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....and then wonder if there is anything in their personal life that makes them happy at all?
And I'm not talking about people who have actual emotional problems or may be depressed due to some tramatic event. I mean people who just come across as naturally ugly and unpleasant people for no particular reason, people who insist on being combative for the sake of being combative.
There's one woman, not a coworker, but someone who I've had to recently deal with in my line of business, who every time I have to deal with her, she has to pick a fight over the most trivial and minute things. It's as though she is impossible to please or have a civil interaction with.
So yesterday, after my most recent incident, I got to wondering. I wondered if she was married or had some sort of a significant other. I hadn't checked to bother if she had a wedding ring. I mean, I wouldn't say she's really that physically attractive, but I wouldn't say she's necessarily unattractive either, at least when compared to other people of her comparable age. Is there anyone that she shares her life who makes her smile, that she can let her guard down, go out and have fun with? It doesn't even have to be a love interest, it could just be a good friend. I wondered if there was any person she ever had a social interaction with that she didn't seek out to make the experience as unpleasant as humanly possible.
Then I wondered if she had any children. If she ever knew the feeling of looking into a child's eyes and knowing that he or she was her flesh and blood, and that she would do anything in her life to make sure that her child knew that he or she was loved and cared for.
Or if not a child, maybe a pet. Did she come home to a dog or a cat? Who when she relaxed in front of the TV in the evening would come up and curl in her lap, and let her pet it? Or hell, even something like a fish or a turtle, something that she could show some form of attachment to or responsibility, no matter how small or trivial?
Then my mind really began to wander. I wondered whether this woman ever took any vacations, or whether she never left her house other than go to her job. Perhaps she did take trips, but most likely they were all day job seminars, and after the seminar was done with, she would return to her hotel room at 9:00 pm on the dot and go immediately to sleep.
I wondered if she ever actually took time to enjoy a good meal, whether she would go out to a nice restaraunt and order the chef's special of the day. Probably not. Most likely her meals all consisted of oatmeal. Not that special oatmeal flavored with maple and brown sugar, mind you. Just plain, flavorless oatmeal. Three meals a day, 365 days a year.
I wondered whether she even bothered to sleep on a mattress. What good is a soft mattress to her? A concrete slab would do the trick just as well.
Then I realized I was thinking a little too much. Still, I just have to wonder about people like that. Surely there has to be something in their life that makes them happy. I just wonder what it might be.
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