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crimsonblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Jun-20-09 11:59 PM Original message |
Question about child discipline |
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PaddyBlueEyes (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:01 AM Response to Original message |
1. I have only swatted my children on the rear about three times |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:04 AM Response to Original message |
2. Don't spank |
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knowbody0 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:36 AM Response to Original message |
3. against it totally |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:37 AM Response to Original message |
4. Try posting this in GD! |
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Believing Is Art (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:49 AM Response to Original message |
5. My mom did it to me and my brother |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:51 AM Response to Original message |
6. I think laying hands on a child is lazy parenting. |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:55 AM Response to Reply #6 |
10. I don't see how it's hypocritical... |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:01 AM Response to Reply #10 |
14. The reason I say hypocritical... |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:32 AM Response to Reply #14 |
21. A child is not an adult and vise versa |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 02:56 PM Response to Reply #21 |
59. Deleted message |
Sabriel (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 03:10 PM Response to Reply #14 |
61. Yep, adultism |
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Madrone (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:28 AM Response to Reply #10 |
18. Forgot to say ... |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:41 AM Response to Reply #18 |
22. Simply doing things the way you were raised is really no excuse |
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keroro gunsou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #10 |
39. bill engvall: |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 09:35 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. I actually saw a woman do this in the grocery store a few months back |
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marzipanni (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
7. I feel like it goes against the Golden Rule |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
8. I'm against it completely |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 08:27 AM Response to Reply #8 |
26. +1 |
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keroro gunsou (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 09:27 PM Response to Reply #8 |
40. major chode |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 09:39 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. I stole a bit of his material |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:54 AM Response to Original message |
9. It's just might makes right. I'd never do it. |
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Believing Is Art (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:06 AM Response to Reply #9 |
15. "Give the kid away instead . . ."?!?!?! |
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Forkboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:21 AM Response to Reply #15 |
17. Heh...I like the cut of your jib. |
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MajorChode (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:49 AM Response to Reply #15 |
23. Why sell them when you can chain them to a sewing machine? |
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Bucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:58 AM Response to Original message |
11. Bush is out of office; it's really too late to teach him a lesson. |
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sasquatch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
12. I think children should be beat at least once a week |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:59 AM Response to Original message |
13. Never........ |
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laylah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 11:38 AM Response to Reply #13 |
55. A story... |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:18 AM Response to Original message |
16. Interesting you should mention this... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 03:01 AM Response to Reply #16 |
25. But, "this hurts me more than it hurts you." |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #25 |
29. If only I had a buck for every time I heard that... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 05:52 PM Response to Reply #16 |
38. good thinking as usual, Goddess |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 09:09 AM Response to Reply #38 |
46. Thanks, friend... |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 12:07 PM Response to Reply #46 |
56. well, we did the dinner for my husband last week - he's not really a fan of |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:56 AM Response to Reply #16 |
51. Was it Kate from Jon & Kate + 8? I heard that she did that to one of her kids. |
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hamsterjill (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 11:33 AM Response to Reply #51 |
54. Yes, and there are pictures |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:28 AM Response to Original message |
19. No opinon. |
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handmade34 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:14 AM Response to Original message |
20. no spanking |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:52 AM Response to Original message |
24. There are other ways.........muaha ha ha |
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av8rdave (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 08:51 AM Response to Original message |
27. When my kids were young... |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 08:57 AM Response to Original message |
28. to each there own, i dont get involved in other families unless there is abuse |
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surrealAmerican (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 11:00 AM Response to Original message |
30. It tends to leave children with the idea that ... |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:11 PM Response to Original message |
31. Several weeks ago I went into grocery store behind an elderly lady. We both |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 01:09 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. at 8 or 9, I would say that was too late |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #33 |
34. Agreed. Since she's older, she should have been informed of consequences to misbehaving. |
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GoddessOfGuinness (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 12:54 AM Response to Reply #31 |
43. Sounds like the girl may have a serious emotional disorder... |
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haele (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 04:00 PM Response to Reply #43 |
63. I remember taking my then-11-year-old stepdaughter out shopping for the first time. |
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madeline_con (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 01:42 AM Response to Reply #31 |
45. You could say, "Get out of the way please." and approach the carts. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 02:57 PM Response to Reply #31 |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 12:28 PM Response to Original message |
32. Having watched a mother cat and her litter of kittens, |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #32 |
52. I prefer the biting around the neck method myself. |
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MineralMan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 07:56 PM Response to Reply #52 |
70. Ohh....kinky... |
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Pharlo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 03:36 PM Response to Original message |
35. Former child here, |
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Dervill Crow (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 04:55 PM Response to Reply #35 |
36. We had the same mother. nt |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Jun-21-09 05:49 PM Response to Original message |
37. Don't believe in it and it doesn't really work. |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 01:39 AM Response to Original message |
44. If you're really asking... |
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Iris (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:59 AM Response to Reply #44 |
53. I LOVE the lounge! This would be an entirely different discussion in GD |
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newcriminal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 05:34 PM Response to Reply #44 |
68. For spanking a child? |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 06:40 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. Yes, n/m |
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newcriminal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 02:44 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. well, that's insane |
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Chan790 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Jun-23-09 08:07 PM Response to Reply #72 |
73. I think it's a matter of interpretation of terms and definitions here maybe. |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:05 AM Response to Original message |
47. This is not legal advice. |
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dropkickpa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:26 AM Response to Original message |
48. Hammers work wonders |
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Symarip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
49. My mom beat the shit out of me |
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applegrove (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 10:28 AM Response to Original message |
50. Rarely and not very hard. My mom spanked me and the last time she did I just looked at her with |
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dugaresa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 12:45 PM Response to Original message |
57. my father beat me with a belt only one time that I can remember |
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goodnight irene (2 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
58. It's lazy, stupid and cruel. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 03:13 PM Response to Original message |
62. Bad idea |
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LostInAnomie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 04:25 PM Response to Original message |
64. It's best to find something they love and take it away. |
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Dappleganger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 04:39 PM Response to Original message |
65. We have four kids. |
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LaraMN (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 04:43 PM Response to Original message |
66. I spanked JackMN yesterday. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 05:09 PM Response to Reply #66 |
67. That's about the only situation I spanked my kids for. |
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Roon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Jun-22-09 11:22 PM Response to Original message |
71. My Mother used to chase us with a yardstick |
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