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he got fired a few weeks back and hasn't found a new job yet. i'm not judging him for that because i've been out of work for six months, but i'm drawing unemployment and am able to pay my bills.
but the problem is that he didn't have enough money for his share of the pet deposit and i wound up covering. that, plus my rent/pet deposit ate up almost all my check and my boyfriend was nice enough to give me money so i could make it to the next check. and on top of that, he still owes me money for the moving truck we rented. i really need this money, but i am wary of asking him for it (i'm willing to let him split it up into three or four payments) because he's been in a nasty depression since he got fired. my boyfriend is also getting stressed out because he's the one who is going to have to pick up the slack if our roommate can't make rent next month.
also, i applied for a few positions with the company that fired him. a lot of me thinks that he's not going to care, but, again, i'm wary of talking to him about it. i really need a job and these positions pay well enough that i'd be ok.
i'm most worried about the timing and how we handle these conversations. part of me thinks that the three of us should sit down and talk, but i'm worried that he's going to feel that we're ganging up on him. the other part of me thinks my boyfriend and i should speak to him separately, but i'm worried that he's going to feel like we're hitting him with a double whammy.
i'm also thinking about having my boyfriend tell him that he picked up the pet deposit so all the money is taken care of in one conversation (i can wait until he gets a job to ask him for the money for the truck). is that chicken shit of me?
i hate situations where there is even the slightest chance of it turning into a confrontation, and although i think it won't, i'm still reluctant to broach the subject with him. i am such a wimp when it comes to these types of things.
on a good note, though, i finally got my deposit back for the old place and that helped me tremendously.
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