Original message |
57. M y theory is some women think it's sexy |
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XRubicon (193 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:18 PM Response to Original message |
59. I walk around in the summer saying |
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chrisa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:26 PM Response to Original message |
61. Because it attracts people with low self-esteem. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 10:54 AM Response to Reply #61 |
101. I think I like this explanation |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:27 PM Response to Original message |
62. because they haven't learned to love themselves and feel they don't deserve |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:00 PM Response to Original message |
64. Assholes are generally attracted to assholes |
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Tabasco_Dave (744 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
65. I got sick of "you're a nice guy but..." |
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Evoman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 03:03 AM Response to Original message |
66. It's because "nice guys" are boring as shit. |
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Sky Masterson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 08:37 AM Response to Reply #66 |
72. Bravo! |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #72 |
80. ha |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:23 AM Response to Reply #66 |
78. great points |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 03:16 AM Response to Original message |
67. I don't know. I'll ask my wife. She should know. |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 04:26 AM Response to Original message |
68. Happens to men too. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 07:44 AM Response to Reply #68 |
70. absolutely. good point. we have all seen the guy that goes out with abusive gal. nt |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 08:06 PM Response to Reply #70 |
88. Been there. |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 09:03 PM Response to Reply #88 |
89. so once again, it is more a human thing and not a gender thing. i find that more so than not. nt |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 01:10 AM Response to Reply #89 |
94. Yep. |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 07:20 AM Response to Original message |
69. When I was younger I was attracted to the alpha male type |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 01:32 PM Response to Reply #69 |
83. "Alpha male" doesn't = bad boys |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 02:30 PM Response to Reply #83 |
85. exactly. i wish people would get this. nt |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 04:24 AM Response to Reply #83 |
96. Exactly |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 02:10 PM Response to Reply #83 |
102. so true. In fact, I find that the real assholes tend to be (at best) Beta Males |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 08:05 AM Response to Original message |
71. It worked because you were just looking to "get laid"....congratulations, you WERE an asshole! |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 09:18 AM Response to Original message |
73. this works for both genders. we tend to seek things that we can fix |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
74. the same reason some men love dating assholes |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:26 AM Response to Reply #74 |
79. And the worst of the "dating gurus" concentrate on this warfare. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:47 AM Response to Reply #79 |
81. it's true. I have to admit that when my ex started dating a guy who owned a copy of |
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deucemagnet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:23 AM Response to Original message |
77. Raw Truth #3a. |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 12:44 PM Response to Original message |
82. because it's harder to get pregnant in there? |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 03:04 PM Response to Original message |
86. Why do some men love assholes? |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 03:07 PM Response to Original message |
87. Some assholes make a lot of money |
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UTUSN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 10:04 PM Response to Original message |
90. Physicality. Sex. Fantasy. n/t |
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Manifestor_of_Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 12:42 AM Response to Original message |
91. Because our parents never told us to stand up for ourselves. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 09:12 AM Response to Reply #91 |
97. Sounds like we had the same parents. nt |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 12:43 AM Response to Original message |
92. Because without them they'd explode. |
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donheld (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 12:44 AM Response to Original message |
93. Because without them they'd explode. |
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urgk (982 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 09:21 AM Response to Reply #93 |
98. Hahahahahahahahaaaa.... hrmmmm.... ha. :) (n/t) |
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urgk (982 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 09:27 AM Response to Reply #98 |
99. I think it's from ancient biology. What are the chances that the nice guy will lead the pack? |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 09:50 AM Response to Reply #99 |
100. women like confidence (as do men) but gotta be biological? |
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urgk (982 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 11:18 PM Response to Reply #100 |
103. I think the reason confidence is sexy to humans is because of ancient biology. |
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rrneck (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Nov-12-09 02:12 AM Response to Original message |
95. They're like opinions... nt |
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TheKentuckian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Nov-13-09 05:21 AM Response to Original message |
104. Because they are stupid and get what they deserve. |
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