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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 02:51 AM Original message |
I want to have a drink with my buddy not f*ck your BF: Jealous Women a Rant |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:06 AM Response to Original message |
1. Jealousy is such a pointless thing. |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:01 AM Response to Reply #1 |
15. It's such an unattractive quality |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #15 |
37. god that man said some stupid stuff but what do you expect from a libertarian? |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:01 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Sorry, but the level of jealousy described in the OP is not healthy |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 01:03 PM Response to Reply #41 |
60. Thank you .Like I said in the origanl message if you dont trust your guy to give a ride home |
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pokerfan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 04:49 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. You're welcome |
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otherlander (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #37 |
63. That proves nothing, for the simple reason |
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abq e streeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:24 AM Response to Original message |
2. i feel very sorry for her. It has to be emotionally draining to be that jealous and insecure |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:35 AM Response to Reply #2 |
4. I have hung out with both of them and tried to explain the whole "cousin" dynamic |
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abq e streeter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:49 AM Response to Reply #4 |
6. yep, sounds like she's too heavily invested in her jealousy to be rational |
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Jamastiene (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:32 AM Response to Original message |
3. Anytime the issue of jealous girlfriends/wives comes up, |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 03:42 AM Response to Original message |
5. My best friend is a woman and married. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:21 AM Response to Original message |
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Skittles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:38 AM Response to Original message |
8. the real reason he is declining is because he is a fucking wuss |
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travelingtypist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #8 |
9. This. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:50 AM Response to Reply #8 |
24. Ain't that the truth! Holy crap, why do men put up with such fucking bullshit? |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:21 AM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Desperation |
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JANdad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:10 AM Response to Original message |
10. Sorry, but I'm with the GF on this one |
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Heidi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:53 AM Response to Reply #10 |
13. Can you explain why you'd be pissed? |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:51 AM Response to Reply #10 |
25. Wow - that's really sad that there's no trust in your relationship. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:19 AM Response to Reply #10 |
28. Better chain her to the oven, then |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #10 |
39. why are you with her if you don't trust her? |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:27 AM Response to Original message |
11. Two options: |
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old mark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:51 AM Response to Reply #11 |
12. I agree with this - she will be in a period of hyper vigilance for a while now, |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 07:59 AM Response to Original message |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:03 AM Response to Original message |
16. I'm don't know your friend's personality but I think one of two things are going on... |
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Patiod (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #16 |
35. or he's given her cause |
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rebel with a cause (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 05:26 PM Response to Reply #35 |
51. That was my first thoughts on the matter. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
17. Been there, done that. |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:02 AM Response to Original message |
18. more than anything she is insecure of her self. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:22 AM Response to Reply #18 |
30. As long as it was good sex |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:02 AM Response to Reply #30 |
33. is there really anything but? nt |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
19. i voluntarily stopped speaking to a very dear friend of mine from college for this reason |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:43 AM Response to Reply #19 |
38. of course there's a sexual angle, FINALLY an honest person in this thread!!! |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:13 PM Response to Reply #38 |
43. to be honest, most men friends I have had were always open to or suggested |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:24 PM Response to Reply #43 |
46. i have lifetime male friends. always husband is invited along. he always comes. |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:32 PM Response to Reply #46 |
47. you brought up a very good point, it is the secrecy that starts to kill a relationship |
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Phentex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 07:46 AM Response to Reply #19 |
55. I attended the wedding too, lol!... |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
20. My Sweetie isn't jealous. |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:35 AM Response to Original message |
21. LOL. what a sad way to live. |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:39 AM Response to Original message |
22. Your buddy's problem is that he tells his gf everything. |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:52 AM Response to Reply #22 |
26. so you would be okay with it if your wife did the same? |
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cbdo2007 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:02 AM Response to Reply #26 |
27. Yeah I'd be fine with it. I trust her. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:49 AM Response to Original message |
23. I hope he drops her like a radiated fetus, because his life is gonna be hell with her. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:19 PM Response to Reply #23 |
45. Yep. I dropped several GF's like that. |
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City of Mills (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:23 AM Response to Original message |
31. My wife had a guy friend |
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Lex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:25 AM Response to Original message |
32. Maybe she knows more about his history of fidelity (or infidelity) than you might? |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #32 |
48. I have been friends with him before they started dating and have known him alot longer |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:10 AM Response to Original message |
34. Reminds me of a great line from "True Romance" |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:28 AM Response to Original message |
36. well we thought your BF was in prison, or maybe that's a different poster? |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 01:17 PM Response to Reply #36 |
49. My BF and him are like brothers Infact my friend introduced us |
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Dyedinthewoolliberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 11:56 AM Response to Original message |
40. She's afraid |
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jmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:07 PM Response to Original message |
42. Sounds like your friend likes having women fight over him. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 12:15 PM Response to Original message |
44. I agree with you BUT |
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Withywindle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 04:47 PM Response to Original message |
50. Ugh, what the hell does he see in her? |
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Lord Tredegars Macaw (93 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 09:07 AM Response to Reply #50 |
56. A very good point! |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 06:37 PM Response to Original message |
52. My God, that woman as issues. |
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XRubicon (193 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 09:47 PM Response to Original message |
53. Just sleep with him already.... |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Nov-10-09 10:10 PM Response to Reply #53 |
54. Maybe if he lost30 lbs and waxed his chest |
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JANdad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 12:57 PM Response to Reply #54 |
58. Your post proves that you have considered it... |
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EndersDame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 12:59 PM Response to Reply #58 |
59. it was meant as a joking response. Ihonestly do not consider fucking every guy I talk to |
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JANdad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 01:51 PM Response to Reply #59 |
61. But you said jokingly or not... |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 07:18 PM Response to Reply #58 |
64. no it really doesnt. it proves she has a sense of humor |
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Mutley (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Nov-11-09 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
57. One of my BFs good friends is a female. |
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