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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:35 AM
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I put my dog to sleep today
She was 16 ... blind, deaf, couldn't smell and was fighting kidney failure and dementia-induced anxiety. It was definitely time.

We adopted her at 13 when she was already losing her sight and hearing. Her name was Chiaro, but we called her Puppa. In her younger days, she was a best-of-show champion. We just knew her as a sweet little dog.




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firedupdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:37 AM
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1. So Sorry,
:hug:
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Connonym Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:40 AM
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2. ...
:hug: I'm sorry. I know that must have been terribly hard to do. Rest in peace sweet Puppa.
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:41 AM
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3. I'm sorry. Thank you for adopting a senior dog. nt
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:45 AM
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4. Thanks. I somehow thought an older dog would be less of an emotional commitment
Turns out I was wrong.
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Sheltiemama Donating Member (892 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 02:41 PM
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56. There's a special place in heaven for you.
And she'll be waiting for you there to thank you.

I'm so sorry for your loss.
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deepthought42 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:48 AM
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5. Oh...
Edited on Fri May-01-09 12:48 AM by deepthought42
:hug:

At least she had a good life with you. :)

It's never easy; I still remember coming home from school the day Snoopy (age 15) was put to sleep. Got home and he wasn't there. That was over 9 years ago.
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nomorenomore08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:49 AM
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6. Sad how these little critters don't live nearly as long as we do.
My condolences...
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 12:51 AM
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7. heh... I wonder if my parrots think that about me
Unless I exceed the average life expectancy, they'll likely outlive me by at least 10 years.

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nomorenomore08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:02 AM
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8. At least giant tortoises aren't commonly kept as pets.
Then you'd have to hope your grandkids were animal lovers. :P
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:18 AM
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12. It happens with the big birds
Some of them live over 100 years. Both my girlfriend and I have provisions in our wills to make sure that our parrots are taken care of. I know some older parrots who have outlived three caregivers.
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:04 AM
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9. i'm so sorry
rest well, puppa.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:10 AM
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10. Bless you for adopting a senior dog.
16 years old. That's a good long time.

Excuse me, I appear to have something in my eye.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:20 AM
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13. I'd do it again in a heartbeat. Older dogs are great
Right now I'm overloaded with foster birds, but once I get a few of these guys adopted I'll be looking for another "senior citizen".
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Robeson Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:12 AM
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11. I'm sorry...
...:grouphug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:30 AM
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14. You did a good thing adopting an older dog
Edited on Fri May-01-09 01:30 AM by ThomCat
that was already developing problems. So many people would have just abandoned a dog like that, or left it in the pound to eventually be put down.

You gave her years! :)

I'm glad you let her stick it out for a while. And I'm glad you made the choice before her life became unbearable. :hug:

I'm so sorry you had to do this. :(

You're a good person.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:41 AM
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16. Credit for those extra years goes to her raw food diet.
My girlfriend converted me to feeding homemade, raw meat food. It had a HUGE effect on Puppa's energy and mobility. I doubt she'd have made it to 14 on her previous dried food. I'll never feed a dog store-bought food again.
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MajorChode Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 02:47 PM
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57. My experience has been about the same
I have a dog that's 17 and we fed her Dog Chow for over a decade. When she hit about 14 she started having problems and we've had her on the vet specialty food ever since.
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 01:32 AM
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15. I'm sorry
What a sweet face.

:hug:
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47of74 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 02:05 AM
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17. Sorry for your loss
I'm sorry for your loss.
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ccharles000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 02:20 AM
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18. ...
:cry: :hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:37 PM
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19. Oh great of you to give her some fine last years.
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The Velveteen Ocelot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:39 PM
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20. I'm sorry -- R.I.P., Puppa.
:hug:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:42 PM
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21. My condolences, graz. She was a lucky dog. n/t
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denbot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:42 PM
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22. I'm sorry jgraz
Peace to you.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:44 PM
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23. I am very sorry for your loss.
:hug:
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S n o w b a l l Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:52 PM
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24. Aww, she was adorable...
I'm so sorry for your loss.

:hug:
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Debi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:52 PM
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25. She's a beautiful girl
Sorry she's gone :hug:
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Roon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 08:58 PM
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26. Puppa sounds like she was a wonderful dog!
I adopted a senior kitty and I wouldn't change anything for the world! I am just glad she is spending her last days in warm, comfort, and has a belly full of food and treats.
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 09:00 PM
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27. So sorry, jgraz.... She sure looks like a sweet girl!
She had a really great three years with you. :hug:
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sammythecat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 09:17 PM
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28. That's really tough.
It's so sad that animals have to suffer afflictions like that. It seems so cruel and they are so undeserving of it.

I'll be facing the same decision as you some time soon. I dread it.

My sympathies to you and everyone who loved Puppa.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:25 PM
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30. Some advice if you're facing the decision
In the end, it turned out to be the kindest thing for her. She wasn't in acute pain, but she had nothing left in her life that brought her joy. I could have waited until she became truly miserable, but would that have been for her benefit or mine?

