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Bombero1956 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 02:47 PM
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within the next 24 hours a friend and fellow firefighter will die
My friend Eric just retired earlier this year from the fire department. He had medical issues that forced his early retirement. On the 24th of September we had a party in his honor and to wish him good luck. As I speak he is in Intensive Care with a staff infection in the brain that has put him into a coma. The doctors say that there is no hope for his recovery and it is just a matter of time before he passes. I am so unbelievably sad at this turn of events. This is so unfair because he is and was such a good and decent man. We never saw him without a smile on his face and a cheerful outlook on life. That he should die when such evil pricks continue to exist is more than I can stand. I will miss you Eric, you were a great firefighter and friend. I know you will be in a better place soon.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 02:54 PM
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1. My dear Bombero1956...
My heart goes out to you, your dear friend Eric, and all who know and love him...

What a dreadful thing to have happen to him.

I hope that your good memories of him will sustain you during this time of overwhelming grief.

Safe passage to him!

:hug:
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Bombero1956 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 02:59 PM
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3. thank you Peggy
I can always count on your words of comfort. Of all the members I know on this board you are at the top of the list of caring and giving people. We are now preparing for the services that will be held next week. As a testament to the high regard people had for him there will be 2 honor guards, the first will be from our department and the other from the Marine Corps.
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DeposeTheBoyKing Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 02:55 PM
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2. This is so sad
I am so sorry that this is happening to your friend. He will be in a better place soon and know no more suffering. He was lucky to have you as a friend. :hug:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 03:02 PM
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4. Safe passage to Eric.
May his sufferings be over. Peace and comfort to you, yours, and his family.
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joeybee12 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 03:30 PM
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5. Very, very sorry to hear this...
:grouphug:
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 04:25 PM
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6. firefighters endure so much in their work.... peace to you and his family....
my brother is a firefighter in Ohio, and his crew are family to him.
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abq e streeter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 05:29 PM
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7. Very sad to read of your friend's life coming to an end
Thank you Bombero, for your brave service to your community, and the very same to your friend Eric and all the other firefighters out there. I don't know what else to say that won't sound even more awkward, but I'm sorry and I hope that Eric's family including his brother and sister firefighters, will get through this with each other's love and support.
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 05:31 PM
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8. I am so very sorry :^(
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 05:32 PM
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9. That is so heartbreaking, Bombero1956.
Sorry to hear such a good guy will no longer be here.
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theNotoriousP.I.G. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 05:57 PM
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10. I'm sorry Bombero1956
I don't know what to say that would make you feel any better so all I can do is offer you hugs and the hope that your friend's suffering will soon end. As well as yours and all that loved him. :grouphug:
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Bombero1956 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 08:11 PM
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11. thank you all
The sad thing is that the chief with the help of this medical company screwed him out of half his sick leave hours. His medical problems occurred while he was on duty and under the rules it should've been listed as an Incurred on Duty problem. Somehow this chief has forced people injured on duty to use their own sick leave hours which is supposed to be used for off duty medical problems. Once they're low on sick leave he forces them to retire. Which is what happened to Eric. This two faced clown is going to show up at his funeral and act as though he's truly sorry for what happened to Eric and I know he really isn't.
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 08:15 PM
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12. I am so sorry Bombero
so very sorry :cry:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 08:20 PM
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13. I am very sorry for your friend.
:(

I wish they could have prevented that infection, or halted it before it became so serious.

My best wishes to his family. :hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 08:54 PM
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14. Vibes to his family.
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liberaltrucker Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 09:02 PM
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15. Prayers and vibes to Eric
A friend of a DUer is a friend of mine.

Safe passage, my friend.

O8)
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BrklynLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Nov-06-09 11:47 PM
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16. How sad...so sorry you are losing your friend..May he have a peaceful and safe journey.
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LynzM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-07-09 01:10 AM
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17. I'm so sorry to hear that...
Love and peace to you, and to his family and friends. :hug:
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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-07-09 01:41 AM
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18. Very sorry to hear it.
Yeah, it's pretty damn unfair. I felt the same way when my Dad died ten years ago. He was only 51.
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donheld Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-07-09 01:50 AM
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19. I'm so very sorry
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SeattleGirl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Nov-07-09 02:37 AM
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20. That is so sad.
I wish him safe passage, and I wish you and all who love him comfort in this difficult time.

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Bombero1956 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-09-09 01:41 PM
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21. Eric passed away last night.
He went peacefully surrounded by his wife and family.
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-09-09 02:30 PM
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22. Safe passage to him, my dear Bombero1956...
I weep for your loss, and for all who love him...

:hug:
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theNotoriousP.I.G. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-09-09 02:32 PM
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23. My thoughts are with his family
and with you, such a good friend. R.I.P. Eric.
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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Nov-09-09 07:16 PM
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24. {{{{Bombero1956, Eric, and FamilyEric}}}}~~~Please accept my sincere condolences.
I know what it's like to lose a good friend too soon.
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