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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 05:45 PM
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Did you ever sign up for something

and then, when it came time to do it, wondered "WHAT WAS I THINKING???"

Yeah, that's me. I have a colleague/friend who asked me to write a chapter for the book he's editing. I thought it would be a great opportunity, nice boost on the resume, etc. But holy crap! Now i feel like i'm in over my head. I am buried in research papers and books and feeling a little overwhelmed. I know it'll get done (and i'll do a good job!) but right now i'm wishing that the present-day me could go back and kick some sense into the six-months-ago me. ;)

Hope you are all having a great weekend!


p.s. flvegan -- how 'bout them Sox!!! :woohoo:
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 05:56 PM
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1. I think your chapter will be great SallyMander!
:loveya:

It can be overwhelming at times, but I know you will pull through. :yourock:

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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 05:59 PM
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2. Thanks for the vote of confidence mb!

I know it'll get done somehow!

How are you doing this weekend?

:hug:

:loveya:
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malta blue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 06:14 PM
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3. little one and I are watching a movie....
we had a busy day.

I am trying to purge the STBE MRMB out of the house on many levels.

:hug:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 06:19 PM
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4. Good luck --

Quality time with the little one is probably just what both of you need! :hug:
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 07:44 PM
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5. Good for you for taking on the challenge. Think of what things such experience can lead to too.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 08:55 PM
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7. Thanks applegrove

I will try to keep this positive perspective in mind. :D
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 07:46 PM
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6. I offered to edit the manuscript of a self-help book written by one of my wife's colleagues.
What a mistake. It was a rambling, boring, incoherent mess. I could barely get through it, and could do nothing to make it readable.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 08:55 PM
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8. LOL! So what did you do??

Did you try to edit it, or just give it back?
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Aristus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:06 PM
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21. In the true spirit of cowardice, I did both. :-)
I handed it back to him and said, in kind of an 'aw shucks' manner: "You know, there's an awful lot of material here; I don't think I'm going to have time to edit the whole thing. Are you going to be all right with what I was able to complete?"

Yes, I copped out. I admit it. :hide:

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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:10 PM
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24. Sounds like you handled it well!

You didn't say it was crap -- very diplomatic of you. :D
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 09:54 PM
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9. More often than I'd care to admit.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:54 PM
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13. Hmm, mysterious reply...

:hi:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:56 PM
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17. Nah, it's usually little things not worth mentioning
although one big one recently that I REALLY regret not being able to deliver.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:57 PM
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18. Gotcha -- don't be too hard on yourself

Have you had a good weekend? :hug:
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DarkTirade Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:31 PM
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29. I think that would require my week to actually have a beginning and end...
:P
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 10:34 PM
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10. Yes. Plenty of times.
My friends occasionally ask if I am a glutton for punishment.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:55 PM
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14. Glutton for punishment

That's the term i was looking for! Perfect!
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 10:36 PM
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11. damn, I thought you were talking about your marriage, and that you were single again
You probably really wanted that though, right?
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:55 PM
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15. OMG!

:rofl:

No, so far the marriage is excellent -- four weeks and going strong! :D
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Oct-04-08 11:02 PM
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12. I will do it for you
granted, I don't know anything about salamanders, but I am charming as hell so that ought to be good for something, right?

:rofl:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:56 PM
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16. Hmm, i don't know if that will work

Considering the editor is a 60-something year old (straight) man. ;)

How are you doing jasonc? :hug:
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:29 PM
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27. I am making it
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:31 PM
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28. One day at a time

Take good care of yourself -- do things that make you happy. :hug:
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Pierre.Suave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 09:46 PM
Response to Reply #28
33. there is one thing that would make me happy
but that aint going to happen...
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 07:59 PM
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19. Yep. Writing in my case too.
I have something I need to write that I don't want to work on. I like the subject, but honestly I'm too busy to give it the attention it deserves, so I'm being overly perfectionist instead of just getting started.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:00 PM
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20. That's exactly what i was doing!

Until just a few days ago... when i started to panic about the deadline. :rofl:

What are you writing for/about?
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LeftyMom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:06 PM
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22. I don't want to say too much, it's potentially identifying.
It's a piece I was asked to do for a journal on social justice issues.
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:09 PM
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23. Cool, no worries

Sounds interesting though -- good luck with the process!
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:11 PM
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25. Right about this point here
this is what happens when an officer walks 'on deck' in bootcamp and you don't acknowledge it

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yja_MJazDuc


:rofl:

more :rofl:
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SallyMander Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 08:19 PM
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26. Whaaaa?

This is what i get when i click on your link:

500 Internal Server Error

Sorry, something went wrong.

A team of highly trained monkeys has been dispatched to deal with this situation. Please report this incident to customer service.
Also, please include the following information in your error report:

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SOteric Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 09:18 PM
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30. The link worked for me.
Those highly trained monkeys must really know their stuff.
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 09:40 PM
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32. They even convert their error code to ASCII
Now THAT'S nerd!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Oct-05-08 09:22 PM
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31. Yes.
A few times. :(

I hope you can get though this, and split your time among the other some of the things you have to do too, and somehow avoid getting too stressed out. Keep plugging along and do the best you can on each step. Somehow you'll reach the end and find that you've completed produced some good results. :hug:

Please be well too.
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