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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:14 PM
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I Matter To Me...
whether I matter to you or not

I matter to me

so if I matter to you that is great and we nurture each other and support each other and the like.

If not, then we go on our separate ways.

That's just the way it is.

:hug:

to all that matter

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Midlodemocrat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:15 PM
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1. You matter to me.
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:18 PM
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2. you matter to me midlo
:hug:

thanks
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:20 PM
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3. you should matter to yourself.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:21 PM
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5. should and do aren't always the same thing
but i do matter to myself elrond

i matter and i am going to honor that fact by taking care of myself
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Danger Mouse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:32 PM
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15. i hope so.
i hope you do what you feel that you need to do to take care of yourself.
sometimes that thing is the hardest thing to do, but in the end...you feel much better for doing it.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:32 PM
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16. thanks elrond
:hug: :hug:
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zabet Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:21 PM
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4. ...
:hug:

I won't suggest
you pee in your
ear ever again.
x(
:D
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:22 PM
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6. sure go ahead
you matter

I matter

:hug:
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Fire Walk With Me Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:22 PM
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7. And that, is pretty much all that matters.
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:23 PM
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8. in the end it is all that matters
you matter man :hug: :hug:
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:24 PM
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9. You matter to me, my friend.
:hug::loveya:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:26 PM
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10. and you dear, matter to me
and I matter to me

:hug: :loveya:
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VenusRising Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:28 PM
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12. Hold on to that.
It's quite elusive. ;)
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:29 PM
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14. i am
i just realized how much

:hug:
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From The Ashes Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:27 PM
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11. You matter to me...
:hug: But you knew that, right? :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:28 PM
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13. i do know that
and you i hope know that you matter to me

and i matter to me

:hug: :hug:
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CaliforniaPeggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:49 PM
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17. My dear Southpawkicker...
And you know how much you matter to me, sweetie...

Always...I've got your back!

:hug:

:loveya:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jan-30-08 11:56 PM
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18. and you matter to me my dear peggy
:hug:

:loveya:

and I matter to me
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:04 AM
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19. I'm glad to hear you say that...
because you DO matter to me; and I would be very sad to think that you didn't matter to yourself. :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:05 AM
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20. you matter to me too
and i do matter to me

:hug: :hug:

thanks :loveya:
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:26 AM
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21. oh lemme tellya
reading that just made me a little weepy. I want to stand up and cheer. Does that sound goofy?

Did you get my pm, btw?

You SO matter. :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:37 AM
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25. yes i did my dear friend...
synchronicity and all... I appreciate it and just haven't replied to it


no it doesn't sound goofy!!!!

you are in my corner, remember!!!

I'm in yours too!

:hug: :hug: :hug:

:loveya:

you matter to me too

I matter to me
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zingaro Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 01:15 AM
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40. No rush
and no reply necessary unless you're up for it, kwim?

Just wanted to make sure. :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:16 PM
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46. there will be a reply
just might take me a day or two

a lot to digest there Zingy

:hug:
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mwdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:31 AM
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22. How's your ear?
I hope that clears up, since mine's starting to act up with the sinus infection I have. :hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:38 AM
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26. still a little stopped up in both ears
using drops

and taking maximum strength mucinex d and it seems to be helping a lot

thanks

:hug:
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mwdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:39 AM
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28. Mucinex d is working for me right now, and Astelyn for allergies.
It's not even Feb. yet, and my allergies are starting up!
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:41 AM
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30. yeah, i have indoor allergies
but antihistamines rarely help me much in the wintertime

i gotta drain

mucinex d helps a lot but this max strength is a little stronger than i like

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mwdem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:43 AM
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31. I'm 2 years plus in this area, and I'm starting to feel it.
It takes awhile, but it will kick in eventually. Drainage is good.
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:32 AM
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23. you're a good 'un
I'm glad that you matter to yourself, but I'm sure, not even including the DU, there are loads of people who you matter to.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:39 AM
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27. thanks...
i don't always feel like it

