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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 07:36 PM
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Post your personality
We've had lots of threads lately where you post a picture of yourself. How about posting your personality description.

I'll start: I'm nuturing (not common for a man, sadly), intuitive, creative, sometimes obsessive, can be dazzlingly witty when in the right frame of mine, but painfully slow other times, very much into pets and giving them attention - dogs run to me, cats roll over on the sidewalk in front of me, optimistic, a little high-strung, a great listener, reliable, blunt and sometimes live in fantasy.
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cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 07:44 PM
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1. Okay, here it goes...
I'm very thoughtful, question everything, have very strict ideas of right and wrong. I try to be there as much as I can for my family and a few very close friends. I listen and I always want to understand what motivates people. I want to know what makes them tick. I do more observing than talking which gives some people the idea that I'm a rug to be walked on. At times, though, I have an explosive temper and a mouth to match. I can tear a person down pretty quickly when I'm in that mode. I've had to work very hard over a period of years to control my temper.
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 07:56 PM
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3. You must have gotten an advance copy of my autobiography
to steal a line someone else posted once. I'm most of those things that you posted but I don't really try to find out what makes people tick. I'm very blasé about other people now. But the last 4 sentences of your post describe me to a T.
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cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:10 PM
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8. There is a graveyard of things I've broken over the years...
as a result of my horrible temper. When I had my middle child I began earnestly learning to control it. A few months ago I had a set back and broke a glass when I flung it across the kitchen. This is a trait I'm very ashamed of and have worked very hard to control.
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:37 PM
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13. I've done many things like that.
My sister tells me that I once poured an entire bowl of sugar over her head when I was a little kid, but I have no memory of that event at all. I remember throwing flour at my mother once when I was about 12 or so. I have thrown objects but never any really valuable ones. I have broken at least one window with a thrown object. For some reason yelling or swearing just doesn't do the trick like actually causing an object to shatter or become damaged beyond repair does. So much more satisfying. There's actually a place here in San Diego you can pay to go into where you just throw things and smash things for the therapeutic value.
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Starbucks Anarchist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 07:55 PM
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2. Mine's very similar to yours.
Though I'm probably more introverted than you.
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:01 PM
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4. I'm funny, obnoxious, slightly rude, slightly awkward, but very kind and compassionate.
I can be somewhat distant and difficult to get close to at times. I'm lazy and a constant procrastinator. I'm very creative. I love to write and my imagination is almost always working. I'm very cynical and jaded but can be surprisingly optimistic and hopeful about things. I've always been a good listener, and have only gotten better at it over the years (now that I've had training in it :P). I am totally lacking in tact, have an incredibly immature sense of humor, and can have a temper if provoked. I tend to be an easygoing person overall, and consider laughing at oneself, and the world, to be the most important survival tactic there is.
I agree with Ronald Reagan when he said 'trust but verify.'
I get sad sometimes and I don't know why.
I get sad sometimes and I do know why.
I love my family as much as they frustrate me.
I adore my best friends as dorky as they are.
Music is my favorite thing. I couldn't be without it.
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Deja Q Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:03 PM
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5. In a word:
Eccentric.

In a few words, catering to the D&D RPG folks:

Chaotic Good.

In several words, which will bore you to sleep:

(Naah. It'd only bore you to sleep...)

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cynatnite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:07 PM
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7. If I smoke some pot will your icon quit doing that? n/t
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:34 PM
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12. If you smoke pot, his icon will keep doing that, but it will seem like 3 years between each rotation
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nickinSTL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:40 PM
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20. heh. Chaotic Good...
I'm afraid I'm more Lawful Good...though I do tend toward neutral...after all, I do occasionally speed, and there are some laws that are just stupid :D

As for a more thorough description...

I'm quiet, at least until I get to know someone, honest to a fault, mostly extremely patient, but easily annoyed by traffic or rude people - I'm extremely loyal to friends and family, I'm mostly not terribly entertaining, but every now and then, I come up with something quite hilariously funny - though my sense of humor tends to be dark. I also have little patience with unintelligent people - not one of my better qualities, I admit.
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:03 PM
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6. This is my personality in the morning.
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nomorenomore08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:12 PM
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9. Introverted, a little "off," tend to be a little out of sync with things, but with a surprisingly
large social circle. I guess a lot of people (and animals) are drawn to being around me because I tend to project this calm, mellow vibe - I've been told by one friend that I'm very Buddha-like. But despite that, and my lifelong reputation as a "really nice guy" (kind of annoying, that one :grr:), I've also been known to have angry outbursts at people who really didn't deserve it, and to be somewhat of an energy drain (or just a prick :P) when I'm not in a good mood. And really, I go through so many different moods and states of mind in a given day that it's kind of hard to get a handle on my true nature, if such a thing even exists.

