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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:18 PM Original message |
Is 40 too old to try to have a baby? |
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Sanity Claws (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:19 PM Response to Original message |
1. Not too old to try |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:23 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. I'm totally supportive |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:36 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. She's going to have a much easier time of it |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:54 PM Response to Reply #7 |
11. And families get Kindergeld here |
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hippywife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. They did mention that |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:43 PM Response to Reply #3 |
10. I was 39 when I had my youngest. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Thank you so much for your story |
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Maine-ah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 06:56 AM Response to Reply #3 |
48. That's only five years older than myself |
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The Velveteen Ocelot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:20 PM Response to Original message |
2. No, if she's healthy otherwise. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:24 PM Response to Original message |
4. My dear theNotoriousP.I.G... |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:29 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Thanks Peggy |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:34 PM Response to Original message |
6. It might or might not work, but if she has access to good medical care there is not a problem |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. We live in Germany! |
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alsame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:39 PM Response to Original message |
8. My 42 year old sister in law had a baby boy on Wednesday! It's |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:58 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. What a nice outcome |
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alsame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:09 PM Response to Reply #14 |
19. You're very welcome. And I hope it all turns out as wonderful |
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MrsMatt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 09:57 AM Response to Reply #8 |
49. Four years ago, I had my 2nd child (boy) at age 42 as well |
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alsame (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 10:28 AM Response to Reply #49 |
50. How nice - you and my sil have almost the |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:41 PM Response to Original message |
9. I don't believe so at all... |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 03:59 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. nah |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:21 PM Response to Reply #15 |
22. Looks like one might have... |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:27 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. Was that the deleted message in this thread? |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:57 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. I didn't see the message; but |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:01 PM Response to Original message |
16. Bah! Of course not. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:14 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. Thanks so much for your post |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:05 PM Response to Original message |
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LeftyFingerPop (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
20. My mom was 40 when she had me, and that was in 1958. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 04:22 PM Response to Reply #20 |
23. I can see your mommy pushing your pram down the street too Lefty |
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Brother Buzz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 05:32 PM Response to Original message |
26. Nope. My wife was forty-four when she had our first and only child |
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WildEyedLiberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 05:42 PM Response to Original message |
27. I was born when my mom was 40 |
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charlie and algernon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 05:45 PM Response to Original message |
28. certainly better than that 65 yr old woman who had a kid |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
29. I wouldn't do it, but her choice is her choice. |
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LeftyMom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 11:34 PM Response to Reply #29 |
70. Same here. Mine's going to be in college when I'm 40. |
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Ex Lurker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 02:50 AM Response to Reply #29 |
82. my girlfriend was born when her parents were in their forties |
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LibertyLover (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 07:21 PM Response to Original message |
30. Nope - |
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cherish44 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 07:26 PM Response to Original message |
31. I know a lot of women who had babies after 40 |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
32. I'd recommend that she does the full genetic testing |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
33. Things have changed. Many women in their 40s are having children. |
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kath (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 11:29 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. Oh. My. Goodness. !!!! Cuteness overload!!! |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 12:21 AM Response to Reply #39 |
43. thanks! |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 11:38 PM Response to Reply #33 |
41. What a beautiful child!! |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 12:20 AM Response to Reply #41 |
42. thanks! |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 02:57 AM Response to Reply #33 |
45. She is adorable! |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 10:31 PM Response to Reply #45 |
68. thank you very much! |
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gardenista (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:15 PM Response to Reply #33 |
58. Oh... thank you for that! |
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kwassa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 10:27 PM Response to Reply #58 |
67. It has been a wonderful experience. |
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aint_no_life_nowhere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
34. I had a girlfriend whose mother had her after she turned 40 |
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InvisibleTouch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
35. I would say Yes, if it's her first. |
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MorningGlow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 10:07 PM Response to Reply #35 |
37. Well, yes and no |
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susanr516 (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 10:03 PM Response to Original message |
36. I was 40 when my youngest was born |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 10:33 PM Response to Original message |
38. Good luck to her. |
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lildreamer316 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Aug-08-09 11:37 PM Response to Original message |
40. My mother had me at 39. |
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LibDemAlways (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 01:00 AM Response to Original message |
