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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 06:50 PM
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i don't know what to think
I am not alone - Little MB is sitting right next to me.

I feel alone.

After Zack and Cody finish invading our brains from the Disney channel, she is going to bed and then here I will be, alone, on a friday night, not a soul to talk to.

All of my friends are married.

I don't know what I used to do when I was home alone before. My anniversary would have been in 10 days. I feel like a pathetic loser, even though I know I'm not, but not having anyone to talk to really sucks.


:cry:
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 09:18 PM
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1. I'm sorry you're feeling so
alone, sweetie. Why not try running a hot bubble bath, light some fragrant candles around it and settle into it with a good book and a glass of wine? That would help, don't you think? :hug:
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crim son Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 09:27 PM
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2. ...
:hug: I know the feeling. During the week I can ignore it, but the weekends feel lonely as hell. I don't know what to say, except that you are not in fact alone, and you can always talk to DUers. :hug:
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Ptah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 09:41 PM
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3. My bottoming out anthem:
Life's been good to me so far

....

They say I'm crazy but I have a good time
I'm just looking for clues at the scene of the crime
Life's been good to me so far

....

They say I'm lazy but it takes all my time
(Everybody say “Oh, yeah”..... “Oh, yeah”)
I keep on goin’ guess I'll never know why
Life's been good to me so far





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elshiva Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 09:44 PM
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4. You are a winner, a survivor.
:hug: :hug:
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 09:46 PM
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5. I know how you feel
I really do.

I am here alone.

:(

It is so depressing and makes the hurt come back...
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lizziegrace Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri Oct-10-08 10:00 PM
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6. I know how you feel
it's been 7 years now for me.

Hang in there. You've got lots of company.

:hug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-11-08 01:43 AM
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7. You seem to me to be a very charming, well-adjusted,
interesting and wise person. It is very sad that someone can cause you to feel so alone like this. :(

:hug:

I understand what it is like to feel so alone. I am single, and because of all the pains and chronic health issues I can't safely share a bed or be touched. I'm going to have a long life of being very single and very alone without even a shred of a social life.

I'm not belittling your situation. Just pointing out that I have a permanent reason to understand. I hope your solitude is very short lived, and is interrupted by a lot of hot, happy dating. I hope your daughter, mom and extended family can give you some comfort in the meantime. I will be happy to simply have good friends. You deserve to have more. You're a wonderful person and I really wish you a lot of long-term intimate happiness.

:hug:
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puerco-bellies Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-11-08 02:44 AM
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8. Buck up little cowgirl, tell me one thing that you could do for someone deserving.
Good or bad, you call
:hug:
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