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crimsonblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:05 PM
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What do you think of bald men?
I have come to accept that I am going to lose my hair. I have wispy, blonde hair, and my hairline has already started to creep backwards. My mom's dad lost all his hair by age 30, so I am pretty much screwed. Here's the deal: baldness seems much less manly and stuff to me, and it makes you look 50. Do women find baldness attractive, or should I start saving up for Bosley for Men?
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:06 PM
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1. Stone Cold Steve Austin pulled it off well. nt
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crimsonblue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:08 PM
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3. I hate the "scary, strong" white bald man look
I don't want to look like mr clean or a neonazi.
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IndianaJones Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:10 PM
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5. Michael Jordan had a good look. nt.
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:29 PM
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53. Obama... cut so short, near bald.
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:53 PM
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14. Being blond, a close buzz cut would work well, too
You won't look like a loser fighting to hang on to every last strand of hair, but it won't be shiny smooth (which is still sexy and yummy to me).

And the good honest decent guys with shiny shaved heads far out number neonazi's with them.
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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 07:38 PM
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46. You don't want to look like Ed Norton in American History X?
Lose the swastika and I'm all over that. :D
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mcctatas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:07 PM
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2. Some men are hot bald...
plus they take less time to get ready to go out :P
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knowbody0 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:09 PM
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4. keep it shinny and tan
pierce your ears, wear a bit of facial hair to enhance your features. be brave. don't wear a hat.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:10 PM
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6. Definitely attractive. (nt)
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gmoney Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:11 PM
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7. Yeah, it's a good look...


...or not.
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blueraven95 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:13 PM
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8. honestly,
every bald guy I've known personally has been an awesome person. I would never hesitate to date a bald man.
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Lautremont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:13 PM
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9. In Turkey, the bald pate is known by women as "The Third Buttock."
So you've got that going for you.
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:48 PM
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31. I'm hoping that is a good thing? nt
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Lautremont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:05 PM
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33. I took it to mean they considered it sexy,
but at any rate, it's better than being called a slaphead.

(I would guess - I don't speak from experience... yet.)
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Tuesday Afternoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:19 PM
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10. forget Bosley. Bald Men Rule!
:thumbsup:
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Tripper11 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:20 PM
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11. Check it out....lost it when I was in my 20's
And so I am sporting this look now....



I stopped fighting it a long time ago. Easy to deal with, I shave it down once a month or so and work the goat...it's even longer since this pic was taken.

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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-13-08 09:15 AM
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66. To be honest, I'd be so transfixed by the blue eyes
that I probably wouldn't notice your bald head for a looooooooooong while. :hi:
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Mollis Donating Member (812 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:47 PM
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12. My dad is bald, but he shaved it
because my grandma started losing her hair from chemo.
He looks kind of silly bald, mostly because his ears stick out a little (must be where I get it) and he kept his mustache. Which is really dark, almost black. lol
But I think it's great he did that. Very awesome of him.

I think bald is a great look, if that is what the person wants.
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dropkickpa Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:49 PM
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13. Lemme just tell ya
I love a shaved head! I am very much into guys with bald heads, and am actually turned off by long hair, so embrace the bald, man, don't fight it! I promise you, there are plenty of women out there just as turned on by it as me.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:54 PM
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15. Live, dammit. Live!
GEORGE (examining Kurt's head with a lamp): Yep. Classic horseshoe pattern. I've seen a lot of this.

KURT: Oh, God.

GEORGE: No, no, Kurt - wrong attitude. You should be happy now.

KURT: Happy? Why should I be happy?

GEORGE: You've still got pretty good coverage. Once the enemy advances beyond this perimeter - <points at Kurt's head with a pen> - then you won't be Kurt anymore.

KURT: Who will I be?

<George points at himself. Kurt shudders.>

KURT: How long do I have?

GEORGE (solemnly): 14 months. Maybe 10.

KURT: Is there anything I can do?

GEORGE: Yes. Live, dammit. Live! Every precious moment as if this was the last year of your life. Because in many ways... it is.

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racaulk Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:54 PM
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16. My partner is bald.
He's like you, he has thin blonde hair that he started losing. So he decided to just shave his head, and I think he looks good that way.

Honestly, it depends on the man. Some guys can carry that look very well, and others not as much. If nothing else, shave your head and see what reactions you get. If the feedback you get is positive, then that may be a good look for you. If not, well, it's not permanent and the hair you still have will grow back in a couple of weeks.