44. My one and only child was born when I was 40. |
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BlueIris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 03:35 AM Response to Original message |
46. Of course not. |
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Drunken Irishman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 04:59 AM Response to Original message |
47. Depends on the woman... |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:44 AM Response to Reply #47 |
75. There are risks in everything. |
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Drunken Irishman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 02:21 AM Response to Reply #75 |
81. Yes... |
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seabeyond (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 10:56 AM Response to Original message |
51. there are advantages adn disadvantages. the same as having them young. |
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Demoiselle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 12:54 PM Response to Original message |
52. I think I was a better mother because I had my kids in my mid-thirties. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 01:02 PM Response to Original message |
53. What is your real question? |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 03:07 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. Sorry but you're all wet with this one |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 01:31 AM Response to Reply #55 |
80. Yes, all wet indeed. Sorry about that - awfully rude of me. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 01:05 PM Response to Original message |
54. My wife will be 40 or almost when lil AA2 is born in November |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
56. no, also, if she has decided, its really not our business to weigh in |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I'm not weighing in |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #56 |
61. This is the correct answer |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:46 PM Response to Reply #61 |
63. Wrong answer |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 06:37 PM Response to Reply #63 |
66. Sorry but I don't buy it |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 02:39 PM Response to Reply #66 |
86. Yeah, I'm going to piss in her cornflakes |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 06:49 PM Response to Reply #86 |
93. I wouldn't ask the question of anyone |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 02:52 PM Response to Reply #93 |
97. I wanted actual people's opinions and experiences |
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lukasahero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-12-09 04:18 PM Response to Reply #97 |
105. Ah, so you wanted "opinions" not facts. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-12-09 04:35 PM Response to Reply #105 |
106. Go back and look at my questions |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
59. Look at this PHOTO for your answer |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:33 PM Response to Reply #59 |
60. What a gorgeous child! |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #60 |
62. That is her....and she IS happy. She says having Ever is the best thing she ever did |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 06:03 PM Response to Reply #62 |
65. That makes my heart happy |
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carpetbagger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 06:01 PM Response to Original message |
64. 40's a challenge, but less of one than 20. |
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BarenakedLady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-09-09 10:32 PM Response to Original message |
69. For me? Yes. |
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pinb1212 (76 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:28 AM Response to Original message |
71. Adopted our youngest child |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:31 AM Response to Original message |
72. Is there a history of Down's? |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:36 AM Response to Reply #72 |
73. History of Downs? |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:48 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. I thought there was a genetic predisposition and more likely for women over 40 |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:50 AM Response to Reply #76 |
77. It is more likely in older women, but it's not a genetic predisposition. |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 01:02 AM Response to Reply #77 |
78. I think they were playing the odds |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 01:10 AM Response to Reply #78 |
79. The fetus can be genetically tested. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 04:17 PM Response to Reply #77 |
89. Damn straight. Ask Sarah Palin. The odds of a Downs baby increase as you age. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 04:20 PM Response to Reply #89 |
90. Here's a table with the odds of Downs sydrome birth by maternal age |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 08:51 PM Response to Reply #89 |
96. Down syndrome is something that can be tested for. |
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Jennicut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 12:41 AM Response to Original message |
74. I had my two girls at 28 and 29 but I know plenty of Moms who had their kids at 40 or older |
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quakerboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 04:18 AM Response to Original message |
83. YES |
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guitar man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
84. My wife was 39 |
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Tommy_Carcetti (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 08:36 AM Response to Original message |
85. My mom had my little sister at 42. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 03:49 PM Response to Original message |
87. It depends. |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 04:12 PM Response to Original message |
88. I was 39 when youngest was born, 35 when oldest was born. |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 03:08 PM Response to Reply #88 |
98. Thank you for that |
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dembotoz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 04:36 PM Response to Original message |
91. i am 56, my oldest will be 14 in 2 weeks |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 03:11 PM Response to Reply #91 |
99. Thanks for the laugh! |
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trof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 05:07 PM Response to Original message |
92. Trying is a lot of fun. |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 07:00 PM Response to Reply #92 |
94. Sounds like a mastercard commercial! |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-10-09 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
95. Age is just a number. I do think there is an age that would be too |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 03:13 PM Response to Reply #95 |
100. Thanks Shell |
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Polly Hennessey (274 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 07:03 PM Response to Original message |
101. Too Old |
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pitohui (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-11-09 07:18 PM Response to Original message |
102. imagine going thru menopause while the child is going thru puberty |
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theNotoriousP.I.G. (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-12-09 03:27 PM Response to Reply #102 |
103. Thanks for your humor on the subject |
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hamsterjill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-12-09 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
104. Up to the individual |
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