So call me a walking contradiction, I guess...
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Skittles Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:14 PM
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10. I kick ass
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:36 PM
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18. Yea, but
you're intensely loyal and supportive. You're a bit of a loner with a big heart.

Am I right??
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:31 PM
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11. I took a test




And from another:

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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 08:48 PM
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14. I'm a curmudgeon, dadblast it!
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:41 PM
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21. Get off my lawn
ya damn kids!! :)
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MineralMan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 09:16 AM
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32. Damn straight!
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femmocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:29 PM
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15. Me:
Quiet, introvert, wry sense of humor, animal lover, artist, always learning, perfectionist-- but can be messy, scattered and forgetful.

Oh, and I love to sleep.
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Lethe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:32 PM
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16. INTJ - Myers-Briggs
totally

read the description and that is me
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:38 PM
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19. Me too
and I've taken a variety of MB tests.

INTJ - The Free-Thinker

http://www.geocities.com/lifexplore/intj.htm

Profile by Sandra Krebs Hirsch and Jean Kummerow

INTJs are strong individualists who seek new angles or novel ways of looking at things. They enjoy coming to new understandings. They are insightful and mentally quick; however, this mental quickness may not always be outwardly apparent to others since they keep a great deal to themselves. They are very determined people who trust their vision of the possibilities, regardless of what others think. They may even be considered the most independent of all of the sixteen personality types. INTJs are at their best in quietly and firmly developing their ideas, theories, and principles.

Living

The independent and individualistic INTJ manner appears early in life. As children, INTJs are often inwardly focused on their thoughts of the way the world is or ought to be; they enjoy day dreaming. They can be quite stubborn when information relayed to them by authorities, such as parents and teachers, contradicts what they believe. They are sure of their own belief system. INTJs are compelled to establish their own rules, boundaries, standards, and style.

Often at an early age, INTJs make a commitment to furthering their education. The life of the mind is very important to them. Examples abound of INTJs from economically or intellectually impoverished circumstances setting goals for themselves to continue in education, often earning the highest degree possible.

INTJ teenagers may be seen as serious and reserved young people who are labeled as bookworms by others. They set internal standards of achievement for themselves and often do well academically. Being sociable is a standard that they rarely think is worth their time and energy.

As adults, INTJs are focused on attaining their inner goals and standards. They set a particular course based on their theory of what ought to be. They work extremely diligently to accomplish what they feel is important. They enjoy what they do and see it as a challenge. They are not easily dissuaded and may regard others' needs and wants as an impediment to attaining their objectives.

Learning and Working

INTJs learn best when they can design their won approach and when they are able to absorb themselves in an area that interests them. They tend to focus on systems, theories, and constructs relating to universal truths and principles. They prefer challenging teachers, ones who meet their standards. High grade-point averages and test scores tend to characterize INTJs, who like rigorous academic work. Learning needs to be a creative process. Rote memory can be dull and boring for the INTJ.

INTJs are diligent in pursuing new ideas and thoughts, and they exert effort to master a given subject. This makes INTJs particularly adept in most school situations. Because of their resourcefulness, thirst for knowledge, and inner needs, INTJs tend to find ways of acquiring knowledge. They gravitate toward libraries, public lectures, courses, and other learners and teachers - sources that offer them information and direction.

At work, INTJs use their conceptual strengths to analyze situations and then develop models to understand and anticipate through relentlessly to reach their goals. They will continue on with their plans, even in the face of adversity and data that might suggest to other more practical types that their goals are no longer feasible. By nature, INTJs are independent individualists. They see their visions so clearly that they are often surprised when others do not see things the same way. INTJs are strong at critiquing and as a result tend to notice the negatives. To them, a job well done should be reward enough in itself. They may neglect to comment favorably on others' contributions.

INTJs tend to seek occupations that allow them to change the status quo and to design models to express their vision creatively. They desire autonomy and room for growth. They prefer to work in a place in which the future can be planned and where they can work for change in an organized manner.

Some occupations seem to be especially attractive to INTJs: computer systems analyst, electrical engineer, judge, lawyer, photographer, psychologist, research department manager, researcher, scientist, university instructor, and other occupations in which long-range vision is essential.

Loving

For INTJs, love means including someone in their vision of the world. INTJ men tend to be attracted to partners who enjoy living their lives with and outward vitality and zest. Perhaps it is to compensate for their internal, visionary focus that they often find partners who are more outgoing and may even run interference to help the INTJ deal with the day-to-day world. INTJ women, however, may seek someone more like themselves.