Good luck! :hi:
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:55 PM
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17. One of the least important of all characteristics, in my opinion.
Baldness is NOT "less manly."
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Oeditpus Rex Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 09:55 PM
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58. I don't like men who exaggerate
about the places they've been, about the money they make
I like a man who's honest and true
who can look you in the eye when they talk to you
I like men who accept who they are
not everybody can look like a movie star
If you can follow this thought to its logical end
you can see why I like bald-headed men
(She said it before, she'll say it again)
I like bald-headed men

Everybody knows it's testosterone
that turns a bushy-haired man into a chrome-dome
But testosterone is what makes a man a man
The more that he's got, the more that he can
do the things that make the women go OY!
I'll take a bald-headed man over a big-haired boy
Big-haired boys make very good friends
But they cannot compare to bald-headed men
(She said it before, she'll say it again)
I like bald-headed men

Why would you waste your money
joining that hair club for guys?
(Tell me why, tell me why!)
Why would you cover
your manly badge of honor
with such a bad disguise?
(Guys, guys, guys, guys!)
Why would you blow your money
on Rogaine and Minoxidil
when all it can guarantee
is years and years of pharmacy bills
(Please don't do it!)

Yes, we believe the hair replacement industry for men is like the cosmetic industry for women — a giant black hole that will suck your money away for the rest of your lives!
(Please don't do it!)


No matter how you fight it, time marches on
Some new things appear, some old things are gone
Let 'em go; it's a natural thing
Like a leaf off a tree, like a bird on a wing
Try looking in your mirror from a whole different place:
You're not losing hair, you're gaining face!
Be confident, be cool; it won't be long when
you find you are proud to be one of the bald-headed men
(She said it before, she'll say it again)
I love bald-headed men

Johnny Yakovitch...
Love him!

That guy on "Star Trek: The Next Generation"...
Love him!

Michael Jordan...
Love him!

Tom Paxton...
Love him!

Alan Brady...
Love him!

Burt Reynolds...
Love him!

Yul Brynner...
Loved him!

Telly Savalas...
Who loves ya, baby?







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aikoaiko Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 01:58 PM
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18. at some point, I say go stubble.


Once a week you drag the electric hair trimmer with a low setting over your hair and its done.

Neat, professional, reasonably low maintenance.
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graywarrior Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:00 PM
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19. Shave your entire body, that's what I say.
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edbermac Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:01 PM
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20. Hey, that bald chick in Star Trek was pretty hot!
And speaking of that, I'd rather be bald than wear some hideous rug like Shatner does.

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WannaJumpMyScooter Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:08 PM
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21. I once had wispy blond hair on top
last seen sometime in the late Nixon years... don't worry about it. I have found it is a good detector of shallow insipid people that are not worth knowing anyway

now I have rum



wait... I had rum then too... never mind
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mikeytherat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:13 PM
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22. Bald dudes rock (literally).
Well, some of us anyway.





mikey_the_rat
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:17 PM
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23. I think baldness is way more attractive than
1) the comb-over
2) hair plugs
3) spray-on hair



The amount of hair a man has on his head has never been the deciding factor of whether or not I will date a guy.

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Deep13 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:19 PM
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24. I hope to avoid being one.
Since I can't have facial hair at this job, I'll be pretty much screwn if I go bald. So far so good.
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redqueen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:20 PM
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25. Ok I'll just say it. I think bald is sexy.
I used to kind of have a thing for balding guys. Not so much anymore... but a bald head, yeah... I still find that very sexy.
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Lucian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:24 PM
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26. I'm going to shave it all off once I start getting that bald spot.
For me, it's either a full head of hair or nothing at all.
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Lautremont Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:33 PM
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28. I had a friend who said "I don't mind going bald,
I just don't ever want a fuckin' monkhead." I certainly sympathize.
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Chan790 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:12 PM
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35. Respect the power doughnut!
I don't think that it looks that bad as long as you accept you have a spot and do trim/shave/maintain the long wispy hairs that some guys get in their bald spot...those are terrible. Oh and keep it maintained. If you've got the power donut, embrace it. It looks good on some people.


Tell me Ed Harris doesn't look damned good for a guy missing the middle half of his head of hair.
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Arkansas Granny Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:30 PM
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27. Over the years I have dated several men with various stages of baldness.
I never considered it unattractive and would never have suggested that any of them do anything about it unless it would make them feel better about themselves. It's personality, not hair, that makes a man attractive.
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originalpckelly Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:35 PM
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29. What makes you a man is in your mind, not on your head.


