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Edited on Sat Aug-09-03 03:56 PM by ForrestGump
It's a cliché, sure, but some clichés are clichés simply because they're so true. And I think that this particular cliché is uttered more than it is lived.
So if you were to define 'ordinary,' how would you define it? By definition, it implies an average and that means that there's some scale against which you'd measure the worth of your own life, at least in terms of its intrinsic potential to make you feel happy and fulfilled. Take a look at some globetrotting megastar or 'beautiful person' - oh, they have it all, but are they happy? Maybe, but maybe not.
It's easy to say, perhaps, but I've experienced this truth myself (and I'm sure that I'm far from the only hereabouts to have done that): even the most mundane jobs, the most stiflingly dull tasks, and the most routine and humdrum of existences can be filled with wonder. No - that's not quite right - they already are filled with wonder....you've just got to find it. The fact that you're alive, and sending your thoughts out to the world at some incredible speed is, itself, the confluence of a couple of major miracles that you probably take for granted. Want to go on safari in Africa but can't just yet afford it? Hell, go to the nearest park and look at the insects, or the squirrels, or whatever, and you'll find the same behaviors and the same intricate web of life that you'd find on the savanna. And no tsetse flies, either.
Life is largely what you think it is. And if you think it is going nowhere, then it will most assuredly go exactly there. We all have our 'down' times, no matter how exciting our lives may or may not appear to others, but we also have the power to explore our own lives for its considerable riches. Think positive and positive things tend to happen.
Hang in there....go to the park and watch ants go about their business....please do anything but just accept less than you're capable of having and being.
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