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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:50 PM Original message |
ok.... Friends with benefits |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:53 PM Response to Original message |
1. It really depends on who your friend is that you are sharing benefits with... |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:56 PM Response to Reply #1 |
5. Complications |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #5 |
17. Yeah, I think it depends on the maturity level of both of you and how good of friends you are... |
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Generic Brad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
2. I want one |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:58 PM Response to Reply #2 |
7. don't know..... |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:54 PM Response to Original message |
3. it wasn't so much a friends with benefits thing |
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Fire Walk With Me (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:56 PM Response to Reply #3 |
4. You said "lost touch". |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:59 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. heh heh heh |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:59 PM Response to Reply #3 |
9. sorry you lost touch |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:03 PM Response to Reply #9 |
15. so it goes |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
32. we got it all, baby...love AND fun |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 08:58 PM Response to Original message |
6. Tried it a couple times. |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:01 PM Response to Reply #6 |
11. Thanks hon |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:05 PM Response to Reply #11 |
16. Wait... so you're saying you're single right now? |
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mainegreen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:00 PM Response to Original message |
10. Just make sure your 'friends with benefits' isn't a 'roomates with benefits' as well. |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
13. I was there when my roommates made that mistake... |
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fizzgig (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:02 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. oh yeah |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:43 PM Response to Reply #14 |
33. ... |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:16 PM Response to Reply #10 |
23. no roomate |
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Phillycat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:30 PM Response to Reply #10 |
60. A-motherfucking-MEN. |
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NMDemDist2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
12. back in the day..... |
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Guava Jelly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
18. I have friends with benefits.. |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:18 PM Response to Reply #18 |
24. you .... how come I knew you would be the voice of reason |
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DarkTirade (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:38 PM Response to Reply #18 |
30. I need more of those... :) |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
19. For me its something I am ashamed I did. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:13 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. ... |
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BelleCarolinaPeridot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #20 |
22. Its not a good feeling to feel. |
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Solon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:22 PM Response to Reply #22 |
26. I can understand that feeling, all too well... |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
21. Its not something that I can do |
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lost-in-nj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:20 PM Response to Reply #21 |
25. i hear you |
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AlCzervik (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:22 PM Response to Original message |
27. i don't think i could, for me i wouldn't sleep with someone unless i loved them |
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supernova (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:30 PM Response to Reply #27 |
28. Feel the same way |
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SPKrazy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #28 |
29. I've come to believe |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #29 |
59. Boy, it's good to read these posts and know I'm not the only one. |
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Danger Mouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 09:38 PM Response to Original message |
31. well...true intimacy only comes with love. |
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alarimer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 10:51 PM Response to Original message |
34. It seems to be all I can get |
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Wapsie B (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:26 PM Response to Original message |
35. Yes I do. |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
36. I think a job and benefits is even better |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 12:02 AM Response to Reply #36 |
42. Correct. And the job usually won't cheat on you or give you an illness... |
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CreekDog (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 12:03 AM Response to Reply #42 |
43. Oh as in work? Yeah that too... |
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leeroysphitz (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:29 PM Response to Original message |
37. I had one years ago. Of course I'm now married to her so I guess... |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:30 PM Response to Original message |
38. Tried it once. It's not for me. n/t |
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w8liftinglady (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
39. I live with one |
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Lil Missy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Feb-09-08 11:56 PM Response to Original message |
40. Nope. It's love or nothing with me. n/t |
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Deja Q (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 12:00 AM Response to Original message |
41. There can not. |
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crim son (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 12:31 AM Response to Original message |
44. No. If the friendship comes first, the "benefits" make it strange. |
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Kat45 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 01:36 AM Response to Original message |
45. I had one, off and on for close to three years. |
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He loved Big Brother (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 03:20 AM Response to Original message |
46. People sometimes confuse |
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Inchworm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 03:22 AM Response to Original message |
47. I have none |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 03:33 AM Response to Original message |
48. I want one... |
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Connonym (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 03:44 AM Response to Original message |
49. I have had and we no longer have benefits but are still good friends |
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billyskank (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 05:31 AM Response to Original message |
50. You're talking about health insurance here, right? |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 08:16 AM Response to Original message |
51. Been there, done that... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 08:24 AM Response to Reply #51 |
52. Well you could say more . . . |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 08:55 AM Response to Reply #52 |
53. Your suspicions are correct, Mr. Holmes... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 09:01 AM Response to Reply #53 |
54. There's another Mr. Holmes? |
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NewWaveChick1981 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 09:13 AM Response to Reply #54 |
55. Or some other private dick... |
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taterguy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 09:42 AM Response to Reply #55 |
56. You're not gonna accuse me of being Frank Cannon are you? |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 10:54 AM Response to Original message |
57. I've spent 30 yrs in a friends with benefits situation. |
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GaYellowDawg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Feb-10-08 12:04 PM Response to Original message |
58. Couldn't have one. |
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Beer Snob-50 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:30 PM Response to Original message |
61. what kind of benefits do they have? |
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Deep13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:37 PM Response to Original message |
62. Shit, why didn't we have that 20 years ago?! |
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MissMillie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
63. the only experience I have w/ this |
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La Lioness Priyanka (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:42 PM Response to Original message |
64. i had several. i am still friends w. most of them. |
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unpossibles (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:48 PM Response to Original message |
65. I have had them a few times |
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rbnyc (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:55 PM Response to Original message |
66. I've had many... |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Feb-11-08 02:58 PM Response to Original message |
67. They Can Be Wonderful Things. There Just Has To Be Mutual Understanding, Mutual Respect, |
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