I am having a bad night.

[Lady Freedom]

My guy and I went bowling tonight. It was only the second time I ever went. but He ended up finding the jagermeister. And he started to yell at me. He left me with the tab. I had to call my Dad to bring my wallet. HOW EMBARRASSING! And I am scared because I don't know where he is.

[Tangerine LaBamba]

1. And you'll continue to have anything to do with this guy

because, what, he's wonderful to you?

Ditch him. He sounds horrid, and you must believe that you deserve better. Any man who publicly humiliates a woman like that should be living in a cage.

You should be scared that he'll show up again.

No one should be treated like that.

[Dangerously Amused]

5. Ayup. Well said.

Dump him. He will probably come back saying he's soooo sorry. Stand your ground. He ain't worth it.

[Haole Girl]

2. I don't really like to give relationship advice,

but he really doesn't sound like a good catch.

I agree with the advice Tangerine LaBamba gave.

:hug:

[NJmaverick]

3. "your guy" has a drinking problem

unless he is willing and gets help, he is never going to be anything but a source of serious grief.

[Ptah]

4. Is this the same guy that abused you a year or more ago?

:shrug:

[Whoa_Nelly]

7. Was wondering the same thing, Ptah

:hi: :loveya:

[Ptah]

11. It is always good to see you, Whoa_Nelly

I hope you have a Happy new Year!

[TroglodyteScholar]

6. He's a loser.

You can do better.

[elleng]

8. Don't know where WHO is?

Your FORMER 'guy?'

PLEASE don't be scared; calm down, and thank Dad.

[CreekDog]

9. sometimes realization has to be kind of stark to convince us of something we should know

although this was stark, be glad it wasn't worse. however, based on what you've told us, if you stay with this guy, it could get worse.

[Danger Mouse]

10. I'm sorry you had a bad night. It sounds like maybe this guy isn't right for you.

That's my polite way of saying 'he sounds like an effing pig.'