INTJs tend to have a model in mind of how their relationship ought to be. This is less a romantic vision than it is and idea that relates to how the relationship functions in a unique or special way. They tend to withhold their deep feelings and affections from the public and sometimes even from the object of their affections. They can be intensely loyal and caring, even though this is not always expressed in words. INTJs can be generous with their gifts if the gift fits their vision of what ought to be appreciated by their partner.

When scorned, INTJs retreat to their own world and may share none of their feelings with others. They may assume that there is a right way for a relationship to end and look for that. They act on the outside as if nothing has happened to them when indeed much has. They may lash out with criticisms of their former loved ones. It may take them a while to recover.

Profile by David Keirsey

INTJs are the most self-confident of all types, having "self-power" awareness. Found in about 1 percent of the general population, the INTJs live in an introspective reality, focusing on possibilities, using thinking in the form of empirical logic, and preferring that events and people serve some positive use. Decisions come naturally to INTJs' once a decision is made, INTJs are at rest. INTJs look to the future rather than the past, and a word which captures the essence of INTJs is builder-a builder of systems and the applier of theoretical models.

To INTJs authority based on position, rank, title, or publication has absolutely no force. This type is not likely to succumb to the magic of slogans, watchwords, or shibboleths. If an idea or position makes sense to an INTJ, it will be adopted, if it doesn't, it won't, regardless of who took the position or generated the idea. As with the INTP, authority per se does not impress the INTJ.

INTJs do, however, tend to conform to rules if they are useful, not because they believe in them, or because they make sense, but because of their unique view of reality. They are the supreme pragmatists, who see reality as something which is quite arbitrary and made up. Thus it can be used as a tool-or ignored. Reality is quite malleable and can be changed, conquered, or brought to heel. Reality is a crucible for the refining of ideas, and in this sense, INTJs are the most theoretical of all the types. Where an ESTP sees ideas as the pawn of reality, an INTJ sees reality as the pawn of ideas: No idea is too far-fetched to be entertained. INTJs are natural brainstormers, always open to new concepts and, in fact, aggressively seeking them.

INTJs manipulate the world of theory as if on a gigantic chess board, always seeking strategies and tactics that have high payoff. In their penchant for logic, the INTJs resemble the INTPs. The logic of an INTJ, however, is not confined to the expressible logical. Unlike INTPs, INTJs need only to have a vague, intuitive impression of the unexpressed logic of a system to continue surely on their way. Things need only seem logical; this is entirely sufficient. Moreover, they always have a keen eye for the consequence of the application of new ideas or positions. They can be quite ruthless in the implementation of systems, seldom counting personal cost in terms of time and energy. Theories which cannot be made to work are quickly discarded by the INTJs.

To understand INTJs, their way of dealing with ideas should be observed closely. Their conscious thought is extraverted and empirical. Hence, they are better at generalizing, classifying, summarizing, adducing evidence, proving, and demonstrating than are the INTPs. The INTJs are somewhat less at home with pure reason, that is, systemic logic, where principles are explicit. In this respect they resemble the ENTJs. The INTJs, rather than using deductive logic, use their intuition to grasp coherence.

Career

INTJs can be very single-minded at times; this can be either a weakness or a strength in their careers, for they can ignore the points of view and wishes of others. INTJs usually rise to positions of responsibility, for they work long and hard and are steady in their pursuit of goals, sparing neither time nor effort on their part or that of their colleagues and employees.

INTJs live to see systems translated into substance; an INTP, by way of contrast, is content to design the system. In both these types, however, coherence is the master. Both internal and external consistency are important, and if an INTJ finds that he or she is in a working situation where overlapping functions, duplication of effort, inefficient paper flow, and waste of human and material resources abound, the INTJ cannot rest until an effort is made to correct the situation. Cost-effectiveness is a concept which has a strong imperative for INTJs, who frequently select occupations in engineering, particularly human engineering. They also can be found in the physical sciences, in roles which require development, such as curriculum building, and, in general, any job which requires the creation and application of technology to complex areas.

Fellow workers of INTJs often feel as if the INTJ can see right through them, and often believe that the INTJ finds them wanting. This tendency of people to feel transparent in the presence of the INTJ often result in relationships which have psychological distance. Thus colleagues find the INTJ apparently unemotional and, at times, cold and dispassionate. Because of their tendency to drive others as hard as they do themselves, INTJs often seem demanding and difficult to satisfy. INTJs are high achievers in school and on the job. On the job, they take the goals of an institution seriously and continually strive to respond to these goals. They make dedicated, loyal employees whose loyalties are directed toward the system, rather than toward individuals within the system. So as the people of an institution come and go, the INTJs have little difficulty-unlike the NFs, who have their loyalties involved more with persons than offices. INTJs tend, ordinarily, to verbalize the positive and eschew comments of a negative nature; they are more interested in moving an institution forward than commiserating about mistakes of the past.