so i've got to matter to me first

and you and lots of DU'ers matter to me

friends in "real life" matter to me

family matters, especially my son to me

:hug:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:44 AM
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32. exactly
I was pretty down the last few days and not feeling like I was getting much done, but then I had a great rehearsal/meeting thing today that just lifted me up, because there was progress going on in MY worked - I was just chuffed. so... I understand that you've got to matter to yourself first - people aren't nearly as likely to respect you and care for you if you don't show them that you're worth respecting and caring for (and you are!). I don't have any kids, so I don't really know what that's like. I do know that my parents have always cared for me, and I'm a complete ass and a spoiled brat. The fact that they even put up with me just makes me love 'em more.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:47 AM
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33. i'm an ass and a spoiled brat too i'm sure
and my parents have always loved me

they didn't always like me

but they loved me

you are all right yourself ya know?

:hug:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:56 AM
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34. thanks
I like to think so :) I'm just neurotic and paranoid
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 01:02 AM
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37. me too
:rofl:
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harmonicon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 01:14 AM
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38. I would have never known
;)
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Fox Mulder Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:33 AM
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24. Everyone matters to me.
You, me, everyone.

:)
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:40 AM
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29. that's a good thing
you matter to me

lots of people matter, maybe everyone for that matter

me mattering to me, well that is something i haven't always felt, but need to work on and i matter to me.

:)
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havocmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 12:59 AM
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35. You matter
And you deserve to enjoy life.

We all do. But sometimes, it takes work. We are worth the work and need to befriend ourselves.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 01:02 AM
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36. Thanks Havoc
I agree

I need to enjoy life

deserve to

and I matter

so do you :hug: :hug:
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Inchworm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 01:15 AM
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39. Werd!
:pals:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:17 PM
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47. Werd back
:hug:
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lost-in-nj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 08:03 AM
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41. It's amazing
when something we knew all along hits us between the eyes....
wait until you realize that the only person you can count on for anything is yourself...
that one can knock you over.

Yes you do matter SPK.... to a lot of people
here and IRL.
I matter to.....
just working on figuring how much.....



:hug: :hi:

lost
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:17 PM
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48. I've known the only person I can totally count on is me
for a long time

you do matter

I matter

:hug:
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MissMillie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 08:14 AM
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42. you matter to me too
the world is a better place w/ you in it.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:18 PM
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49. well thanks
I imagine the world is a better place with you in it too Millie

it is for me anyway :hug: :hug:

we both matter
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 08:50 AM
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43. ..
It's all been said upthread, but I'm happy to hear that you feel that way.
You matter to me too.
:hug:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:18 PM
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50. All but IBTL
but you matter and I matter

we matter

:hug:
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Gormy Cuss Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 07:57 PM
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56. and
IBTL.}(
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 08:04 PM
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57. i knew it
i just knew it!

:rofl:
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Parche Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 11:30 AM
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44. Anti Matter
:hi:
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:19 PM
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51. matters too
and so do you

:hug:
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datasuspect Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 11:42 AM
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45. i'm good enough, i'm smart enough
and gosh darnit, people like me.
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:19 PM
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52. Okay Stuart
you matter too

:hi:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 06:20 PM
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53. i certainly do.
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alphafemale Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 07:07 PM
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54. Aw Sweetie!
:hug:

Somehow with the movie quotes in the other topics you reminded me of this.

John Candy. from Planes, Trains and Automobiles

"You wanna hurt me? Go right ahead if it makes you feel any better. I'm an easy target. Yeah, you're right, I talk too much. I also listen too much. I could be a cold-hearted cynic like you... but I don't like to hurt people's feelings. Well, you think what you want about me; I'm not changing. I like... I like me. My wife likes me. My customers like me. 'Cause I'm the real article. What you see is what you get."


Why is it that the best comedies so often have parts that about break your heart?
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SPKrazy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Thu Jan-31-08 07:57 PM
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55. thanks
:hug:
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