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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 10:53 AM Original message |
Do Women like jerks? |
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LeftPeopleFinishFirst (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 10:57 AM Response to Original message |
1. I like nice guys! |
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drb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:08 AM Response to Original message |
2. Well, yeah. I've always tried to be nice... |
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mhr (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:09 AM Response to Original message |
3. You Are Not Alone In Your Observation. It Seems That Many Women |
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Demonaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 05:33 PM Response to Reply #3 |
89. totally true....a great many women like assholes, but nice guys |
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alarcojon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:13 AM Response to Original message |
4. I hear you |
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unblock (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:32 AM Response to Original message |
5. your turn will come |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:36 AM Response to Original message |
6. teen-age girls, and many women as well... |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:44 AM Response to Reply #6 |
8. Well.... |
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Jade Fox (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:01 PM Response to Reply #8 |
14. I'm sorry this is happening to you.... |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:52 PM Response to Reply #8 |
48. I bet you are ignoring the very women who |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:42 AM Response to Original message |
7. It may seem that way |
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Ready4Change (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:49 AM Response to Original message |
9. Some ladies prefer jerks, others are wiser. |
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fudge stripe cookays (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 10:42 AM Response to Reply #9 |
72. Good observation |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
10. Some do, but I don't |
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gmoney (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:53 AM Response to Original message |
11. find the balance |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:06 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. I hate women. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:13 PM Response to Reply #16 |
19. Now come on |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:21 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I am sorry. |
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Darth_Kitten (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:52 PM Response to Reply #21 |
33. Cool down. ;) |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
12. Bill Hicks Said We Do |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:00 PM Response to Original message |
13. Also...A Question |
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NicoleM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:11 PM Response to Reply #13 |
17. Bingo! |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:12 PM Response to Reply #13 |
18. Well the thing is She seemed nice. |
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Susang (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:19 PM Response to Reply #18 |
20. I wasn't calling you shallow |
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NicoleM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:26 PM Response to Reply #18 |
23. A story. |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
15. *shrug* I like nice guys |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:24 PM Response to Original message |
22. No. Unapproachably stunningly gorgeous women do, though. |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 12:45 PM Response to Reply #22 |
24. heh yes |
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:02 PM Response to Reply #24 |
25. No, but it makes me feel better. |
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Kamika (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:23 PM Response to Reply #25 |
30. uhmm gold diggers |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 03:01 PM Response to Reply #22 |
35. In my experience, it works both ways. |
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mitchum (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:08 PM Response to Original message |
26. No, they like we bad boys... |
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philosophie_en_rose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:16 PM Response to Original message |
27. Not really. |
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southerngirlwriter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
28. SOME women do, and here's why. |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
29. Plenty do |
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camero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:30 PM Response to Original message |
31. You don't have to be a jerk |
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Bridget Burke (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 01:45 PM Response to Original message |
32. Deal with your anger... |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:10 PM Response to Reply #32 |
41. your assessment. |
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TXlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:14 PM Response to Reply #41 |
81. Bridget Burke's suggestion is an excellent one |
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lazarus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 02:01 PM Response to Original message |
34. People often don't really know what they want... |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 03:02 PM Response to Original message |
36. Unless you're cute, you'd better be wealthy or a 'mysterious' asshole |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:03 PM Response to Reply #36 |
40. My standards were not the issue. |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:16 PM Response to Reply #40 |
44. If you're going for someone outside your range, you need those things (nt) |
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PurityOfEssence (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 03:08 PM Response to Original message |
37. confidence is attractive, and it's culturally programmed as a plus |
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jpgray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 03:15 PM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Come on though, when you crack the unattainable, that is SUCH a kick |
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coloradodem2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 03:51 PM Response to Reply #37 |
39. The thing I found interesting about her... |
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dorktv (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:13 PM Response to Original message |
42. I think you are right on the jerk thing. |
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Nikia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:14 PM Response to Original message |
43. Maybe, you're fixating on this instance a bit much |
