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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 04:53 PM
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Does anybody know of any good plays, books, or movies about a woman having an affair
I'm writing a play where the main character is a married female and having an affair and I'm looking for some inspiration. Most of the fiction on this subject tends to be about men having affairs.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 04:55 PM
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1. Madame Bovary...
Edited on Wed Aug-05-09 04:55 PM by Richardo
...springs to mind.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 04:56 PM
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2. ...oh, and The Graduate.
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 04:58 PM
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3. Good suggestions, thank-you
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:00 PM
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4. Graham Greene's "The End of the Affair"
Tolstoy's "Anna Karenina"
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:02 PM
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7. I've read The End of The Affair, but its been a while
As I recall didn't that mostly focus on the man having the affair?
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lukasahero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:08 PM
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10. Guess I misunderstood your question
Since he wasn't married and she was, in my mind, she was the one having the affair (i.e. affair = cheating).

But I guess if you're looking for a story told from her perspective, that's something different then.
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Hippo_Tron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:10 PM
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12. Yea that's what I had in mind, still thanks for the suggestion
I will probably pull out my copy of that book and look over it at some point.
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:18 PM
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18. I am not sure of the technical definition, but I consider it an affair
either way.
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anneboleyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:39 PM
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28. And the movie Waitress (starring Keri Russell) -- lots of lovely pies in that film too
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LisaM Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:01 PM
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5. I agree re Madame Bovary.
Does it have to be a consummated affair? What about "The Great Gatsby", or "Middlemarch"?

You could also try "Mansfield Park" (Maria with Henry Crawford). I know that as soon as I'm away from a computer, I'll think of hundreds of examples.

"Rebecca" and "Wuthering Heights" also come to mind.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:02 PM
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6. Anna Karenina
Though technically, I think everybody in Anna Karenina is having one. It's on one level a critique of the falseness of the Russian aristocracy.
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kimmerspixelated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:03 PM
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An Affair to Remember?
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kimmerspixelated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:03 PM
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8. An Affair to Remember?
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rcrush Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:07 PM
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9. That movie with Diane Lane.
That was hot.
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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 05:08 PM
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11. Unfaithful, Eye of the Needle, From Here To Eternity...
Edited on Wed Aug-05-09 05:09 PM by edbermac
Postman Always Rings Twice. Eyes Wide Shut was about a wife fantasizing about an affair.

on edit: Brief Encounter.
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mnhtnbb Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 06:47 PM
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13. Classic Alan Alda and Ellen Burstyn movie, "Same Time Next Year"
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:00 PM
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14. Another vote for Madame Bovary
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:06 PM
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15. Unfaithful was a good one.
Closer was too.
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TZ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 11:51 AM
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40. Second vote for Unfaithful.
Excellent movie
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stewartcolbert08 Donating Member (614 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Aug-08-09 06:09 AM
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43. Me too!
Great movie!
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:11 PM
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16. Depends if it's comedy, drama or what have you. Edit
Edited on Wed Aug-05-09 07:13 PM by EFerrari
For example, Crimes of the Heart is about an affair that one sister has with a black teenager. And that subplot is very much from her POV.
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Demoiselle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:16 PM
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17. Lady Chatterley's Lover, Tea and Sympathy.
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TokenQueer Donating Member (762 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:44 PM
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19. Try the film "Another Woman" directed by Woody Allen.
Not an "other woman" pic in the way you may expect. Gena Rowlands turns out an incredible portrait of a woman that rents an apartment in NYC to write a book. Through the heating ducts she is able to listen in on therapy sessions and becomes obsessed with a pregnant patient (Mia Farrow). A dark, overlooked gem from Woody's "Ingmar Bergman" period.
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Inspired Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:47 PM
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20. Well, it isn't a good book but that is what The Bridges of Madison County is about.
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REP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:48 PM
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21. Candida, Shaw
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Tommy_Carcetti Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:48 PM
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22. It's not really a classic, but The Good Girl.
Starring Jennifer Aniston and Jake Gyllenhall. It's a surprisingly good movie.
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newcriminal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 07:57 PM
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23. I can't remember the name of the book.
Maybe someone here can help. This woman dies and her kids find love letters that their father wrote to her I believe every certain day of the week. They read them and find out that one of them isn't really their father's son. I think it was called Tuesday Letters, but can't find anything with that name when I google it.
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newcriminal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 09:08 PM
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33. The Wednesday Letters - I finally found it.
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handmade34 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:19 PM
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24. The Bridges of Madison County
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RebelOne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 07:32 AM
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37. You beat me to it. That's what first came to mind. n/t
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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 10:22 AM
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38. PUKE
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jmm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:25 PM
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25. Casablanca
Ilsa may not be the main character but she's one of the main ones and was having an affair while her husband was in a concentration camp.
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anneboleyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:48 PM
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30. I posted this one too -- a great film, and it definitely revolves around Ilsa's behavior
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:32 PM
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26. The White Rose by Jean Hanff Korelitz
:D
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anneboleyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:37 PM
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27. The novel Possession by Byatt, Nurse Jackie (television program), CASABLANCA
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anneboleyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:41 PM
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29. Meant to post here -- movie Waitress with Keri Russell, has lots of lovely pies too
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anneboleyn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 08:52 PM
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31. And of course The Scarlet Letter (with an "A" on her chest)
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undeterred Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 09:05 PM
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32. Website
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cloudbase Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 09:14 PM
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34. Double Indemnity
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travelingtypist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-05-09 11:26 PM
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35. Damage -- book by Josephine Hart; movie directed by Louis Malle.
The woman, Anna, played by Juliet Binoche, is in a relationship with her married lover Stephen's son Martyn. She's engaged to Martyn, not married yet. It's a very disturbing story, lovers embracing doom. The book has very strong D/s themes that Malle elected to gloss over.
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704wipes Donating Member (966 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 12:21 AM
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36. what about 'fear of flying'
by jessica jong - might help with your hotter scenes
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LeftinOH Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 11:48 AM
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39. The Last Picture Show (one of several overalapping plots).
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skygazer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 11:51 AM
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41. The Awakening - Kate Chopin
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MrScorpio Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Aug-06-09 11:55 AM
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42. Body Heat
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