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Very large people, in general, need more pain meds than small or average-sized ones. I'm well over 6 feet and in the 400s so it just about takes a bucket of anything to kill my pain. Basically, I have a shoulder which has disintegrated, and I can barely move my left arm or do anything with it without getting hit with blinding bolts of pain, even in my sleep.
My regular doctor understands this, and is steadily increasing my dose of a pain patch every month until we get to where I'm fairly comfortable. That is in addition to oxycodone in pill form, which, since I'm not abusing it like Rush Limbaugh, I'm happy to say hasn't damaged my hearing... yet. However, due to my weight and a number of other circumstances (like the world's smallest and deepest veins), my legs are also in bad shape. With diet and what little exercise I can manage, I'm losing weight at a snail's pace and hope and pray that my problems will start to subside at least until I'm somewhat older. Anyhow, I've been hospitalized for this a few times recently to fight off infections and crap, and while I'm in the hospital I invariably end up with only a scant fraction of the pain medication my regular doctor has me on. One time, I had a doctor smart enough to put me on a dose of IV medication straight through my PICC line, and the stuff worked beautifully, but only for about 90 minutes and the damn doses were only every 3 hours in theory, and more like 4-5 hours with the damn nurses always being behind on everything. When you end up in a complete stupor not because you're on too much medication, but because you're on too little and can't even sleep anymore, that's a good sign you have a problem!
Where I'm going with this is that I understand it's a nightmare, even though my health issues are nowhere near as bad as your father's. So if he's hurting, he has the right to have that reduced as much as possible. If he's not willing to speak up for himself then you did the right thing! I can tell you love your dad, and I hope that the rest of his time here will be spent in minimal pain and with the knowledge and reassurance that you are there to love him and care for him.
I just read your posts saying that you may be gone for a while, so I don't even know if you'll read this. I think I'm going to just copy and paste it into a PM to you. I don't know you from Adam, but I'm sorry for your father and I hope your own situation will right itself and you'll be back soon. :hug:
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