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populistmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:18 PM Response to Original message |
45. No, not in the least |
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Tiberius (798 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
46. time for a little pep talk |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:50 PM Response to Original message |
47. When I was teaching college |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Mar-07-04 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
49. Overall, I find women are attracted to confidence. |
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Enraged_Ape (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
50. Chill out until your mid-to-late twenties. You will be a babe magnet. |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:02 AM Response to Reply #50 |
51. Don't listen to this advice! Talk to girls in normal |
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Enraged_Ape (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:28 AM Response to Reply #51 |
55. First rule of winning anyone over... |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:29 AM Response to Reply #55 |
56. What I've found--go out and try |
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Enraged_Ape (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:32 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I agree with you |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:34 AM Response to Reply #57 |
58. Rather, if you seek it it will find you. |
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Enraged_Ape (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:44 AM Response to Reply #58 |
59. Willy, I never had women ardently throwing themselves at me... |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:46 AM Response to Reply #59 |
60. Hmm... I'm going to have to think about this! |
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camero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:49 AM Response to Reply #60 |
61. EA is right on this |
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mac56 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 08:20 AM Response to Reply #61 |
71. Beware, though. |
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camero (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:52 PM Response to Reply #71 |
84. You're right |
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Enraged_Ape (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:52 AM Original message |
Now, paying is another thing |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:53 AM Response to Original message |
63. I hear that--I was just impressed by my friend who refused to pay |
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private_ryan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:18 PM Response to Reply #50 |
82. you make a lot of sense for an Ape :) |
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furrylitldevil (555 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:03 AM Response to Original message |
52. Perhaps it's just Colorado |
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flaminbats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:08 AM Response to Original message |
53. women, gals, godesses....lordesses.. |
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WillyBrandt (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:10 AM Response to Original message |
54. MOVE TO NEW YORK! |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:52 AM Response to Original message |
62. jerks suck! |
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flaminbats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:21 AM Response to Reply #62 |
65. These are good points... |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:33 AM Response to Reply #65 |
66. I guess I wasn't very clear |
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flaminbats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:43 AM Response to Reply #66 |
69. ahhh... |
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neebob (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:57 AM Response to Original message |
64. I used to like jerks |
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TrogL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:37 AM Response to Original message |
67. Jerks socialize well |
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MurikanDemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:38 AM Response to Original message |
68. Not this woman! |
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Seldona (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:54 AM Response to Original message |
70. It isn't about being 'nice' at all. |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:07 AM Response to Original message |
73. Think it's any different on the other side of the coin? |
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flaminbats (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 12:09 PM Response to Reply #73 |
80. I know what you mean... |
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Heyo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:45 AM Response to Original message |
74. It's because you are no challenge to them.... |
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BiggJawn (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:47 AM Response to Original message |
75. Sure they do. |
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ScreamingMeemie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
76. My father used to tell people I hung out in front of the County Jail... |
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private_ryan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 05:28 PM Response to Reply #76 |
87. do you still bail your old boyfriends out? |
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TXlib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:55 AM Response to Original message |
77. Some women like jerks, but more importantly, women don't like doormats |
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Lydia Leftcoast (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 01:44 PM Response to Reply #77 |
83. "Nice" guys |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:57 AM Response to Original message |
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Zomby Woof (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 11:58 AM Response to Original message |
79. nope! |
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Lindsey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 02:21 PM Response to Reply #79 |
85. I think that a woman who has been into self-actualization and |
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tsakshaug (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
86. my story |
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THUNDER HANDS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 05:31 PM Response to Original message |
88. dude, those women exist |
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tom_paine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 05:37 PM Response to Original message |
90. "Every women loves a Fascist...the boot in the face" |
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CanuckAmok (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 05:48 PM Response to Original message |
91. Gosh, I hope so. n/t |
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demgurl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Mar-08-04 06:16 PM Response to Original message |
92. I am sorry women have treated you that way. |
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