Can I blubber about my friend?

[LaraMN]

My closest friend is going through a really awful time, at present.
A few years ago, her husband owned a very successful business, they had tons of money, and were raising their four daughters together. Now the business has gone south and they are divorcing.

I spent part of the weekend at my friend's new (rented) house. It's TINY, old, and she had no furniture and not a single thing but her own clothing to bring to it, as of a few weeks ago. On Saturday the two of us put together bunk beds for her kids, assembled her new (used) bed, fixed a few things around the house and had a great time together. We have fun together no matter what we are doing.

My friend has practically nothing, after having more material wealth than many of us will ever have, and she doesn't even complain. She's about to turn 36, she's trying to finish college, she's raising four kids (one of whom is physically and mentally disabled,) and now she has to start out a new life as a single mom. She is completely amazing. Although she readily acknowledges her problems, she still laughs, takes wonderful care of her kids, and has the most inspiring attitude. She never forgets what's going on in my life even when she's insanely busy. We celebrate every good event, regardless how minor it may be, as though the other's success is our own, because it almost feels that way. I love her to bits.

I wish everyone could have a friend like my Connie; someone who never takes for granted the good things they have and treats everyone in their lives with kindness, humor, empathy, and generosity. I'm really proud of her and I'm so freaking lucky to be her friend, I can't even express it.

:-) :-) :-)

[La Lioness Priyanka]

that is amazing

:hug:

[LaraMN]

2. She absolutely is. She's also capable of being fabulously silly.

She makes everyone around her happy; she's magnetically warm and personable.

[La Lioness Priyanka]

1. that is amazing

:hug:

[tigereye]

3. wow, good for her to have such a positive attitude

I wish her well. She sounds like a great friend.

[LaraMN]

4. She'll do great things, I have little doubt.

She has a lot of energy and ambition. When I was dreading turning thirty, I thought of her. She's full of life, fun, and the kind of friend you can pour your heart out to.

[Zoigal]

5. Connie sounds like a terrific person.

And so do you for recognizing and appreciating all of her wonderful qualities. z

[crim son]

6. She sounds exceptional and I hope her luck turns around.

It sounds like she has what it takes to survive her situation but it must still be very difficult.

[Tuesday Afternoon]

7. K&R for all good friends, everywhere.

Connie rocks.

[RoadRage]

8. Your friend sounds really inspiring..

Kudos to her for keeping her head up. Karma exists.. and it will come back to surprise her in the best ways (hopefully soon)! And those daughters will realize what a great mom they have (if they haven't already) when their making millions. :)