Life is often not about the hand your dealt, but how you play that hand. Embrace it, and if a women doesn't like you for who you are, then quite frankly would you want to date someone that shallow?
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old mark Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:47 PM
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30. I think I am one. nt
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fizzgig Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 02:50 PM
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32. my bf's hairline is receding, so we keep it buzzed pretty short
and i think he looks damn sexy that way :loveya:

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Crabby Appleton Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:08 PM
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34. Bald can be good lookin




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One_Life_To_Give Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:14 PM
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36. Who loves ya baby
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:32 PM
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37. This is unmanly?!


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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 07:43 PM
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47. An impotent little question mark?
Yes.
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Symarip Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:52 PM
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38. If you already wear Ben Sherman's and Doc Martin's
It's not that big of a deal.
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meegbear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 03:54 PM
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39. I've been shaving my head since March 2001 ...
and everyone has said it's the best look I ever had.

The main thing about "the look" is the head shape. I have a round/oval shape, so the look fits my face.
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mykpart Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 04:01 PM
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40. Think Jean-Luc Picard of TNG.
Think Yul Brynner in his prime
Think Sean Connery
And rest assured: When girls drool over Matthew McConaghey, they aren't looking at his hair!
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 04:39 PM
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42. But Sean Connery wore a toupée
Edited on Thu Dec-11-08 04:41 PM by pokerfan
At least he did as 007.
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Rob H. Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 04:13 PM
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41. Bald really works for some men
Edited on Thu Dec-11-08 05:06 PM by Rob H.
I always think, "Man, that guy must have loads of confidence to shave his head." Years ago I worked with a guy who was 25 years old but completely bald on top (think Patrick Stewart) by the time he was 19. He just shaved it all off and it was a good look for him.

On the flip side, back in the early 90s I worked with a guy who wore a really obvious toupee and that look suits no one, believe me.

Edit: shpelling.
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sarge43 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 07:58 PM
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48. Stewart was bald by his mid-twenties as were his father and brothers.
Heredity with the all the men in his family - forget the name of the condition. He's said it was never a problem in getting roles; he just kept the remaining hair cut very short and wore a wig when the part required.

Always liked the line he had in one of the TNG episode. When it was discovered a young man was his son, Picard said to him, "Now you'll never look at your hair line in the same way again."
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:28 PM
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52. Another episode... Picard was transformed into a young boy
At end of episode, immediately after tranforming back to his bald self, picard reaches up and smooths his head.
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 06:52 PM
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43. Lots of guys shave their heads as they go bald. I think it looks good.
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yurbud Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 07:34 PM
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44. Rent all the episodes of the Shield. When you are done, you'll want to shave your head and
pretend you are Vic Mackey for the rest of your life.

It's working for me.

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XemaSab Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 07:37 PM
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45. Bald can be HOT
But one thing you must NOT do is try to grow your hair longer, it's never going to fool anyone.

Keep it a little bit shorter, and be BALD AND PROUD!

PS Did you know that balding is caused by testosterone? :D
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baldguy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:19 PM
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49. I think they're fine.
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Redstone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:20 PM
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50. I think they're guys who have lost their hair.
Redstone
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:26 PM
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51. Grow it VERY long like this:
Grow it long in the back, swoop it forward, then swoop it sideways, and back again. Hold it in place with hairspray. (don't forget to dye it funny colors that bleed)



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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 09:26 PM
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56. Long and bald can work
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Liberal_in_LA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 09:51 PM
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57. I've seen him before. Who is that? Dr. Who?
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 10:05 PM
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60. Riff Raff from Rocky Horror Picture Show
as played by http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Richard_O%27Brien">Richard O'Brien who also wrote the original musical.
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Mira Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 08:55 PM
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54. If you had any idea how I feel/felt about Yul Brynner, and why
this would not be a question.
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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 09:26 PM
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55. Bald men are hot.
:)
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GOPisEvil Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 09:56 PM
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59. You know what's attractive?
Being comfortable with who you are.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Dec-11-08 10:06 PM
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61. That's just crazy talk
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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-13-08 09:13 AM
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65. Oh bullshit
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Dec-12-08 01:19 AM
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62. Bald can look really great if a guy completely shaves his head, or
if he keeps his remaining hair short and well trimmed at all times. :)

It depends what the pattern of your hair loss looks like, and what the remaining hair looks like.
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He loved Big Brother Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-13-08 09:09 AM
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63. I think they worry too much about it.
Just like they do about height. I guess it's the same as some women who worry too much about their weight.

Personally, I don't care about height or hairline. I care about penis size and just take it from there.

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JVS Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Dec-13-08 09:12 AM
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64. I think that baldness is a great excuse to inflict a toupee on all those assholes out there.
Force them to pretend you have hair.
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