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Edited on Wed Oct-29-08 02:44 PM by BlueIris
"In the Movies"
When a man rapes a woman because he's a soldier and his army's won, there's always somebody else holding her down, another man,
so the men do it together, or one after the other, in the way my brothers shot hoops on the driveway with their friends
while we girls watched. Their favorite game was PIG. A boy had to make the exact shot as the boy before him, or he was a P
I G consecutively until he lost. I've been thinking about the sorrow of men, and how it's different from the sorrow
of women, although I don't know how—
In the movies, one soldier holds the woman down, his hand over her mouth, and another soldier or two holds down the husband
who's enraged and screaming because he can't help the woman he loves. When the soldiers go, he crawls across the dirt and grass
to reach his wife who's speaking gibberish now. He kisses her cheek over and over again...
—The woman lives on. We see her years later, answering a man's questions in a drawing room, a crescent scar
just above her lace collar. She's dignified and serene. Maybe her son has recently been killed, maybe she's successfully
married her daughter. How can a woman love a man? In the movies, a man
rapes a woman because he's a soldier and his army's won, and he wants to celebrate—all those nights in the dark and the mud—
and there's always someone else holding her down, another soldier, or a friend, so the men seem to do it together.
—Marie Howe
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