We were in the room with her, and she came pretty close to leaving after receiving only 1/6th of the initial sedative. Once she got the Big Shot, she was gone in a couple of minutes. After it was over, I realized that it was the first time I'd seen her truly at peace in months.

This decision is the last, biggest thing that our pets require from us. I'm sure I made the right call, and you will be too when the time comes.


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UTUSN Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 09:18 PM
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29. OHooo noooo. I'm sorry. I haven't gotten over this for 15 years. n/t
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BarenakedLady Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:34 PM
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31. I'm so sorry
But thank you for opening your home and heart to an elderly dog. That is awesome she spent her last years in a loving home.

:hug:
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BuelahWitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:45 PM
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32. I'm sorry
:hug:
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LeftyFingerPop Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:54 PM
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33. I'm very sorry...
:hug:
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Shell Beau Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:57 PM
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34. That is so awesome that you took in an older pup!!
:hug: Never easy to make that decision either. Even though we know it is time. :hug:
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 10:58 PM
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35. Sorry to hear that. Godspeed, Puppa!
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jobycom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:02 PM
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36. You both got lucky enough to spend three years together.
Happy thoughts. After the sadness. :headbang:
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Canuckistanian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:07 PM
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37. Requiescat in pace, Puppa
May you forever chase squirrels in your favorite field.
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Richardo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:11 PM
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38. So sorry, jgraz
I know exactly what you are going through :hug:
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emilyg Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:35 PM
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39. I am sorry. Sweet play for her in heaven.
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KT2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:47 PM
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40. I am so sorry
She was very lucky to have lived with you, especially in her later years.
What a sweet girl too.
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:53 PM
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41. I'm so sorry.
:hug:
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livvy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-01-09 11:54 PM
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42. I'm so sorry.
As a person who has lost many furbuddies, it's so hard. I've been fortunate enough to have lost all of mine at home. I've not been put in the situation of having to take one of my babies in.
My most sincere understanding of your feelings right now flowing your way. I am so sorry. Liv
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CrawlingChaos Donating Member (583 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:00 AM
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43. Ah heck...
I can't tell you how much I admire you for adopting her at age 13 and filling her final years with love and happiness. I'm so sorry for your loss -- I can never find the words. What a darling girl (that pic is off the charts).

Take good care of yourself and feel better soon.
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sohndrsmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:10 AM
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44. you okay? I send you warm hugs... n/t
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:19 AM
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45. Yep, we're doing ok.
I was a wreck yesterday, but seeing her finally at peace makes things a lot easier.
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sohndrsmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:33 AM
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46. Aw... I know it's hard. I'm so glad she had you for so long...
Sounds like both of you were extremely fortunate to have each other. That in itself is priceless - and will never go away. She sounds like a gem and it's no accident that your being part of her life helped her live so fully and so long.

Take good care and be gentle with yourself, okay?
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:56 AM
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47. I'm so sorry for your loss...
RIP, sweet girl.
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Erva Donating Member (178 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 07:56 AM
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48. I am sorry.
Hang in there. I know it's awful.
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Pool Hall Ace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 08:07 AM
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49. Thank you for providing that sweetheart such a good home.
Edited on Sat May-02-09 08:08 AM by Pool Hall Ace
:hug:

:cry: RIP, Puppa O8)
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mitchum Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 10:22 AM
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50. My thoughts are with you and everyone who knew and loved Puppa
rest in peace, sweet girl
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GreenPartyVoter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 11:56 AM
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51. I am so sorry *hugs* Losing a furbaby is always so heartbreaking.
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jgraz Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 12:39 PM
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52. Thanks, everyone, for all the kind words
You guys really did a lot to help me get through this. :grouphug:
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 01:07 PM
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53. Sorry about your dog. :-(
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MadMaddie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 01:23 PM
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54. jgrazz Puppa had a great life thanks you and your family!
RIP Puppa..
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My Good Babushka Donating Member (966 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 01:24 PM
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55. Sorry for your loss.
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Sultana Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 02:50 PM
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58. So, Sorry
She's in a better place :hug:
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nuxvomica Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 03:16 PM
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59. I'm sorry.
What a sweet little sprite she is in that picture. Rest in peace little one.
Peace to you. :hug:
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Vidar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 04:12 PM
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60. My sympathies. Awfully hard to part with friends that way.
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SalmonChantedEvening Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 05:26 PM
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61. Aww jgraz
:hug: :hug: :hug:

Goodnight Puppa. Good Girl.

My deepest sympathies. Our Midnight was blind and lost in her last days.
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latebloomer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 08:01 PM
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62. I'm very sorry
I know how hard it is to lose a furbaby.

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janx Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-02-09 10:39 PM
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63. This is probably the toughest thing any one of us can do.
I still cry when I remember having to euthanize my baby, Finn, some years ago. I still have her ashes and don't know what to do with them. She died from lymphoma.

What a cruel trick of nature it is that our dogs, our best friends, live for such a short time.
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