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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:27 PM Original message |
a wierd question about death and family |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:34 PM Response to Original message |
1. My dear backwoodsbob... |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:39 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. it was just REALLY disturbing |
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Ilsa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:10 PM Response to Reply #1 |
40. Uncool.The body can make some very awkward sounds |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:35 PM Response to Original message |
2. Personally I find it a little morbid/weird. |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:37 PM Response to Reply #2 |
3. Some of that popularity might be due to the long exposure times for cameras back in the day |
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Kali (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:40 PM Response to Reply #3 |
6. because they could sit still better than the living? |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:41 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Yes, early cameras required about a twenty minute exposure. |
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mopinko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:32 PM Response to Reply #3 |
45. had more to do with the newness of the whole idea and |
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murielm99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 01:17 AM Response to Reply #45 |
48. The "too late" part was especially true. |
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FloridaJudy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:58 PM Response to Reply #2 |
11. My uncle insisted we photograph my mother's corpse. |
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Tangerine LaBamba (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:30 PM Response to Reply #2 |
37. I've seen photos from the early twentieth century, |
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sammythecat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:37 PM Response to Original message |
4. Wow, that is a weird one |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:44 PM Response to Original message |
8. When my grandmother died some few years ago |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:54 PM Response to Reply #8 |
10. they didn't mean any harm and they certainly didn't harm her |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:34 PM Response to Reply #8 |
15. Jesus. Over-react much? |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:53 PM Original message |
They did VIOLATE ME! |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
21. Not what I posted. Calm down. Take a breath. |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:01 PM Response to Reply #21 |
22. Your still an asshole. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:05 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. Gee, that means so much to me. |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 12:52 PM Response to Reply #22 |
52. you should have posted "you are" |
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Javaman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 03:19 PM Response to Reply #22 |
56. Some people will never get it. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
24. hate to say this but you are not the most important person in that situation except to yourself |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:09 PM Response to Reply #24 |
27. where the fuck did I say I felt violated? |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:12 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. He was posting to texasgal, backwoodsbob. |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:20 PM Response to Reply #28 |
31. if you look |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:24 PM Response to Reply #31 |
33. This is getting silly. |
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Rabrrrrrr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:33 PM Response to Reply #33 |
38. Yes, totally silly indeed - backwoodsbob didn't shit on you at all, |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:02 PM Response to Reply #33 |
39. comsidering I never replied to you |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:13 PM Response to Reply #39 |
41. am I in bizzaro world? |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:22 PM Response to Reply #41 |
42. ok I did reply to you once |
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Texasgal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:30 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. Nevermind. |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #27 |
29. erm im not sure if your seeing the posts im actually replying to |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:23 PM Response to Reply #29 |
32. omg I'm sorry |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:25 PM Response to Reply #32 |
34. no problem, its easier to converse without misunderstanding over an open fire with some shine |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:27 PM Response to Reply #34 |
43. obviously I took that poster off ignore now |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 07:50 PM Response to Original message |
9. Sounds like a 21st Century update of casket photos |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:26 PM Response to Reply #9 |
35. It's also an older generation Midwestern habit |
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Haole Girl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:03 PM Response to Original message |
12. Hadn't heard, until now, of anybody doing that |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:25 PM Response to Original message |
13. I wouldn't have watched it. And if I were at a deathbed, I'd ask anyone with a camera to leave |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:37 PM Response to Reply #13 |
16. If i was there i would tell you if you dont like it to leave, different people deal with death |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:52 PM Response to Reply #16 |
17. Don't worry: I won't be forcing myself into the hospital rooms of dying strangers |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:55 PM Response to Reply #17 |
19. hospital rooms hell, until 2 years ago no one and i mean no one in my family died in hospital |
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backwoodsbob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:02 PM Response to Reply #16 |
23. chill..I didnt say I was offended..I even said I'm sure they didnt mean any harm |
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vadawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:05 PM Response to Reply #23 |
25. sorry was this aimed at me, not sure, i got what you were saying |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:17 PM Response to Reply #23 |
30. If you're aiming at me instead of vadawg, I'll just say: I was telling you how I'd react |
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NNadir (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
14. I find most death rituals bizarre. I wish I had skipped my mother's funeral, to be frank. |
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struggle4progress (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:53 PM Response to Reply #14 |
18. well, there's something we agree on |
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Duer 157099 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 08:59 PM Response to Original message |
20. Well you've given me something new to think about |
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Ptah (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 09:28 PM Response to Original message |
36. I've been struggling with whether or not to share this. Here goes. |
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HarukaTheTrophyWife (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon May-18-09 10:50 PM Response to Original message |
46. Bounce, bounce, bounce |
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TreasonousBastard (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 12:06 AM Response to Original message |
47. What to do? Nothing-- they're family, too, even if... |
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petronius (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 01:31 AM Response to Original message |
49. That sounds odd - did they give any explanation why they filmed it? |
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whistler162 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 07:52 AM Response to Original message |
50. Would you like to see photos of my fathers |
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Shell Beau (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 12:49 PM Response to Original message |
51. This thread is strange. |
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PassingFair (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
53. My husband let his relatives traipse in and out of the delivery room... |
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Bertha Venation (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 01:37 PM Response to Original message |
54. That is weird . . . |
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LNM (538 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue May-19-09 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
55. At the risk of starting another flamewar |
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