Home

As mates, INTJs want harmony and order in the home and in relationships. They are the most independent of all types. They will trust their intuitions about others when making choices of friends and mates, even in the face of contradictory evidence and pressures applied by others. The emotions of an INTJ are hard to read, and neither male nor female INTJ is apt to express emotional reactions. At times, both will seem cold, reserved, and unresponsive, while in fact INTJs are almost hypersensitive to signals of rejection from those for whom they care. In social situations, INTJs may also be unresponsive and may neglect to observe small rituals designed to put others at their ease. For example, INTJs may communicate that time is wasted if used for idle dialogue, and thus people receive a sense of hurry from an INTJ which is not always intended. In their interpersonal relationships, INTJs are usually better in a working situation than in recreational situations. They do not enjoy physical contact except with a chosen few.

As parents, INTJs are dedicated and single minded in their devotion: Their children are a major focus in life. They are supportive of their children and tend to allow them to develop in directions of their own choosing. INTJs usually are firm and consistent in their discipline and rarely care to repeat directions given to children...or others. Being the most independent of all the types, they have a strong need for autonomy; indifference or criticism from people in general does not particularly bother INTJs, if they believe that they are right. They also have a strong need for privacy.

The most important preference of an INTJ is intuition, but this is seldom seen. Rather, the function of thinking is used to deal with the world and with people. INTJs are vulnerable in the emotional area and may make serious mistakes here.

Midlife

At midlife the feeling side of personality should be given much attention by the INTJ, who can work at expanding his or her abilities to respond to wishes and feelings of others. They may also do well to turn more attention to the sensory side of their natures, attempting to get in touch with the joys of good food, good beverages, social rituals, kinesthetic experiences...and play. The "wasting" of time in play is an appropriate target as a midlife task for INTJs who can take lessons from an SP, especially an ESP, in the art of enjoying the pleasures of life.

Mates

Wishing to control nature, the INTJ "scientist" probably has more difficulty than all other types in making up his or her mind in mate selection. Even mate selection must be done in a scientific way. It may well be that the narratives, plays, and films impugning the "rational and objective" approach to mating have as their target our thorough-going scientist INTJ. Nevertheless, when young, the INTJ is attracted to the free-wheeling, spontaneous, fun-loving "entertainer" ESFP. But the INTJ requires that mating meet certain criteria, else it is not undertaken. So the INTJ doesn't often go through with what is begun by natural attraction. Since he or she proceeds in a rational and methodical way, the selection of a similar temperament is more likely than selection of opposite, following the assumption that those who are similar ought to do well together. The INTJ "scientist" is also attracted to the ENFP "journalist," probably because of the enthusiastic, effervescent, and apparently spontaneous enjoyment and wonderment this type exudes-the very antitheses of the careful, thoughtful exactitude of the INTJ.
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Lethe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:46 PM
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23. i'm tellin' ya, that pegs me solid
i'm not usually one for tests and what not, but the INTJ is me through and through
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elocs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:33 PM
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17. I swore off having a personality years ago and haven't missed it since. n/t
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Jan-12-09 10:45 PM
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22. I've tried to come up with an answer for this
but I guess I'm too close to the subject to be objective. I am what I am I guess. :shrug:
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RagAss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 12:20 AM
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24. I AM
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 12:24 AM
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25. which one?
:blush: :shrug: :D :yoiks:
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begin_within Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 02:24 AM
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26. You win.
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 02:34 AM
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27. yay Me, Myself and I
:bounce: :party: :woohoo:
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NanceGreggs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 03:43 AM
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28. Here's Nance ...
Loved and in love, procrastinator extraordinaire - but work best under pressure, music-lover 'tho regrettably not a musician, reliable friend, good listener, connect with people easily; sometimes harshly judgmental of people who I don't think are smart or witty; good sense of humour, great cook, lover of antiques, true crime reader, fascinated with the concept of time-travel, movie adorer, believer in reincarnation, Aquarian, a woman of a certain age.
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 04:05 AM
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29. A paradox, self-contained and -containing
Your best friend and your worst enemy, as his own. The funniest guy in the room or the recluse in the corner. A writer who hates to write but needs to, and loves what is written. A teacher without subjects or students. A worrier who sometimes retreats from the world and a dreamer who often embraces it. A man of many passions and much ambivalence. An observer of life and those who live, though frequently far- or near-sighted.



A human.



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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 04:52 AM
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30. INFJ Sagittarius
That should sum most of it up, I think.
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Lady Effingbroke Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jan-13-09 05:20 AM
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31. meh.
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