Am I being a bad girlfriend for this?

[otherlander]

I'm going out with this guy but there's another guy, two other girls, and several dead poets and revolutionaries who I still have crushes on.
:dilemma:

[Carnea]

1. Invite the two other girls and the dead poet to bed with him.

Chances are good he won't object.

[montanto]

2. leave out the dead poets. Trust me. It'll work that way.

[unpossibles]

3. not at all

but then, I am one of those evil pansexual free-love polyarmorists. Or something.

[Dogtown]

4. Not unless

you give it up to dead poets, et al.

Or won't give it up for him.

(please be 18, or disregard this post)

[otherlander]

5. "please be 18"

Let me try.....
....

...

It's working it's working! Get back to me in a few months.

[Dogtown]

6. Oh, no!!!

:scared:

I'm really old and harmless. I don't even *have* a Myspace account...

PLEASE don't tell your folks...

:cry:

[otherlander]

7. ...

:rofl:

Rolf waffle:

[harmonicon]

8. not really

So long as they're only crushes that you aren't going to act on. If you not just want to, but actually would do something about it, yeah, you're being a bad girlfriend and should be single. I've gone out with the sam girl for years, and I still get crushes, but I'm not going to do anything about it.

[petronius]

9. Not at all - it's pretty normal to have crushes, and I'm sure your boyfriend does too

My rule of thumb would be not to do anything that I know would hurt the other party, and don't do anyting that would hurt me if I found out they had done it. (Caveat - nobody should be hurt by their partner having innocent crushes. Caveat caveat - I'm assuming that the word "crush" means approximately the same thing to you as it does to me.)

Off topic $0.02: having crushes on "revolutionaries" is too old to be cool anymore, and not old enough to be retro-cool. IMO...

:)

[Lil Missy]

10. Is there any reason you couldn't invite your current bf to join you?

If you are bored or otherwise un-attracted to your current bf, and wish to dump him, I would recommend settling that business first. And before you strike up something new with another.

Just my 2 cents, and I don't know your situation.