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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:01 PM
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I'm so pissed off!
I got all my posts deleted from a "liberal" website. The CA gay marriage thang. This guy says he's such a good liberal but he thinks gay marriage is evil. So I said I said if you have a problem with gay marriage then don't marry another guy, but I'm a citizen too and deserve the same rights. I didn't attack him or even swear. And I get banned?


Khash.
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:04 PM
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1. love ya!
*kiss kiss*

:*
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:05 PM
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2. My dear Khash!
That sounds crappy!

But you know, this is why you have DU!

It's good to see you tonight, sweetie...

:hug:
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WCGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:08 PM
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3. Why are you so confrontational..
As if that was confrontational.

If you knew you that was all you had to say to get banned, you could have at least had a chance to go out in a blaze of glory.

Boy they sure are touchy over at that web site.

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Droopy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:19 PM
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4. You gay people are all alike
Rights schmights.

Seriously, I recently ran into the same kind of thing. I bought the latest release from one of my favorite bands not too long ago. I thought that their lyrics had a liberal slant to them from listening to previous albums. Right off the bat, on the first song on the new record, there are some lyrics that can only be construed as anti-gay. I was very disappointed.
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Haole Girl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:21 PM
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5. That doesn't sound fair
:-( :hug:
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:31 PM
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6. It's amazing how many "liberals" will find ways
to justify bigotry just because it's THEIR OWN bigotry. It doesn't hurt them, so it's okay. x(

We have seen a whole lot of that same behavior here over and over and over again. I've especially noticed it agains LGBT people and against women. :(

I'm sorry it got you banned somewhere.

:hug:
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khashka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:10 AM
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8. Why is it always LGBT and women?
I'm sick of it. Why is the hate always directed at us and women? I don't get it, And aren't we libs the loving and understanding ones?

Women still only make 79 cents on the dollar and gay bashing is OK. I thought we had evolved! It's why I keep coming back here - I often disagree with people (and that's cool) but I can't name a DUer who is truly anti-gay or anti-woman.

You feeling better, boy? Last time I saw you weren't feeling so good. I loves me my ThomCat, so I hope you are feeling better :)


Khash.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 11:06 AM
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13. That is a damned good question I wish we could answer.
:(

I see how easily men still reduce women to "damned bitches" and start joking about rape, and I cringe. Signs of hatred against women get to me more often than anything else because they're so common.

Every time there is a gay bashing in the news doesn't it seem like someone is protesting that they don't really hate gay people? But somehow they're still beating us up. There are always rationalizations and excuses, but it still keeps happening.
:(

I'm feeling okay today. The weather has been good to me for two days. I'm getting out of the house to spend the afternoon with friends in Riverside park and then go out for dinner.
:hi:
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hippywife Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 04:23 PM
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20. Hit the nail on the head, doll.
Edited on Sun May-18-08 04:24 PM by hippywife
Either you're a liberal or you ain't. Anyone who harbors any personal bigotry is not a liberal at all in my book.

Hope you're having a lovely, sunny, relatively pain-free day.
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Left Is Write Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-17-08 11:32 PM
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7. Huh. Well, how liberal could he be?
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applegrove Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 09:54 AM
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9. Doesn't really sound like a liberal site.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 09:59 AM
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10. my opinion of liberals has hit rock bottom lately.
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pokerfan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 10:09 AM
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11. Then it's neither liberal nor progressive
LGBT rights is possibly the one topic on which I'm most progressive. And that's speaking as a het-male, for whatever that's worth. Even before I was blessed with such friends, I still recognized it as a fairly fundamental civil right.
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FloridaJudy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 10:25 AM
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12. He doesn't believe in gay marriage?
Okay. Then he should avoid marrying another man - he'd definitely be doing that guy a favor by turning him down.

Why on earth someone would object to two adults making a commitment to each other baffles me. Tolstoy was dead wrong on that one: not all happy families are alike.

Stay here in the lounge. If you decide to get married, I'll be happy to arrange a shower - and I imagine most of the lounge rats will be happy to chip in and buy you a blender or a fondue pot.
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NJmaverick Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:19 PM
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14. How can a liberal website have a militant view on Gay marriage
I have to think that's a major contradiction.
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:25 PM
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15. The gay marriage issue should be a given for any liberal/progressive...
Edited on Sun May-18-08 02:28 PM by primate1
It's completely absurd for anyone who considers themselves liberal or progressive to oppose gay marriage. And I STILL haven't heard a single legitimate reason as to why marriage HAS to be between a man and a woman.
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nytemare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:45 PM
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16. I think the whole debate is a red herring.
Gas is $3.75, people are hungry, people are getting kicked out of their homes, and some get their knickers in a bunch because two guys or two girls marriage benefits.

Gay marriage is TRULY an issue that falls into the category of "there is nothing either good or bad, but thinking makes it so". I have no idea how people can believe that a downfall of society would occur if two guys were to get married.
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:56 PM
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18. Well I know here in Canada we've reverted to living in caves and hunting with sticks and large rocks
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 04:29 PM
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21. really, here i thought you were all practicing man-dog sex..
shows what i know about canada
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ghostsofgiants Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 04:29 PM
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22. Well there's that too.
I mean, it's not like it's two mutually exclusive ways of life.
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nytemare Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 09:36 PM
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24. LOL!
I think it has been known to happen in England as well! I'm not sure how many caves they have there, though.

:P
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tjwmason Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-19-08 05:29 AM
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27. Reverted?
I didn't know that you'd ever stopped. :P
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lizerdbits Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 02:56 PM
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17. Your prejudices are wrong, but mine are OK!
I'd classify someone who thinks gay marriage as 'evil' as a freeper.

On a related note, I'm listening to Interfaith Voices (a rebroadcast) on NPR and they had some guy on who WAS gay but he went to Exodus International and he's all better now! :eyes: I can't imagine the stress of living my life convinced I'm something I'm not out of fear of hell. :cry:
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Call Me Wesley Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 03:10 PM
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19. Liberal and anti Human rights?
Antagonistic much? There's no 'liberal' against gay marriage. Otherwise, it's not a liberal.

:hug:
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UrbScotty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 04:55 PM
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23. Just awful.
Edited on Sun May-18-08 04:57 PM by ih8thegop
As a liberal, I cherish freedom. How sad that you have been censored for your views in such a manner.

I am by your side.

:hug:
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ScreamingMeemie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-18-08 09:39 PM
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25. Every time I read posts like this it slays me.
Even my 85 year old grandmother knows and accepts that love is love and no one is asking anyone to do anything more than live and let live. It honestly breaks my heart (what is left of it), that you have to deal with this too often...when it shouldn't be the case at all. It should just be.

Much love,

Laura
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Lil Missy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon May-19-08 03:11 AM
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26. On a "liberal" website? I am so sorry you had to endure this.
I am just worn out, and don't have the energy or wherewithal to challenge idiots like that anymore.

I live my own life freely, and don't give a rat's ass what anyone else thinks about it.
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